

The Partnership Podcast
Lauren and Trey
Trey and Lauren met on an online dating app in 2019 and have chosen partnership (almost) every day since.
This podcast takes you behind the scenes of their relationship and is committed to sharing both their successes and failures so that you can learn from their experiences and cultivate the relationships of your dreams.
This podcast takes you behind the scenes of their relationship and is committed to sharing both their successes and failures so that you can learn from their experiences and cultivate the relationships of your dreams.
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Apr 14, 2025 • 30min
She Got Triggered. He Got Scared. What Happened Next Might Surprise You (Emergency Episode - Part 1)
In this raw and unfiltered emergency episode of Season 2, Lauren and Trey sit down early the morning after a seemingly casual Friday kitchen conversation triggered one of Lauren’s deepest source wounds. If you saw her 11-minute Instagram video (watch it here), you already know this moment hit hard—activating powerful, body-based beliefs and a flood of old, painful stories.What was meant to be a lighthearted recap of how far they’ve come as a couple turns into something far more intense. Lauren vulnerably shares the inner chaos that took over—memories tied to scarcity, shame, and her family being barred from writing checks at the grocery store.Trey, caught off guard, reveals his own fear response to any offers of service to Lauren: “Is this going to backfire?” he wonders. “I’m not your dad, and if I start to act like him, you should leave.” What follows is an unpolished, unscripted, and deeply human moment between two people doing the work—imperfectly and together.They say there won’t be a part two... but there is. Tune in next Monday for the healing and surprising conclusion.If this episode hit close to home and you’re ready to build healthier communication and arguing skills in your relationship, Lauren offers free 15-minute consults to explore if working together is a good fit. Whether you’re navigating recurring conflicts or want to create more emotional safety with your partner, she’s here to help. Book your free consult now at www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult — because your relationship is worth it.About Us: Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia where Lauren owns and operates, SEX ED FOR YOU. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as increase the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. (WHO)Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples and families, and to the social and economic development of communities and countries. (WHO) When individuals are blocked from sexual health they are stunted from developing a sense of sensual play and enjoyment. • Learn more about Sex Ed for You at https://www.sexedforyou.com• Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren today: https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult• Learn more about partnered communication best practices on Sex Ed For You’s Instagram Page: https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/• Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more videos about sex, partnership, communication, and love: https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcastReminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.#EmergencyEpisode #SourceWound #RelationshipTriggers #RealTalk #CouplesPodcast #HealingInPartnership #EmotionalTriggers #NervousSystemHealing #BodyBasedWisdom #ScarcityMindset #ChildhoodWounds #FinancialShame #InnerChildHealing #DoingTheWork #PartnershipPodcast #LaurenAndTrey #RawAndReal #UnfilteredConversations #RelationalHealing #CouplesTherapyInRealLife #PodcastForCouples #ConsciousRelationships #EmotionalSafety #TriggerWork #AbundanceMindset #RepairAfterRupture #SomaticHealing

Apr 7, 2025 • 45min
Hairgate — How to Argue with Love (When He Doesn't Feel Heard & She Feels Insecure)
In this vulnerable and emotionally-rich episode of The Partnership Podcast, Lauren and Trey unpack a recent argument that started with Trey’s new hairstyle—but quickly spiraled into deeper feelings of not being heard, not feeling prioritized, and long-standing insecurities.Trey bravely shares how hurt he felt when Lauren made a seemingly small but painful comment, and how it led to a moment where he didn’t feel safe taking his hat off in public. Lauren opens up about her fear of “angering the dragon,” and the shame that creeps in when she feels like she’s going to be “found out” as not good enough—especially in moments she’s trying to help, like with his hair.Together, they explore the anatomy of an argument: the initial misstep of not knowing who the gift was for, the breakdown in communication around expectations, and the importance of renegotiating in real time. They talk through how they navigated Sunday morning’s repair conversation—not by obsessing over the accuracy of memory, but by focusing on the tools and connection they wanted to rebuild.Trey reflects on how easily this could’ve turned into a deeper rupture, and what it would’ve meant for the relationship if Lauren had doubled down instead of getting curious. They touch on gaslighting, the emotional weight of small comments, and how to reframe conflict as an invitation to move closer rather than farther apart.With humor (hello, dragon jokes) and heart, this episode is a raw, real-time example of how to argue with love—especially when one partner doesn’t feel heard and the other feels insecure.✨ If this episode resonates with you, share it with someone who’s learning to fight fair—and don’t forget to rate and review the podcast so more folks can find us. 💛Want to strengthen your relationship? Click here: www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsultAbout Us: Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia where Lauren owns and operates, SEX ED FOR YOU. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as increase the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. (WHO)Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples and families, and to the social and economic development of communities and countries. (WHO) When individuals are blocked from sexual health they are stunted from developing a sense of sensual play and enjoyment. • Learn more about Sex Ed for You at https://www.sexedforyou.com• Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren today: https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult• Learn more about partnered communication best practices on Sex Ed For You’s Instagram Page: https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/• Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more videos about sex, partnership, communication, and love: https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcastReminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.#HowToArgueWithLove #RelationshipRepair #MiscommunicationInLove #EmotionalSafety #FeelingHeard #ConflictToConnection #AttachmentStyles #InsecureAttachment #AvoidantBehaviors #ThePartnershipPodcast #CouplesPodcast #RelationshipPodcast #LaurenAndTrey #PodcastEpisode9 #HairgateEpisode #ModernRelationships #RuptureAndRepair #ConsciousCoupling #IntentionalRelationships #RealTalkRelationships #BehindTheScenesLove #MarriageAndCommunication #ConflictResolutionTools #EmotionalIntimacy

Mar 31, 2025 • 46min
Launches & Landings: How To Strengthen Your Relationship Through Daily Rituals
How do the simple rituals we share each day shape the security and connection in our relationship? In this episode of The Partnership Podcast, Lauren and Trey dive into "Launches & Landings"—the daily practices that start and end their days together.Lauren recently finished Wired for Love (Second Edition) by Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT (📖 Get the book here) and was surprised to learn the science behind the rituals they've naturally developed over the years. They explore:☕ Morning Launches—How Lauren signals Trey for coffee in bed, the small moments that light up their faces, and why these rituals set the tone for the day.🌙 Evening Landings—Why they go to bed at the same time, their three evening questions (Highlights, Ouches, and Boo-Boos), and how prepping coffee at night has become an act of love.💛 The deeper truth—At 33:35, they reflect on why these practices provide safety, reassurance, and a sense of home, no matter what the day brings.From kissy sounds at the door to the power of eye contact, this episode is all about the simple yet powerful ways we show up for each other daily. Huge thanks to Stan Tatkin for the science behind what we've always felt!Want to strengthen your relationship? Click here: www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult🔔 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and leave a review if this episode resonates with you!About Us: Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia where Lauren owns and operates, SEX ED FOR YOU. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as increase the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. (WHO)Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples and families, and to the social and economic development of communities and countries. (WHO) When individuals are blocked from sexual health they are stunted from developing a sense of sensual play and enjoyment. • Learn more about Sex Ed for You at https://www.sexedforyou.com• Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren today: https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult• Learn more about partnered communication best practices on Sex Ed For You’s Instagram Page: https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/• Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more videos about sex, partnership, communication, and love: https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcastReminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach. #Relationships #AttachmentStyles #StanTatkin #WiredForLove #DailyRituals #Partnership

Mar 24, 2025 • 28min
What If I Just Don’t Want To? Sexual Boundaries & Consent
What happens when one partner wants something sexually, but the other doesn’t? In this episode, Lauren and Trey respond to an audience member’s question about sexual boundaries in relationships. Lauren shares one of her favorite Betty Dodson quotes: "The first principle of pleasure is the freedom of personal choice."—reminding us that if you don’t want to do something in bed, you don’t have to. Period.They explore past experiences, why relationships don’t begin or end over just one preference, and how mutual enjoyment plays a role in long-term intimacy. Plus, Lauren shares a resource for learning pleasure-centered techniques through Beducated.This short but impactful episode (under 30 minutes) is a must-listen for anyone navigating intimacy, consent, and personal agency in relationships. Because your body, your choice—always. 💙Want to be better at saying NO to BJs? Click here: www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult🔔 Follow for more honest conversations on relationships, intimacy, and communication! #ThePartnershipPodcast #Boundaries #Consent #SexualWellnessAbout Us: Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia where Lauren owns and operates, SEX ED FOR YOU. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as increase the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. (WHO)Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples and families, and to the social and economic development of communities and countries. (WHO) When individuals are blocked from sexual health they are stunted from developing a sense of sensual play and enjoyment. • Learn more about Sex Ed for You at https://www.sexedforyou.com• Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren today: https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult• Learn more about partnered communication best practices on Sex Ed For You’s Instagram Page: https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/• Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more videos about sex, partnership, communication, and love: https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcastReminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.

Mar 17, 2025 • 44min
How to Talk About Sex in Long-Term Relationships
Talking about sex in a long-term relationship can feel awkward, vulnerable, or even impossible—but it doesn’t have to be. In this episode of The Partnership Podcast, Lauren and Trey dive deep into how to have hard conversations about your sexual relationship and create the sex life you both want.They unpack societal scripts that shape men's and women’s experiences of desire, share real feelings from couples—including feeling stuck and trapped—and explore Esther Perel’s insight: “It is not a crisis of desire, it is a crisis of imagination.”Together, they walk through six steps to reinvigorate your sex life:1️⃣ Examine your beliefs – Where did your ideas about sex come from? Do they still serve you?2️⃣ Assess your social circles – Are the relationships around you communicative and pleasure-centered?3️⃣ Expand your knowledge – Introduce new ideas and education into your “diet” and consider working with a sexuality educator like Lauren.4️⃣ Own your part – Take accountability for ways you may have contributed to a stagnant sex life and discuss what you’d love to nurture together.5️⃣ Take risks & explore – Experiment with new initiation styles, fantasies, Creative Monogamy (Dr. Joli Hamilton), sexy getaways, and educational resources like OMGYES and BEDUCATED.6️⃣ Integrate & choose – After experimenting, decide what works for you and what you want to keep.Lauren wraps up with a powerful reminder: “Once we have a greater understanding of our options and our choices, we don’t feel stuck—we feel like choice makers. And THAT equals great sex.”🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe for more deep, honest conversations on love, intimacy, and relationships!Want support in your hard talks? Click here: www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsultAbout Us: Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia where Lauren owns and operates, SEX ED FOR YOU. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as increase the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. (WHO)Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples and families, and to the social and economic development of communities and countries. (WHO) When individuals are blocked from sexual health they are stunted from developing a sense of sensual play and enjoyment. • Learn more about Sex Ed for You at https://www.sexedforyou.com• Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren today: https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult• Learn more about partnered communication best practices on Sex Ed For You’s Instagram Page: https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/• Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more videos about sex, partnership, communication, and love: https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcastReminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.#Intimacy #Relationships #PartnershipPodcast#Relationships #Sexuality #LongTermLove #Intimacy #Marriage #Desire #PartnershipPodcast #SexTalks #Sex #HardTalks

Mar 10, 2025 • 40min
What Is Grapefruiting? How to Ask for More in the Bedroom with Respect
Ever heard of “grapefruiting” but weren’t quite sure what it meant? 🍊 In this episode of The Partnership Podcast, Lauren and Trey break it all down—starting with the viral technique made famous by Auntie Angel and its unforgettable moment in Girls Trip (yes, we’re linking that scene below 👀).But this conversation isn’t just about technique—it’s about communication and how to ask for more of what you love without guilt, pressure, or entitlement. Lauren also shares her recent experience creating content for Lovers, sparking an open and hilarious discussion on pleasure, requests, and intimacy dynamics.What You'll Learn:🍊 What Is Grapefruiting? The origins, the technique, and if it’s really all that…💬 How to Ask for More in the Bedroom (without making your partner feel obligated)🚫 Avoiding the "Pussy Brat" Mentality – What it is and why it kills connection💡 Handling Rejection Like a Pro – How NOT to punish your partner when they say no🎥 Watch Auntie Angel in action: Auntie Angel - YouTube🤣 Relive the Girls Trip scene: Girls Trip Grapefruit Scene💫 Secret Link for More: www.sexedforyou.com_\mywife Join Lauren and Trey for an honest, laugh-out-loud episode packed with practical insights on keeping intimacy fun, playful, and 100% pressure-free.💬 Drop your thoughts in the comments & don’t forget to subscribe for more real talk on relationships, sex, and connection!#Grapefruiting #SexEducation #Relationships #Intimacy #Communication #PartnershipPodcastWant to give better BJs? Click here: www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsultAbout Us: Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia where Lauren owns and operates, SEX ED FOR YOU. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as increase the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. (WHO)Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples and families, and to the social and economic development of communities and countries. (WHO) When individuals are blocked from sexual health they are stunted from developing a sense of sensual play and enjoyment. • Learn more about Sex Ed for You at https://www.sexedforyou.com• Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren today: https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult• Learn more about partnered communication best practices on Sex Ed For You’s Instagram Page: https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/• Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more videos about sex, partnership, communication, and love: https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcastReminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.

Mar 3, 2025 • 42min
When They Walk In… How To Keep the Passion Alive as Parents
How do you keep the passion alive when you have kids at home—especially when they walk in at the worst possible moment? 😳 In this episode of The Partnership Podcast, Lauren and Trey get hilariously real about the awkward (but inevitable) challenges of maintaining an intimate life as parents.They share the cringe-worthy story of a recent mishap, Trey's knee-jerk reaction to blame Lauren, and how they all repaired after the shock wore off. Plus, they offer practical tips for finding time to connect, getting creative with privacy, and why it's actually healthy for teens to know their parents have a loving (yet private) intimate life.The episode wraps up with laughter as Lauren references "dropping your teens off at the barn," leaving Southern California-born Trey totally baffled. 🐴😂🔹 Topics Covered:✔️ The importance of intimacy in long-term relationships✔️ How to find uninterrupted moments for connection✔️ Repairing after awkward encounters with kids✔️ Why modeling a loving partnership benefits your children✔️ Hilarious parenting moments you won’t want to miss🎧 Subscribe for more candid conversations on relationships, intimacy, and personal growth!Want to work on building better intimacy in your partnership? Click here: www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsultAbout Us: Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia where Lauren owns and operates, SEX ED FOR YOU. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as increase the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. (WHO)Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples and families, and to the social and economic development of communities and countries. (WHO) When individuals are blocked from sexual health they are stunted from developing a sense of sensual play and enjoyment. • Learn more about Sex Ed for You at https://www.sexedforyou.com• Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren today: https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult• Learn more about partnered communication best practices on Sex Ed For You’s Instagram Page: https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/• Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more videos about sex, partnership, communication, and love: https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcastReminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.#Parenting #Marriage #Intimacy #Relationships #PartnershipPodcast

Feb 24, 2025 • 46min
Blake Lively vs. Justin Baldoni: The Stories We Tell Ourselves (Part 2)
In part two of this deep dive, Lauren and Trey challenge the narratives shaping the Blake Lively vs. Justin Baldoni case. Lauren refutes the idea that "once a cheater, always a cheater," while Trey shares his teenage Nickelodeon stardom experience—including a moment on set with Blake Lively. They explore trust, attraction, and power, with Lauren questioning if she would have reason to fear if Trey worked alongside a beautiful, dynamic woman who had done the work. Trey asks Lauren’s take on Baldoni’s and Lively’s character, and Lauren introduces Elizabeth Lesser’s "Old Story vs. New Story Power," reimagining how this conversation could shift with a new perspective. Trey reflects on why these stories captivate him—and us. Don’t miss the conclusion of this two-part series.Want to work on old narratives that affect the way you approach hard conversations with others? Click here: www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsultAbout Us: Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia where Lauren owns and operates, SEX ED FOR YOU. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as increase the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. (WHO)Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples and families, and to the social and economic development of communities and countries. (WHO) When individuals are blocked from sexual health they are stunted from developing a sense of sensual play and enjoyment. • Learn more about Sex Ed for You at https://www.sexedforyou.com• Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren today: https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult• Learn more about partnered communication best practices on Sex Ed For You’s Instagram Page: https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/• Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more videos about sex, partnership, communication, and love: https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcastReminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.#BlakeLively #JustinBaldoni #ThePartnershipPodcast #PodcastEpisode #OnceACheaterAlwaysACheater #RelationshipTalk #TrustAndAttraction #PowerDynamics #OldStoryNewStory #ElizabethLesser #Nickelodeon #CelebrityStories #PodcastCommunity #Storytelling #JealousyInRelationships #MediaNarratives

Feb 17, 2025 • 56min
Blake Lively vs. Justin Baldoni: Power, Gender, and the Stories We Tell (Part 1)
In this episode of The Partnership Podcast, Lauren and Trey dive into the Blake Lively vs. Justin Baldoni case, unpacking the narratives, power hierarchies, and gender dynamics shaping the conversation. Lauren shares intimate details about her own divorce and the fear of being deposed, connecting personal experience to public scrutiny. Together, they explore how jealousy, silencing, and cultural norms shape relationships and question how these dynamics might play out in Blake and Ryan’s partnership. Don’t miss part one of this powerful two-part series.Want to work on old narratives that affect the way you approach hard conversations with others? Click here: www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsultAbout Us: Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia where Lauren owns and operates, SEX ED FOR YOU. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as increase the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. (WHO)Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples and families, and to the social and economic development of communities and countries. (WHO) When individuals are blocked from sexual health they are stunted from developing a sense of sensual play and enjoyment. • Learn more about Sex Ed for You at https://www.sexedforyou.com• Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren today: https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult• Learn more about partnered communication best practices on Sex Ed For You’s Instagram Page: https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/• Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more videos about sex, partnership, communication, and love: https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcastReminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.#BlakeLively #JustinBaldoni #ThePartnershipPodcast #PodcastEpisode #GenderDynamics #PowerHierarchies #RelationshipTalk #DivorceStories #CulturalNarratives #JealousyInRelationships #SilencingVoices #BlakeAndRyan #CelebrityRelationships #PodcastCommunity #Storytelling

Feb 10, 2025 • 44min
How to Prioritize Sex & Negotiate Desire Without Pressure or Rejection
In this Season 2 premiere of The Partnership Podcast, Lauren and Trey break down how to prioritize sex and negotiate intimacy in a way that feels good for both partners. They explore the stories we create about our relationships—often shaped by insecurity—and ask, Is your partner actually avoidant, or is that just a narrative in your head?Lauren shares why safety-seeking behaviors aren’t inherently wrong, but as adults, we get to decide whether we still want to feel their impact. They discuss the differences in arousal times, how Lauren uses a vibrator and erotic imagination to bridge the gap, and the power of reframing rejection through the “No Exercise” from The Wheel of Consent: Like a Pro Training.From understanding the difference between obligations and invitations to sex, to negotiating everything—including who takes out the trash—this episode highlights the beauty of co-creating consent. As Lauren puts it, “Sex is not everything, it’s just a part of everything.” Plus, they explore Dr. Betty Martin’s redefinition of consent: “You don’t give consent, you arrive at consent—together.”If you’ve ever struggled with mismatched desire, feeling rejected, or navigating intimacy with ease, this episode will give you practical tools to shift the dynamic. Tune in to learn how to release old narratives, communicate better, and create the sex life you both want—without pressure or resentment.Want to learn more about prioritizing sex? Click here:www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsultAbout Us: Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia where Lauren owns and operates, SEX ED FOR YOU. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as increase the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. (WHO)Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples and families, and to the social and economic development of communities and countries. (WHO) When individuals are blocked from sexual health they are stunted from developing a sense of sensual play and enjoyment.• Learn more about Sex Ed for You athttps://www.sexedforyou.com• Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren today:https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult• Learn more about partnered communication best practices on Sex Ed For You’s Instagram Page:https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/• Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more videos about sex, partnership, communication, and love:https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcastReminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.#PrioritizeSex #Desire #Arousal #Consent #TheWheelOfConsent #EmotionalIntimacy #SexualCommunication #NegotiatingDesire #ThePartnershipPodcast #PodcastEpisode #CouplesTalk #RelationshipAdvice #PodcastLife #Relationships #SexEducation #Intimacy #HealthyRelationships #SexualWellness #LoveAndConnection