Sex With Emily Why She's Uncomfortable Being on Top (And How to Fix It)
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Oct 28, 2025 This episode explores the importance of intentional movement over specific positions for enhancing intimacy. A discussion on balancing pleasure reveals how focusing on presence can help partners connect better. Tips for the cowgirl position emphasize slow grinding over performance anxiety, while curved penises are shown to have unique advantages. The conversation includes practical advice for making 69 enjoyable for both partners and highlights techniques to elevate pleasure during missionary. Overall, it's a guide to embracing body acceptance and mindful intimacy.
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Train Your Focus Back To Sensation
- When you catch yourself overthinking, return attention to bodily sensations repeatedly until it becomes habit.
- Practice this mindful focus frequently to shift from thinking to feeling during sex.
Be Present, Not Goal-Oriented
- Focus on sensations in the moment instead of treating sex like a finish line.
- Shift attention from “Will I come?” to “What do I feel?” to increase pleasure and likelihood of orgasm.
Upgrade Your 69 With Tools And Turns
- Use hands, toys, and pauses during 69 to share the work and boost mutual pleasure.
- Lie side-by-side or take turns to avoid exhaustion and maintain focus on sensation.