Polycurious
Non-monogamy is not for everyone, but you might be curious about it. Could it be right for you? How do non-monogamous couples deal with jealousy? I was curious myself, and the more I asked, the more I became surprised by this unexplored topic. In Polycurious I have casual and intimate conversations with non-monogamous couples, sex and relationship experts, friends, and even people who tried polyamory and realized it wasn’t for them. This podcast is for the polycurious, whether you have explored non-monogamy or not.
Latest episodes
Jul 1, 2025 • 1h 4min
60. Two Families, One Polycule with Catherine and Brian
Catherine and Brian went on Feeld looking for a threesome but things took a turn when Catherine fell for a woman who’s also married with a daughter. Now the two couples (and their kids) have formed a loving polycule built on honesty and care.In today’s episode, we talk about how Brian stays sensually connected to the dynamic by being submissive, even though he’s not sexually involved with Catherine’s girlfriend. We get into how they’ve navigated Catherine having threesomes with her girlfriend and her girlfriend’s husband. We also explore the importance of staying open to evolving dynamics, and why asking thoughtful questions can go further than quick reassurance when your partner is struggling in non-monogamy.Resources mentioned:Ep.46 More Than A Mother with Molly Roden WinterMore Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory (book)Sex with Emily podcastBonus content: Raising a child in a polycule:https://www.patreon.com/posts/133008939/Join our Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousGet my free guide to opening up here:https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me here:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community herehttps://chat.whatsapp.com/CIo9i8FTioT0ebfU3QmNqVJoin our Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousFollow Polycurious onInstagramTik TokYouTubeFacebookThreads
Jun 17, 2025 • 58min
59. Masculinity & Non-Monogamy: A Man’s Memoir with Adam of Seek the Risk
Adam is the author of Seek the Risk, the only memoir I know of by a man about non-monogamy. In this episode, he shares how being with a female partner who was more sexually active than he was challenged his sense of masculinity. He talks about how he overcame those feelings using techniques from his extreme sports background, including recognizing harmful inner narratives and reframing fear. Get Adam's Book "Seek the Risk"seektherisk.netWrite to Adam: adam@seektherisk.netRead Adam's Substack:seektherisk.substack.comJoin our Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousGet my free guide to opening up here:https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me here:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community herehttps://chat.whatsapp.com/CIo9i8FTioT0ebfU3QmNqVJoin our Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousFollow Polycurious onInstagramTik TokYouTubeFacebookThreads
Jun 3, 2025 • 56min
58. All About MFM Threesomes with Didi & Alex
In the second part of my conversation with Alex and Didi, we’re diving deep into MFM (male-female-male) threesomes, something they’ve explored together, and that Alex has a lot of experience with solo. He shares how he went from feeling uncomfortable with seeing his partner receive pleasure from another man to actually making it one of his biggest kinks.We talk about why this dynamic can be incredibly enjoyable, how to avoid jealousy, and how shifting your mindset can transform the entire experience.Follow Didi on Instagram at ethicallynonmongamous:https://www.instagram.com/ethicallynonmonogamous/Listen to Didi's podcast, The Non-Monogamous SpectrumSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0hwFZNSmLwDdDI1aUOvfT5?si=a2c04ea3e07c49aaApple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-non-monogamy-spectrum/id1818259334Join our Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousGet my free guide to opening up herehttps://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me here:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community herehttps://chat.whatsapp.com/CIo9i8FTioT0ebfU3QmNqVJoin our Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousFollow Polycurious onInstagramTik TokYouTubeFacebookThreads
May 20, 2025 • 1h
57. Navigating Couple-to-Couple Play with Didi & Alex
Today, Didi and Alex talk about what it’s like to be in a relationship where one partner is just beginning to explore non-monogamy while the other has years of experience. We also get into the complexities of couple-to-couple play, including the communication challenges, mismatched expectations, and lessons learned from their early experiences.Follow Didi on Instagram at ethicallynonmongamous:https://www.instagram.com/ethicallynonmonogamous/Listen to Didi's podcast, The Non-Monogamous SpectrumSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0hwFZNSmLwDdDI1aUOvfT5?si=a2c04ea3e07c49aaApple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-non-monogamy-spectrum/id1818259334Join our Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousGet my free guide to opening up herehttps://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me herehttps://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community herehttps://chat.whatsapp.com/CIo9i8FTioT0ebfU3QmNqVJoin our Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousFollow Polycurious onInstagramTik TokYouTubeFacebookThreads
May 6, 2025 • 1h 5min
56. Can a Kinky Relationship Be Asexual? Annie Undone Says Yes
Today, Annie Undone opens up about her long-distance Dominant/submissive relationship (where she was the dom) with an asexual partner and what it taught her about intimacy. She also shares her journey from monogamy to polyamory and back again, her experience leaving an abusive marriage and dating someone 14 years younger, and why staying grounded in yourself outside of romantic relationships is so important.Resources mentioned:From Polycurious to Poly Part 1: https://www.patreon.com/posts/127305023?utm_campaign=postshare_creatorPolycurious YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@polycuriouspodcastAnnie's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annie_undone/Annie's writing: https://ko-fi.com/annieundone/shopFetLife: https://fetlife.com/Discord: https://discord.com/Feeld: https://feeld.co/Get my free guide to opening up herehttps://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me herehttps://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community herehttps://chat.whatsapp.com/CIo9i8FTioT0ebfU3QmNqVJoin our Patreon herehttps://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousFollow Polycurious onInstagramTik TokFacebookThreads
Apr 22, 2025 • 1h 2min
55. Aryn & Josh From Couples Therapy
Today Aryn and Josh from Couples Therapy discuss their decade-long journey navigating polyamory, including their experience in a triad, Josh’s process of overcoming discomfort with Aryn dating other men, and how they use conflict as an opportunity to model how they want to be treated by each other.Watch Couples Therapy on Paramount: https://www.paramountplus.com/shows/couples-therapy/Listen to the episode with Lorena (Josh's Ex): https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep40Get my free guide to opening up herehttps://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me herehttps://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community herehttps://chat.whatsapp.com/CIo9i8FTioT0ebfU3QmNqVJoin our Patreon herehttps://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousFollow Polycurious onInstagramTik TokYouTubeFacebookThreads
Apr 8, 2025 • 54min
54. When Their Actions Don't Match Their Words with Daniella Guimaraes (Velvet Ties)
Daniella Guimaraes is a non-monogamous matchmaker and founder of Velvet Ties social club. Today she shares her CNM journey, why she prefers starting relationships fully open, and lessons from a past partner whose actions contradicted his words. She also tells us how Velvet Ties is bringing the community together and what you have to do to become a part of it.Learn more about the Croatia trip here (make sure to mention Polycurious for $500 off):https://partiful.com/e/ULTwpIFxb5ocL6qjFAwlLearn more about Velvet Ties here (make sure to mention Polycurious for $500 off):velvetties.comFollow Velvet Ties and Daniella on Instagram here:https://www.instagram.com/velvetties_/Get my free guide to opening up herehttps://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me herehttps://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community herehttps://chat.whatsapp.com/CIo9i8FTioT0ebfU3QmNqVJoin our Patreon herehttps://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousFollow Polycurious onInstagramTik TokYouTubeFacebookThreads
Mar 25, 2025 • 1h 7min
53. How to Fortify Your Relationship with Lamees and Nick
Lamees and Nick share their transition from non-monogamy to the stability of monogamy. They introduce a framework for 'relationship fortification' that emphasizes honest communication and regular check-ins. Personal anecdotes reveal challenges like emotional manipulation and the importance of self-expression. Through structured conversations, they tackle jealousy and vulnerability, reinforcing the value of validating emotions. The duo explores the complexities of flirting within relationships and the role of gratitude in building deeper connections.
Mar 11, 2025 • 1h 31min
52. How to Find Safety with Luna & Leo
Today, I’m sitting down with my dear friends Luna and Leo for what might be the longest and most insightful conversation I’ve ever recorded.Luna shares her journey of leaving a toxic non-monogamous relationship and finding something healthier and more fulfilling with Leo. We dive into their personal triggers, how their past experiences shaped them, and the self-awareness they’ve gained through opening up. Plus, we talk about the baby steps they’re taking to build a relationship that honors both freedom and emotional security.Book a free exploratory call with me herehttps://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community herehttps://chat.whatsapp.com/CIo9i8FTioT0ebfU3QmNqVJoin our Patreon herehttps://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousFollow Polycurious onInstagramTik TokFacebookTwitterYouTube
Feb 25, 2025 • 1h 7min
51. Hotwife, Mono-Poly or Something Else?
Ellie and Cole went from both being non-monogamous to just Ellie playing with others. But that doesn’t mean Cole doesn’t benefit! Ellie shares videos and pictures of her encounters and brings the sexual energy into their relationship when she gets home. We dive into how this (some might say hotwifing) arrangement works, the conversations that made it possible, and their journey from playing together to settling into a mono-poly dynamic.Listen to Ellie's podcast 'Kink with Alex + EllieSubstack:https://talkingkinkpodcast.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6tg4geRbYCJWl2SmwweVodApple:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/talking-kink-with-alex-ellie/id1727462400To My Stag, My Hubby full audio:https://soundgasm.net/u/ParcaeNona/To-my-Stag-my-HubbyBook a free exploratory call with me herehttps://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community herehttps://chat.whatsapp.com/CIo9i8FTioT0ebfU3QmNqVJoin our Patreon herehttps://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousFollow Polycurious onInstagramTik TokFacebookTwitterYouTube
