Polycurious 61. Meet My Secondary Partner Part 2 with John
Sep 9, 2025
In a candid discussion, John shares how his casual dating past shaped his current relationship. They explore pivotal moments, like the 'fireplace incident,' highlighting the importance of accountability. Trust issues are unpacked as they navigate their contrasting dynamics, focusing on personal growth and emotional processing. John's advice? Embrace curiosity over judgment in relationships. Together, they stress the beauty of accepting partners as they are, fostering deeper connections sans labels.
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Resentment Reveals Inner Work
- Fernanda realized many resentments toward partners reflect wounds she needs to address within herself.
- Polyamory became a lens to notice how different partners surface different inner work.
Different Partners, Different Roles
- Fernanda notices she must show up differently with John than with Seth because each partner triggers different needs.
- She uses polyamory to explore self-responsibility and varied forms of safety.
Fireplace Mishap And Clean-Up
- John accidentally closed the flue and filled a friend's apartment with smoke after starting a fireplace late at night.
- He spent hours cleaning soot and trying to fix the damage before Seth arrived the next day.