

On Attachment
Stephanie Rigg
Join relationship coach Stephanie Rigg in On Attachment, where she delves deep into all things attachment theory, love, relationships & intimacy - sharing her wisdom and experience to help you start making real changes in your life & relationships.
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Oct 1, 2024 • 17min
#159: 5 Signs You're Ready For a Relationship
Wondering if you're ready for love? Discover key indicators that show emotional preparedness for a new relationship. Self-reflection is essential after breakups, as it fosters personal growth. Uncover five crucial signs that indicate you're in a strong place to build a healthy partnership. Emotional healing and self-awareness pave the way for more fulfilling connections. This conversation dives deep into ensuring you’re truly ready before diving back into romance!

Sep 24, 2024 • 19min
#158: How to Stop Obsessing About Someone
Dive into the intricacies of obsessive thinking and discover ways to break free from mental loops. Explore Byron Katie's methods to challenge your thoughts and learn somatic tools to alleviate anxiety. Self-compassion and self-awareness take center stage as you shift from feeling victimized to empowered. Get tips on reframing thoughts, practicing mindfulness, and using physical movement to combat ruminative patterns. Find clarity and peace in your relationships as you navigate the complexities of emotional wounds.

Sep 17, 2024 • 17min
#157: 3 Things You'll Notice in Your First Healthy Relationship
Discover the surprising truths about your first healthy relationship. Feel the unfamiliarity that comes with vulnerability as you shed dysfunctional patterns. Learn that even secure partners have their flaws, but their responses can strengthen your bond. Understand how conflict shifts from chaos to safe conversations filled with mutual respect. Embrace the growth that arises from facing challenges together, and celebrate the beauty of authenticity in your connection.

Sep 10, 2024 • 22min
#156: Sex & Attachment: How Anxious & Avoidant Attachment Styles Impact Sexual Dynamics
Explore the fascinating impact of anxious and avoidant attachment styles on sexual relationships. Discover how emotional intimacy is prioritized by those with anxiety, while avoidants lean towards physical connections. Delve into the contrasting experiences of overthinking versus dissociating during intimacy. Learn how anxiously attached individuals often prioritize their partner’s needs, while avoidants focus on their own comfort. This deep dive reveals the complexities of intimacy and offers insights for healthier sexual dynamics.

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Sep 3, 2024 • 22min
#155: Fearful Avoidant and Anxious Attachment: Key Similarities & Differences
Explore the intriguing world of fearful avoidant and anxious attachment styles. Discover how both share a fear of abandonment yet navigate intimacy and conflict differently. Gain valuable insights into their emotional regulation and coping mechanisms. The discussion sheds light on the importance of self-awareness for personal growth, making it a must-listen for anyone navigating relationships. Plus, learn about a tailored healing program that addresses these complex dynamics!

Aug 27, 2024 • 21min
#154: 4 Reasons You Keep Attracting Situationships
Delve into the puzzling world of situationships and uncover the four reasons you might keep attracting them. Discover how fear of rejection keeps you from voicing your desires. Explore the saviour complex and the struggle to change emotionally unavailable partners. Learn why prioritizing chemistry over true compatibility creates chaos. Finally, confront the fear that leads you to tolerate unfulfilling connections. This insightful discussion offers practical steps to break free and find the meaningful relationship you deserve.

Aug 20, 2024 • 16min
#153: 3 Tips for Avoidant Attached People to Experience Healthier Conflict
Delve into the intricacies of navigating conflict for those with avoidant attachment styles. Discover three essential strategies to boost communication and emotional expression. Learn how taking breaks can transform heated discussions into healthier exchanges. Gain insights into feeling more connected and grounded during relationship challenges.

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Aug 13, 2024 • 20min
#152: 3 Tips for Anxiously Attached People to Experience Healthier Conflict
Explore essential tips for anxiously attached individuals to navigate conflict more effectively. Discover strategies like slowing down communication, focusing on one issue at a time, and knowing when to pause a conversation. Uncover the challenges of emotional intensity and the importance of recognizing effort from partners. Delve into practical advice to foster healthier resolutions and enhance relationships. Plus, stay tuned for insights aimed at avoidantly attached people in the next installment!

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Aug 9, 2024 • 14min
#151: My 3 Favourite Quotes on Life & Love
James Clear, renowned for his insights on habits, emphasizes the beauty of surrender in overcoming anxiety. Elizabeth Gilbert, celebrated for her exploration of self-discovery, shares her wisdom on embracing identity and letting go of control. Brene Brown, a leading researcher on vulnerability, highlights the importance of trust and setting healthy boundaries in relationships. Together, they inspire a journey towards personal growth and deeper connections, inviting listeners to reflect on their own path to healing.

Aug 1, 2024 • 16min
#150: A Hard Truth About Setting Boundaries
Setting boundaries can be a daunting task, especially for those with insecure attachment styles. The podcast dives into the struggles faced by individuals with anxious and avoidant tendencies when establishing limits. It explores the emotional challenges and fears associated with boundary-setting, including the worry that it may jeopardize relationships. Discover insights into maintaining healthy connections while advocating for oneself, and learn how to overcome the internal barriers that make boundary-setting so difficult.