66. All Roads Lead To Poly with Fer (Your Host)

Nov 18, 2025

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In this episode, I finally sit on the other side of the mic. I’m interviewed by my friend A (who you might remember from the episode with her husband J).

We talk about my upbringing, what I learned about my sexuality (including discovering masturbation much later in life), my journey with Seth as my primary partner and eventually finding a second partner, what it was like to navigate conflict with two partners, and why I’ve become such a big believer in not future-tripping and instead listening to your intuition in the moment.

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Breakup episodes 1 + 2:

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Fer + Seth’s episode 12:

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Fer + Seth episode 48:

⁠https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep48⁠

John Part 1 (Patreon):

https://www.patreon.com/posts/meet-my-partner-138151166

John Part 2:

⁠https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep61⁠