Sex With Emily

Dive into the world of intimate challenges and playful fantasies! Discover how to navigate erectile dysfunction with creative solutions for enhanced intimacy. Learn the secrets to co-creating fantasies that can spice up your relationship. Unlock the pleasures of prostate stimulation and explore essential techniques to enhance the experience. Plus, get insights on supporting partners who struggle with orgasm. It’s an engaging mix of practical advice and sizzling conversation!

Two of your most powerful sex accessories? Your hands. Hands set the tone of your sexual energy. For example, caressing their cheek while you make out versus pinning their hands down while you have sex. And while we talk a lot about what to do with our mouths or genitals on this show, today I’m focusing on a lost art: hand play. Specifically, how to finger, give a hand job, and use your hands with sexual intention. Today, my Producer, Erica, and I first share how to penetrate a vulva with your fingers. We give you tricks to stimulate the labia and clitoris, different forms of pressure and touch, and how to find the G-spot when you finger. Next, we give the penis some love with hand job techniques and upgrades like toy play and perineum stimulation. Finally, we discuss secondary erogenous zones and answer your hand play questions.In this episode, you’ll learn: Why hand play—fingering and handjobs—is the underrated pleasure tool you need to master. How to turn up the heat with expert hand techniques for both vulvas and penises. The secret to making manual stimulation feel even better than penetrative sex. Show Notes: Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Try Nutrafol Today! Head to Nutrafol.com and use code "SWE" at checkout for $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website  Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

It’s Hotline Calls time! And we’ve got one common theme: trust - the foundation of hot sex. Because when you trust yourself and the person you’re with, you can fully let go in bed and relax into your deepest pleasure.When oral sex gets too rough, how can you ask your partner to be more gentle and respectful? I’ve got some thoughts. When your partner doesn’t love booty play – but you definitely do – can you still ask for a rim job? Let’s say your partner goes to strip clubs, and it makes you super uncomfortable. How do you set boundaries together? Finally, when you’re the non-primary partner in a polyamorous relationship, what resources can you turn to for advice & guidance?In this episode, you’ll learn: How to communicate boundaries and advocate for your pleasure in oral sex (without the sore throat aftermath) The best ways to introduce your partner to rimming—yes, even if they’re hesitant How to navigate mismatched libidos, strip club discomfort, and polyamory as a secondary partner Show Notes: Polysecure, Jessica Fern: Bookshop | Barnes & Noble Opening Up, Tristan Taormino: Amazon | Barnes & Noble Open Deeply, Kate Loree: Bookshop | Amazon | Barnes & Noble “The Challenges of Being a Secondary,” Conscious Polyamory “Being Secondary While Putting Yourself First,” Multiamory Polyamory in BLACK! Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website  Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

Dating as an adult is exhausting. While experience comes with age, actually applying that experience is easier said than done…even for professionals. With me today are two therapy professionals who also happen to be partners: John Kim and Vanessa Bennett. Their book “It’s Not Me, It’s You” offers an anecdotal road map of how to “relationship better,” from overcoming commitment issues, to fanning the sex flames, to breaking the blame cycle. John and Vanessa expertly dissect their own relationship to inspire us to create healthy bonds with the people we love. Listen to learn why “the one” is a myth, how to wean ourselves off codependency and how to replace obligatory sex with erotic collaboration.In this episode, you’ll learn: Why “The One” is a myth and what actually makes relationships last How to turn obligatory sex into erotic collaboration The secret to avoiding resentment before it ruins your connection Show Notes: More John Kim: Instagram | Website | Book More Vanessa Bennett: Instagram | Website | Book How to Have the Best Sex of Your Life in 2025- Sign up for my FREE masterclass today! For their buy 1 get 1 50% off deal, head to 3DayBlinds.com/SWE.   Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website  Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

Explore the challenges of initiating intimacy after a dry spell, with practical tips for rekindling romance through communication. Discover how to enhance pleasure in any position and the secrets to overcoming mismatched libidos. A listener shares their journey with innovative products to boost intimacy, and strategies are offered for navigating power dynamics in relationships. Plus, learn about the emotional aspects of sexual disinterest and how cultural influences can shape intimacy. Open dialogue is key for fulfilling connections!

Dive into the complexities of intimacy as the discussion unpacks the challenges of introducing sex toys and lube to resistant partners. Explore the reasons behind delayed ejaculation and whether it's a cause for concern. Should an unfulfilled relationship lead to opening up? The conversation navigates this delicate topic with insightful advice. Plus, learn how to keep casual hookups from evolving into serious commitments, balancing pleasure with clear communication.

Performance anxiety in bed is more common than you think! Discover how it affects pleasure and tips to overcome it. Learn why pretending to be someone you're not can kill your enjoyment. Strategies for boosting sexual confidence will help you ditch 'porn mode' and embrace authentic connections. Plus, find out how being present can lead to better orgasms. With insights on communication and personal desires, it’s time to prioritize real intimacy over performative sex!

Discover how to transform classic sex positions into exciting, kink-infused experiences. From the playful twists on Cowgirl and Doggy Style to a fresh take on Missionary, each position is dissected for added pleasure potential. Learn how simple changes in tempo and control can elevate your intimacy. Plus, secret tips for achieving better orgasms with the essential ingredient of clitoral stimulation. Perfect for enhancing connections and exploring your kinky side!

Dr. Megan Stubbs, a sexologist and author, dives into the richness of single life, emphasizing that being single is not just a transition but a celebration of self-love and confidence. She shares eye-opening tips on mastering solo pleasure, including masturbation techniques and orgasm hacks. Listeners learn about fostering emotional intimacy, overcoming insecurities about sexual history, and enhancing body image for an empowered dating experience. Plus, discover the art of sending nudes and creating pre-date rituals to elevate connections!

In this enlightening conversation, Tal Rabinowitz, founder of The DEN Meditation, shares her insights on cultivating calm in everyday chaos. She discusses how meditation can transform relationships by enhancing clarity and reducing blame. Tal emphasizes the personal nature of chaos and encourages ownership of one's emotional experiences. Listeners learn practical beginner tips for mindfulness and the magic of breath in sparking pleasure. The importance of self-acceptance and navigating jealousy is also explored, making for a holistic guide to improving mental well-being.