Coaching for Leaders
Dave Stachowiak
Leaders aren’t born; they’re made. Many leaders reach points in their careers where what worked yesterday doesn’t work today. This Monday show helps leaders thrive at these key inflection points. Independently produced weekly since 2011, Dr. Dave Stachowiak shares insights from a decade of leading a global leadership academy, plus more than 15 years of leadership at Dale Carnegie. Bestselling authors, proven leaders, expert thinkers, and deep conversation have attracted 50 million downloads and over 300,000 followers. Join the FREE membership to search the entire leadership and management library by topic at CoachingforLeaders.com
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Mar 30, 2020 • 39min
461: The Power of Showing Up, with Tina Payne Bryson
Tina Payne Bryson, a psychotherapist and founder of The Center for Connection, shares insights on the critical importance of parental presence in kids' lives. She highlights that simply showing up emotionally can significantly influence a child’s development. The discussion tackles the distinction between being seen and shamed, the drawbacks of intensive parenting, and practical actions that empower children. Listeners will discover how empathy, authenticity, and healthy communication foster stronger family bonds and emotional resilience in children.
Mar 23, 2020 • 35min
460: The Power of Why Over How, with Gina Bianchini
Gina Bianchini, Founder and CEO of Mighty Networks, is an expert in building online communities. In this conversation, she explores the power of a clear mission, emphasizing the distinction between 'why' and 'how.' Gina discusses the evolution of community platforms and the importance of creative expression. She highlights the network effect as a catalyst for growth within creator-led spaces, advocating for ad-free environments that foster storytelling. Ultimately, she reveals how understanding your mission can enhance engagement and collaboration among all stakeholders.
Mar 16, 2020 • 34min
459: Discover Who You Are, with Hortense le Gentil
Hortense le Gentil, an Executive Leadership Coach and founder of JAY Consulting, specializes in helping C-suite executives synchronize their values with professional pursuits. In this conversation, she discusses the importance of reflection in discovering personal values, using role models as guides to self-awareness. Hortense emphasizes how fictional characters and life twists can reveal true priorities, advocating for a deeper connection between identity and leadership. Insights from Peter Drucker highlight the journey of authenticity in becoming an impactful leader.
Mar 9, 2020 • 39min
458: The Way to Be More Coach-Like, with Michael Bungay Stanier
Michael Bungay Stanier, author of best-sellers like The Coaching Habit and The Advice Trap, shares his insights on effective leadership. He argues that advice is often overrated and encourages a shift towards curiosity and humility. The discussion highlights common pitfalls in advice-giving, such as solving the wrong challenges. Michael introduces the TERA principles to keep conversations engaging and emphasizes the importance of 'fierce love' in coaching. He also sheds light on the neuroscience behind engaging leadership conversations.
Mar 2, 2020 • 39min
457: When Leadership Isn’t Right, with Bonni Stachowiak
Bonni Stachowiak tackles the intricate dance of feedback within professional communication. She provides insights on tailoring communication styles, especially for women, to create supportive environments. The difference between leadership and management is explored, shedding light on their unique roles in driving organizational change. Additionally, listeners get tips on discerning quality leadership programs and the importance of mentorship. Lastly, Bonni reveals her approach to selecting engaging podcast guests, focusing on content relevance over popularity.
Feb 24, 2020 • 39min
456: How to be Diplomatic, with Susan Rice
Susan Rice, former U.S. Ambassador to the United Nations and National Security Advisor, shares her insights on diplomacy and leadership. She reflects on how her childhood of mediating family conflicts influenced her conflict resolution skills. Rice emphasizes the importance of separating behavior from the person and ensuring all voices are heard in decision-making processes. She discusses the need for humility and emotional intelligence in leadership, revealing how her experiences shaped her approach to navigating complex relationships in politics.
Feb 17, 2020 • 38min
455: How to Create Great Relationships, with Colleen Bordeaux
Colleen Bordeaux, a best-selling author and human capital consultant, shares her wisdom on cultivating meaningful relationships. Discover the six essential steps to assess and improve your connections. Colleen reflects on battling loneliness and the transformative power of opening up about personal struggles. She highlights the importance of emotional self-care and recognizing toxic dynamics in relationships. The conversation emphasizes that genuine connections are cultivated through curiosity and self-reflection, making way for both personal and professional growth.
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Feb 10, 2020 • 36min
454: How to Ask Better Questions, with David Marquet
David Marquet, the former commander of the USS Santa Fe and author of 'Leadership is Language,' dives into the art of questioning in leadership. He highlights the seven sins of questioning, emphasizing that leading questions often stifle genuine dialogue. By discussing the tragic El Faro disaster, he showcases how effective communication can prevent crises. Marquet advocates for clear, open-ended inquiries and creating psychological safety in teams, urging leaders to shift from self-affirming to self-educating questions for better organizational performance.
Feb 2, 2020 • 39min
453: Family Productivity, with Bonni Stachowiak
Bonni Stachowiak, a professor at Vanguard University and host of the Teaching in Higher Ed podcast, dives into family productivity with practical tips. She discusses under-scheduling commitments to create family margins and highlights the success of shared calendars for smooth scheduling. Bonni emphasizes involving kids in household chores, promoting collaboration and responsibility. The conversation also touches on the importance of establishing a family vision and balancing leadership with management to enhance family life.
Jan 27, 2020 • 34min
452: How to Motivate Leaders, with John Maxwell
Join John Maxwell, a #1 New York Times bestselling author and leadership development expert, as he shares his insights on motivating leaders. He discusses the difference between motivating followers and leaders, highlighting seven key motivations, including purpose and autonomy. Maxwell emphasizes that successful leaders focus on recognizing and nurturing others' strengths. He also reflects on the importance of continuous growth and the idea that authentic motivation often goes beyond financial rewards, rooted in purpose and service.
