

Unhooked: Breaking Porn Addiction Podcast
Jeremy Lipkowitz
Unhooked is a podcast dedicated to helping people break free from porn addiction and other compulsive behaviors related to the internet, sex, and intimacy. Rooted in Buddhist wisdom, neuroscience, coaching, and mindfulness, the show explores practical strategies for lasting recovery and personal transformation. Each episode features leading experts, scientists, coaches, and individuals in recovery, sharing their insights, experiences, and expertise to guide listeners on their path to healing and freedom.
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Oct 2, 2023 • 56min
Behind the Smile: A Journey from Addiction to Authenticity w/ Ash Butterss
Interested in getting 1:1 coaching support? Learn about my Coaching Program and book a free discovery call: https://www.jeremylipkowitz.com/introGET NOTIFIED WHEN DOORS OPEN TO UNHOOKED RECOVERY: https://jeremylipkowitz.mykajabi.com/unhookedConnect on Social:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremylipkowitz/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JeremyLipkowitz51. Ash Butterss - Behind the Smile: A Journey from Addiction to Authenticity You’re listening to the "Unhooked Podcast.” Welcome back to the show. My guest today is Ash Butterss. Ash is a well-being mentor and the creator and host of Behind The Smile – a recovery podcast designed to remove the stigma around mental health, trauma and addiction.After making the decision to get sober in 2020, Ash set out on a mission, quitting her corporate job and diving deeply into the world of self-development and recovery. Her mission is to smash through the stereotype that surrounds addiction and to help people live a fulfilled life connected to their purpose. In this episode Ash is going to take us on a personal journey into the depths of her own struggle with addiction. We'll delve into the topics of codependency What approval sucking looks like, and how to stop people pleasing the importance of authenticity and the healing that comes from honest relationships. And Finally, the heavy issue of shame and its role in addiction. So, get ready to be inspired, enlightened, and moved as we embark on this episode of the "Unhooked Podcast.” https://www.instagram.com/ashbutterss/ ---- www.ashbutterss.com ----- www.linkedin.com/in/ashbutterss/

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Sep 25, 2023 • 1h 23min
From Porn Addict to Buddhist Monk; A Conversation with Jeremy Lipkowitz & Mary Tilson
Jeremy Lipkowitz, a former porn addict turned Buddhist monk, discusses the neuroscience of porn addiction, its impact on men and women, and ways to overcome addiction. The podcast delves into the hidden consequences of pornography consumption, analyzing the benefits and drawbacks, and explores the metaphor of the hungry ghost as a representation of insatiable cravings. Lipkowitz also reflects on the role of porn addiction in the search for happiness, emphasizes the power of envisioning in addiction recovery, and provides practical tips for implementing habits to overcome addiction.

Sep 18, 2023 • 1h 21min
12-Step Recovery and the God Question: Demystifying the 12 Steps, w/ Arlina Allen
Interested in getting 1:1 coaching support? Learn about my Coaching Program and book a free discovery call: https://www.jeremylipkowitz.com/introGET NOTIFIED WHEN DOORS OPEN TO UNHOOKED RECOVERY: https://jeremylipkowitz.mykajabi.com/unhookedConnect on Social:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremylipkowitz/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JeremyLipkowitz49. Arlina Allen - 12-Step Recovery and the God Question: Demystifying the 12 Steps Welcome to another episode of the Unhooked podcast! I'm your host, Jeremy, and today, we have a truly special guest with us. Arlina Allen is a Certified Recovery Coach, the Founder of Sober Life School, and the host of the award-winning recovery podcast "The One Day At A Time Podcast," which she's been running since June 2016.In this episode, Arlina and I dive deep into her remarkable journey in addiction recovery. She shares her insights on identifying the root causes of addiction and alleviating unnecessary suffering. Arlina opens up about her own traumatic experiences from childhood and how they led her down the path of addiction as a coping mechanism.One of the core themes we explore is the idea that addiction is often a symptom of deeper issues. Arlina emphasizes the importance of addressing these underlying issues and discusses the role of 12-step programs in her own recovery journey. These programs provided her with a structured process for self-examination and self-compassion, which proved to be invaluable in her healing process.Throughout our conversation, we also touch on various aspects of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and the broader topic of addiction recovery. Arlina sheds light on why some individuals have strong reactions to terms like "alcoholic" and how it can be seen as both a badge of honor and a source of shame.We delve into the history of AA meetings and how the practice of introducing oneself as an alcoholic became a common tradition. The concept of powerlessness in AA and its relationship to addiction recovery is another point of discussion, with Arlina offering her unique perspective.Arlina shares her insights on the role of a higher power in the recovery process and highlights the importance of community and social support. Sharing one's struggles with others can be a powerful tool in preventing relapse.In our conversation, Arlina highlights several key takeaways, including:Misconceptions about AA and how reframing certain words and concepts can lead to a deeper understanding.The transformative process in recovery and how discomfort and resistance can ultimately lead to personal growth.An openness to different paths to recovery, beyond AA, including psychedelic-assisted therapies.The incredible power of service in the recovery journey, both for personal growth and helping others.A teaser for a future episode where Arlina plans to delve into the topic of resolving resentment in relationships, a subject that many individuals dealing with addiction and recovery can relate to.Sober Life School- http://www.soberlifeschool.comReinvent - Self Esteem Course http://www.selfesteemcourse.comPodcast http://www.odaatchat.comFB: facebook.com/odaatchat IG: @odaatpodcast @arlinaallenSo, without further ado, let's dive into this enlightening conversation with A

Sep 11, 2023 • 14min
The Bliss of Blamelessness: How Living with Integrity Can Transform Your Life & Your Recovery
Interested in getting 1:1 coaching support? Learn about my Coaching Program and book a free discovery call: https://www.jeremylipkowitz.com/introGET NOTIFIED WHEN DOORS OPEN TO UNHOOKED RECOVERY: https://jeremylipkowitz.mykajabi.com/unhookedConnect on Social:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremylipkowitz/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JeremyLipkowitz48. Breaking Free: How Living with Integrity Can Transform Your Life & Your RecoveryWelcome to another episode of the Unhooked podcast, the place to learn how to break free from compulsive behaviors and bad habits, so that you can create the life you want.Porn addiction often leads to a dual life, one where we're constantly hiding, concealing, and living with the ever-present fear of being found out. But there's more to it than just the fear of exposure. It's the belief that we're inherently flawed, undeserving of happiness and love, which can lead us to self-sabotage.We'll dive into the various ways this distress manifests, from the fear of getting caught to the heavy burden of guilt and shame for the harm we've caused ourselves and others. But fear not, for in contrast to this torment lies the bliss of blamelessness.In Buddhist practice, ethics lay the foundation for a mindful life. The Buddha himself taught the importance of ethical living before delving into meditation, recognizing that ethics are the gateway to a happier, more peaceful existence. By living in accordance with our values and embracing ethical principles, we pave the way for the bliss of blamelessness.The five precepts of Buddhism, including refraining from harm, theft, dishonesty, sexual misconduct, and intoxicants that lead to heedlessness, offer a solid framework for ethical living. It's not about sins or judgment but rather about training ourselves to experience greater happiness and clarity.Join me as we explore the path to living with the bliss of blamelessness, a journey that involves understanding and aligning with our ethical principles. As you'll discover, this path leads to a life free from fear, anxiety, and the burden of secrecy.So, if you're ready to embark on this journey toward integrity and recovery, hit that subscribe button so you never miss an episode. Leaving a review on Apple Podcasts also helps spread the word about our podcast. And if you're interested in one-on-one coaching to support your journey, check out the show notes for more information.Key topics we cover on today's podcast: consistency, motivation, inspiration, habits, professional, hard work, Cal Newport, deep work, ----------------------------------------About Jeremy:Jeremy Lipkowitz is a meditation teacher, coach, and digital habits expert on a mission to empower men to reclaim their minds, thrive in their relationships, and embrace a life of integrity. His impactful work in helping men break free from porn addiction has been featured in places like Men's Health Magazine and Livestrong. With a decade of meditation teaching and coaching under his belt, he's enabled countless men to break free from the chains of addiction and step into their true potential. He is the founder and creator of the Unhooked Recovery program, a 30-day intensive reboot for men looking to break free from addiction at the root.

Sep 4, 2023 • 9min
Inspiration is for amateurs: Why just doing the work is critical for consistent progress
Interested in getting 1:1 coaching support? Learn about my Coaching Program and book a free discovery call: https://www.jeremylipkowitz.com/introGET NOTIFIED WHEN DOORS OPEN TO UNHOOKED RECOVERY: https://jeremylipkowitz.mykajabi.com/unhookedConnect on Social:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremylipkowitz/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JeremyLipkowitz47. Inspiration is for amateurs: Why just doing the work is critical for consistent progressWelcome to another episode of the Unhooked podcast, the place to learn how to break free from compulsive behaviors and bad habits, so that you can create the life you want.If you found this episode helpful, please let me know by leaving a review! I would love to hear from you.Key topics we cover on today's podcast: consistency, motivation, inspiration, habits, professional, hard work, Cal Newport, deep work, ----------------------------------------About Jeremy:Jeremy Lipkowitz is a meditation teacher, coach, and digital habits expert on a mission to empower men to reclaim their minds, thrive in their relationships, and embrace a life of integrity. His impactful work in helping men break free from porn addiction has been featured in places like Men's Health Magazine and Livestrong. With a decade of meditation teaching and coaching under his belt, he's enabled countless men to break free from the chains of addiction and step into their true potential. He is the founder and creator of the Unhooked Recovery program, a 30-day intensive reboot for men looking to break free from addiction at the root.

Aug 28, 2023 • 1h 23min
What 20 years of meditation taught this recovery mentor about addiction and finding freedom within, w/ Nichole Proffitt
Guest Nichole Proffitt, a recovery mentor, shares her insights on addiction, recovery, and mindfulness. She discusses the importance of finding inner peace, self-compassion, and embracing imperfections. The chapter also explores the relationship between external needs, healthy relationships, and vulnerability in healing addiction and codependency.

Aug 23, 2023 • 15min
Web Blockers: Are They Helpful or Harmful in Overcoming Porn Addiction? Exploring apps like Covenant Eyes and BlockerX
Is using web blockers beneficial in the fight against porn addiction? Discover the advantages of apps like Covenant Eyes and BlockerX in limiting triggers and fostering healing. Dive into the concept of behavioral architecture to understand how environment shapes habits. While external tools can be useful, the importance of inner transformation and personal growth remains pivotal. Explore the balance between relying on support and addressing core issues to create lasting change.

Aug 21, 2023 • 1h 1min
A Sober Life Coach's Guide to Thriving in Recovery, w/ Courtney Anderson
Links To Resources:Unhooked Recovery: Break free from porn in 30-days: https://jeremylipkowitz.mykajabi.com/unhookedLearn about my 1:1 Coaching Program: https://www.jeremylipkowitz.com/introConnect on Social:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremylipkowitz/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JeremyLipkowitz44. Courtney Anderson - A Sober Life Coach's Guide to Thriving in Recovery Welcome to another episode of the Unhooked podcast, the place to learn how to break free from compulsive behaviors and bad habits, so that you can create the life you want.My guest today is Courtney Anderson. Courtney Andersen is a sober life coach, podcast host, and author. She is the founder of Sober Vibes and National Sober Day. She helps high-achieving women quit drinking alcohol and thrive in sobrietyIn this podcast episode, we explore:Courtney's journey through addiction and her process of making the decision to start her recoveryHow Courtney sustains continuous growth, incorporating meditation, gratitude journaling, personal development, and physical activity...Why staying humble is crucial in the recovery journey, and how Courtney approaches itwhy breaking the shame cycle is so important?Why we need personalized approaches to recovery, not one-size fits all approachesThe importance of rest And much much moreMore about Courtney:Website- https://www.courtneyrecovered.comIG- https://www.instagram.com/sober.vibesTT- https://www.tiktok.com/@sobervibesofficial FB- https://www.facebook.com/sobervibes Podcast- https://www.courtneyrecovered.com/podcast Free 30-day sober, not boring calendar- https://www.courtneyrecovered.com/opt-inIf you found this episode helpful, please let me know by leaving a review! I would love to hear from you.----------------------------------------About Jeremy:Jeremy Lipkowitz is a meditation teacher, coach, and digital habits expert on a mission to empower men to reclaim their minds, thrive in their relationships, and embrace a life of integrity. His impactful work in helping men break free from porn addiction has been featured in places like Men's Health Magazine and Livestrong. With a decade of meditation teaching and coaching under his belt, he's enabled countless men to break free from the chains of addiction and step into their true potential. He is the founder and creator of the Unhooked Recovery program, a 30-day intensive reboot for men looking to break free from addiction at the root.

Aug 14, 2023 • 1h 39min
What Does Healthy Masculinity Really Look Like? And Can Men's Circles Help You Transform? w/ Richard Ayling
Links To Resources:Unhooked Recovery: Break free from porn in 30-days: https://jeremylipkowitz.mykajabi.com/unhookedLearn about my 1:1 Coaching Program: https://www.jeremylipkowitz.com/introConnect on Social:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremylipkowitz/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JeremyLipkowitz43. Richard Ayling - What Does Healthy Masculinity Really Look Like? And Can Men's Circles Help You Transform? Welcome to another episode of the Unhooked podcast, the place to learn how to break free from compulsive behaviors and bad habits, so that you can create the life you want.My guest today is Richard Ayling. Richard is a coach, consultant and retreat facilitator working in the personal development and corporate wellness space, helping professionals and entrepreneurs create healthier relationships and mental wellbeing through self-leadership and emotional strength training.He combines over 30,000 hours as a communication skills coach with extensive knowledge of mindset and embodiment work, to design & facilitate corporate wellness programs and retreats internationally.His mission in men's work is to redefine healthy masculinity; to help men bring more depth and value to their world, to support each other more, lead with emotional intelligence and communicate in healthier ways.Rich successfully overcame an autoimmune disease, is a recovering 'nice guy', and was one of the first instructors trained by Wim Hof.I LOVED this conversation with Rich, as we dive into subjects that don’t get a lot of airtime. We dive into a wide array of compelling subjects, including the nuances of modern masculinity and the challenges men face when seeking support in today's world. The conversation also explores the "nice guy" syndrome and delves into the qualities that men can nurture within themselves to foster a more balanced and healthier masculine presence. The episode offers listeners insights into * the positive impact and tangible benefits of men's circles.* toxic masculinity and balancing the masculine and feminine * the impact of pornography of mental health and intimacy* personal growth journeys and cultivating self worthMore about Richard:IG & FB: richrealign linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/richard-ayling-40701628/ website: re-align.coIf you found this episode helpful, please let me know by leaving a review! I would love to hear from you.----------------------------------------About Jeremy:Jeremy Lipkowitz is a meditation teacher, coach, and digital habits expert on a mission to empower men to reclaim their minds, thrive in their relationships, and embrace a life of integrity. His impactful work in helping men break free from porn addiction has been featured in places like Men's Health Magazine and Livestrong. With a decade of meditation teaching and coaching under his belt, he's enabled countless men to break free from the chains of addiction and step into their true potential. He is the founder and creator of the Unhooked Recovery program, a 30-day intensive reboot for men looking to break free from addiction at the root. Jeremy's own triumph over addiction, shame, and self-judgment using mindfulness meditation in his early twenties ignited his purpose in this area. Over the past

Jul 31, 2023 • 13min
Should you stop masturbating when breaking free from porn addiction?
The discussion dives into whether those overcoming porn addiction should also stop masturbating. It presents varying perspectives on masturbation as a potential normal part of recovery, while also highlighting reasons to consider an abstinence period. The podcast also explores personal relationships with masturbation, ejaculation, and concepts like semen retention and sexual transmutation. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences, making for an engaging conversation that balances serious topics with light-hearted moments.