Polycurious 62. When Your Partner Chooses A Nesting Partner with Roshi & Frankie
Sep 23, 2025
Discover the complexities of maintaining a long-distance polyamorous relationship! Roshi and Frankie share their journey of balancing multiple partners while prioritizing their connection. They discuss managing jealousy, the importance of communication, and finding security even with a nesting partner. Learn how to identify needs, embrace differences, and experiment for growth. This candid conversation highlights the emotional work necessary for non-monogamy and the inner journey it inspires.
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Meeting Through Mutual Connection
- Roshi met Frankie after leaving a five-year relationship and experimented with polyamory as a new paradigm of love.
- Their friendship organically deepened into attraction and a long-term partnership over time.
From Ethical Non-Monogamy To Organic Romance
- Frankie described coming out of ethically non-monogamous dynamics and easing into openness while prioritizing finding a nesting partner.
- Her connection with Roshi felt natural and flowed into a romantic relationship despite initial uncertainty.
Logistics And Healing Shape Commitment
- Roshi avoided committing to a primary partnership because of recent heartbreak and immigration logistics.
- She prioritized personal healing, travel, and entrepreneurship over relocating for a relationship.