Unhooked: Breaking Porn Addiction Podcast

In this episode of Unhooked, I sit down with Melinda Tankard Reist, a journalist and author of the book 'He Chose Porn Over Me.' We explore the devastating effects of pornography on women, relationships, and society. Melinda shares insights from her book on how women are affected by their partners' porn addiction, including emotional and physical health impacts. Our discussion also highlights the broader societal consequences, such as an increase in sexual harassment in schools and a rise in youth sex offenders. Despite the overwhelming challenges, Melinda calls for collective action to address these issues and support affected individuals. Expect to learn: - The emotional and physical impacts of porn addiction on women and girls - what is causing the increase in sexual harassment and harmful behaviors in schoolsHow the global porn industry perpetuates misogyny and racism - The challenges in regulating and addressing the porn industry's influence - Steps you can take to combat the negative effects of pornography on young women and young menand much more.. .Links to Connect with Melinda:www.melindatankardreist.com; Instagram @meltankardreist; X: @meltankardreist; FB: https:facebook.com/MelindaTankardReist...............Interested in joining the Unhooked Academy Group Program? Sign up for a free call:https://www.unhookedacademy.com/Looking for a self-led journey with the Unhooked Online Course:https://jeremylipkowitz.mykajabi.com/unhookedInterested in personal  1:1 coaching? Click here: https://www.jeremylipkowitz.com/introConnect with me on Social:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JeremyLipkowitz--------------Shownotes00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:13 Discussing 'He Chose Porn Over Me'01:55 Impact of Pornography on Relationships04:14 Societal Consequences of Pornography06:41 Sexual Harassment in Schools18:17 Global Porn Industry and Racism19:40 Challenges in Addressing Pornography22:37 Positive Changes and Hope34:25 Advice for Men in Relationships41:25 Final Thoughts and Contact Information

In this episode of Unhooked, I have the pleasure of speaking with Marshall Ballantine Jones, the CEO of DigiHealth Publishing and founder of Resist Ministries. We delve into the complex neurological impacts of pornography addiction, particularly among adolescents, and explore how it affects relationships and society at large. Marshall brings to light evidence-based strategies for overcoming porn addiction, highlighting the importance of community support and fostering a compelling vision for recovery. We also discuss the ethical concerns surrounding the porn industry and the critical role of education in combating its influence. Tune in to learn more about the science behind addiction and effective methods for recovery.Links to Connect with Marshall: digihelp.io; resistprogram.org...............Interested in joining the Unhooked Academy Group Program? Sign up for a free call:https://www.unhookedacademy.com/Looking for a self-led journey with the Unhooked Online Course:https://jeremylipkowitz.mykajabi.com/unhookedInterested in personal  1:1 coaching? Click here: https://www.jeremylipkowitz.com/introConnect with me on Social:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JeremyLipkowitz--------------Shownotes00:00 The Impact of Dopamine on Teenage Brains01:42 Introduction to Marshall Ballantine Jones03:30 Marshall's Journey into Porn Addiction Research05:42 Faulty Solutions and Neurology of Addiction07:47 Understanding the Neurological Impact of Pornography18:45 The Adolescent Brain and Pornography21:40 The Harms of Pornography32:09 The Societal Impact of Pornography37:08 Effective Strategies for Overcoming Porn Addiction50:19 Final Thoughts and Resources

In this episode, I share my three-part framework to help you break free from porn addiction in 2025 - even if you're just starting out. I'll talk about the importance of connecting with a community, creating a strategic roadmap, and doing deep emotional work. ...............Interested in joining the Unhooked Academy Group Program? Sign up for a free call:https://www.unhookedacademy.com/Looking for a self-led journey with the Unhooked Online Course:https://jeremylipkowitz.mykajabi.com/unhookedInterested in personal  1:1 coaching? Click here: https://www.jeremylipkowitz.com/introConnect with me on Social:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JeremyLipkowitz--------------00:00 Introduction: Starting Your Recovery Journey01:48 Level One: Get Connected04:19 Level Two: Get a Roadmap06:00 Level Three: Get Deep08:21 Unhooked Academy: Your Path to Freedom

James Oliver is a Self-Leadership Coach and Men’s Work Facilitator from the UK. He works with impact-driven men from around the world, to help them overcome resistance, self-doubt and shame, so that they can live freely, joyfully and in pursuit of their highest potential and purpose.In today's episode, James and I talk about how to overcome victim mentality and embrace radical responsibility. Expect to learnthe difference between victimhood and a victim mindset Consequences of a Victim MindsetHow Shame and the Victim Mindset intersect Patterns of Victim Mentality that show up often with Menpractical tools and mindsets to help you reclaim your personal power. and much more Connect with James: https://jamesoliver.co/ & https://www.instagram.com/iamjamesoliver/................ Interested in joining the Unhooked Academy Group Program? Sign up for a free call:https://www.unhookedacademy.com/Looking for a self-led journey with the Unhooked Online Course:https://jeremylipkowitz.mykajabi.com/unhookedInterested in personal  1:1 coaching? Click here: https://www.jeremylipkowitz.com/introConnect with me on Social:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JeremyLipkowitz--------------Shownotes00:00 Understanding Our Contribution to Pain01:10 Welcome Back to Unhooked01:54 Exploring Victim Mentality03:13 Personal Reflections on Victimhood11:30 Consequences of a Victim Mindset16:24 Helping Others See Their Victim Mentality26:17 Patterns of Victim Mentality in Men30:31 The Burden of Responsibility in Relationships32:13 Recognizing Victim Mentality34:38 Empowerment Through Acceptance36:57 Inspiring Stories of Overcoming Adversity45:36 Actionable Steps to Overcome Victim Mindset50:15 Final Thoughts and Resources

Roland Cochrun, an entrepreneur and addiction recovery expert, sheds light on the often-overlooked world of process addiction, particularly among high-achieving men. He discusses the differences between process and substance addictions and shares personal insights into the challenges of recovery. The conversation delves into the societal implications of compulsive behaviors, the ethical dilemmas of virtual pornography, and the importance of authentic fulfillment. Cochrun emphasizes empathy and personal growth as essential tools in the journey toward overcoming addiction.

Paul Austin, the founder of Third Wave and the Psychedelic Coaching Institute, discusses the transformative power of psychedelics in healing addictions, including pornography. He shares his own journey of recovery and emphasizes intentional use as key to their effectiveness. The conversation covers practical guidance for newcomers, highlighting the importance of community support and professional education. Additionally, Austin explains how psychedelics can create new mental pathways, fostering personal growth and emotional release.

Explore the pivotal moments that drive lasting change in overcoming addiction. Personal stories reveal the importance of hitting rock bottom and recognizing key stages of transformation. Inspired by Tony Robbins, listeners learn about the journey from satiation to creating a new identity. This insightful discussion encourages introspection and proactive steps towards recovery, offering strategies for long-term transformation. Tune in for motivation on navigating through addiction with mindfulness and emotional resilience.

The discussion highlights the significant impact of isolation on addiction recovery. Emphasizing the importance of community support, it reveals how recognizing shared struggles can reduce shame. The concept of 'common humanity' is explored, showcasing how connection inspires hope. Inspiring case studies illustrate the benefits of engaging with a supportive community, leading to better relationships and self-esteem. Listeners are encouraged to embrace their journey and realize they are not alone in their recovery.

Today on the podcast I talk about a framework that I learned which is all about thinking about what you love, and what you want to cultivate in your life, rather than focusing on what you hate or are trying to get away from.This orientation gives a much stronger fuel source for your recovery. And in this episode I talk about some examples and how to practice it.------------Interested in joining the Unhooked Academy Group Program? Sign up for a free call:https://www.unhookedacademy.com/Looking for a self-led journey with the Unhooked Online Course:https://jeremylipkowitz.mykajabi.com/unhookedInterested in personal  1:1 coaching? Click here: https://www.jeremylipkowitz.com/introConnect with me on Social:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JeremyLipkowitz------------Shownotes00:00 Introduction to the Unhooked Podcast00:19 The Power of Loving What's in Front of You01:39 Focusing on Positive Goals04:13 Examples of Positive Reframing05:58 Dream Life Visualization Exercise09:29 Balancing Negative and Positive Focus11:24 Conclusion and Listener Engagement

Discover the transformative power of silent meditation retreats! Unplug and detox from digital distractions while enjoying the joy of seclusion. Learn to appreciate life’s little moments and reshape your thought patterns. Cultivating wisdom and compassion offers personal growth that can lead to deeper fulfillment. This journey is all about finding inner peace and reconnecting with your true self.