Sex With Emily

Dr. Aliza Pressman, a developmental psychologist and founder of the Mount Sinai Parenting Center, shares her expertise on navigating conversations about sex with teens. She highlights how technology isolates youth and impacts their relationships and sexual experiences. Aliza introduces the Five R's framework to help parents talk about difficult topics like porn and identity. The discussion emphasizes the importance of pleasure-inclusive sex education and maintaining open, nonjudgmental communication to foster healthy sexual development in young people.

Dr. Emily Nagoski, a renowned sex educator and author, joins for a candid conversation on the complexities of desire and pleasure. They dive into the impact of stress and societal myths, like the misconception of "blue balls," which hinder sexual enjoyment. Discover practical tools to calm your nervous system and prioritize pleasure over momentum during intimacy. Also discussed is the importance of unlearning shame around sex and fostering healthy conversations with kids about sexuality without pressure.

Damona Hoffman, a celebrity dating coach and author of "F the Fairy Tale," joins to debunk myths that keep singles stuck in their love lives. She emphasizes the importance of prioritizing feelings and shared life goals over superficial traits. If you're getting ghosted, it might be your profile—not competition. Damona shares the 'three C's' for a captivating dating profile and stresses the need for empathetic communication and directness in dating. This conversation encourages clarity and self-awareness, leading to more meaningful connections.

In this engaging conversation, Dr. Scott Lyons, a holistic psychologist and author known for his therapeutic expertise, joins Dr. Emily Morse to tackle dating fears post-divorce. They discuss how conservative upbringings can hinder sexual exploration and introduce the idea of using a 'compliment sandwich' to address sensitive topics. Scott shares breathwork techniques to ease anxiety before a date, encouraging listeners to view first dates as fun trials rather than high-stakes auditions. Plus, they highlight key behaviors to observe for long-term compatibility.

Exploring the dynamics of intimacy, the hosts delve into how living together often diminishes sexual tension. They offer tips for reigniting romance, emphasizing the importance of creating separation and engaging in playful behaviors. A listener grapples with a partner's reluctance to give oral sex and the complexities of valid sexual dealbreakers. They also discuss cultural taboos surrounding fetish conversations and how to encourage open dialogue for mutual exploration. Practical advice and candid discussions abound!

Dr. Wednesday Martin, a cultural anthropologist and author of "Untrue," dives into the journey of opening her marriage after 20 years. She discusses how women’s sexual desire often wanes in the first few years of monogamy and explores alternatives like service sex. Wednesday shares her personal transition to non-monogamy, emphasizing communication and empathy. She breaks down the differences between swinging, open relationships, and polyamory, and highlights the importance of safety in finding partners. Her insights on attachment styles and relationship flexibility offer a fresh perspective on modern love.

Dive into the complexities of intimacy as the host tackles various listener dilemmas. Discover tips for easing awkwardness when trying new positions, and explore the emotional fallout of infidelity in relationships. Learn how to set boundaries around discussing sex with friends, and approach mismatched libidos with honesty and open dialogue. The conversation emphasizes the importance of collaboration, communication, and understanding in navigating sexual relationships.

Discover the importance of having intimate conversations early on in relationships to ensure compatibility and avoid misunderstandings. Hear stories of individuals navigating complex topics like bisexuality or exploring desires that have gone unmentioned for years. Learn about safe practices for reliving past traumas, like enjoying anal pleasure again. Tune in for insights on open communication, setting boundaries, and the gradual approach to discussing sexual identity, all crucial for enhancing intimacy and trust.

This episode explores the importance of intentional movement over specific positions for enhancing intimacy. A discussion on balancing pleasure reveals how focusing on presence can help partners connect better. Tips for the cowgirl position emphasize slow grinding over performance anxiety, while curved penises are shown to have unique advantages. The conversation includes practical advice for making 69 enjoyable for both partners and highlights techniques to elevate pleasure during missionary. Overall, it's a guide to embracing body acceptance and mindful intimacy.

Joining the discussion is Lauren Roxburgh, a wellness educator and bodyworker specializing in fascia and pelvic-floor work. She unpacks the importance of fascia, the body's communication network, and how it relates to arousal and trauma. Lauren shares insights on why traditional medicine overlooked fascia and its role in sexual health. She teaches techniques like reverse Kegels to enhance pleasure and discusses how body tension can impact intimacy. The conversation also tackles common sexual challenges and offers practical tools for better experiences.