She Wanted to Change Him. He Needed Freedom. | Relationship Repair & Personal Growth (Part 2)

After the cameras stopped rolling in “She Got Triggered. He Got Scared,” (LISTEN NOW) Trey and Lauren weren’t done. In this raw and revealing follow-up, Trey shares what happened immediately after filming ended—and why he wasn’t OK with having his ability to see a better way shut down. Lauren recounts their intense phone call and the moment Trey asked her, “How are you going to attend to this?” Her response? A scheduled TRE session with her coach, Robyn. Trey’s reaction? Deep respect.

Together, they unpack what’s theirs to work on individually—and what belongs to the space between them. Lauren dives into Human Design, bringing her books to the “marketplace” for some solo reflection, and discovers some of the keys to understanding their friction: electromagnetic channel 52-9. She finally sees why Trey thrives in details and she in vision—and why that sometimes pulls them apart.

This episode is a conversation about owning your work, respecting each other’s design, and giving one another the freedom to get it wrong. Lauren offers a heartfelt apology for trying to dim Trey’s superpowers in an effort to make him more like her. This one’s tender, honest, and filled with lightbulb moments.

🎧 Listen in and let us know—what’s your partner work vs. your personal work?

👇 Drop your reflections in the comments. We read every one.

💬 Need support navigating conflict in your own relationship? If you're looking for tools to repair, reconnect, and relate more clearly—Lauren offers free 15-minute consults to help you explore what's possible in your partnership. Book yours at: www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult

About Us: Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia where Lauren owns and operates, SEX ED FOR YOU. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.

Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as increase the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. (WHO)

Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples and families, and to the social and economic development of communities and countries.

(WHO) When individuals are blocked from sexual health they are stunted from developing a sense of sensual play and enjoyment.

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Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.

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