Sex With Emily

In this engaging conversation, Todd Baratz, a sex therapist and author, debunks the fairy tale myth of 'the one' in relationships. He argues that rigid 'shoulds' about love create unnecessary anxiety. Todd emphasizes that not everyone is a narcissist; sometimes, people are just incompatible. He also highlights that being viewed as 'too much' may stem from a partner's emotional limitations, and that genuine connection is what truly matters in intimacy. From clear communication about desires to the importance of reciprocity in sexual relationships, Todd provides practical insights for fostering healthier connections.

Emily sits down with Amy Chan, founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp and author known for her expertise in overcoming breakups. They delve into the reasons we repeat dating patterns, emphasizing that emotional types, not physical traits, dictate our choices. Amy’s unique 12-person dating experiment encourages clients to step outside their comfort zones. They discuss transforming breakups into growth opportunities, recognizing red and green flags in partners, and the importance of emotional readiness in relationships. Tune in to reframe your dating journey!

Discover how the five pillars of sexual intelligence can elevate your intimate experiences. Explore embodiment practices like breathwork and tools for self-acceptance that confront pleasure thieves. Learn about innovative products like sonic wave toys and massage butter that enhance connection and enjoyment. Dive into the importance of communication in relationships and strategies for understanding your desires better. This captivating conversation encourages a holistic approach to sexuality, turning intimacy into a nourishing journey.

Chelsey Goodan, an educator and author dedicated to empowering teenage girls, explores the art of communication with this often misunderstood demographic. She emphasizes the importance of radical honesty to build trust and nurture girls' emotional literacy. Chelsey discusses how people-pleasing can stifle sexual pleasure and shares strategies for overcoming this mindset. Highlighting the need for comprehensive sexual education, she urges society to challenge double standards and promote accountability, all while fostering resilience and a sense of agency in young women.

Jared Freed and Jordana Abraham, co-hosts of the You Up? podcast, dive into the chaotic world of modern dating. They share hilarious dating horror stories and discuss the pitfalls of saying yes to lackluster dates. The duo emphasizes listening to your gut and focusing on genuine excitement rather than obligation. They advocate for intentional dating practices, like limiting app usage and scheduling quick meet-ups. Plus, they tackle the complexities of casual relationships, navigating boundaries, and how to avoid the dreaded ‘ick’!

In this engaging discussion, bestselling author and wellness expert Liz Moody shares her journey from agoraphobia to empowerment. She introduces a unique exercise that encourages listeners to consider their future selves for better decision-making. Liz also emphasizes the importance of clarifying relationship labels and improving communication to enhance intimacy. With insights on micro-intimacy and prioritizing joy over appearance, she provides practical strategies for nurturing relationships and embracing personal growth.

Dr. Emily tackles tricky relationship dilemmas, like a wife pressured for midnight sex, revealing deeper emotional needs at play. She discusses why men often wake up aroused and the importance of respecting sleep boundaries. Alternatives to nocturnal intimacy are suggested, from timing to creative foreplay. Out of a sexless marriage? Emily explores options for reconciliation or reimagining partnerships. Plus, she dives into boosting libido and the significance of communication surrounding oral sex in relationships.

Dive into the fascinating world of orgasms as the host reveals the physiological magic happening in your body. Discover the four stages of orgasm and learn how clitoral anatomy plays a crucial role in pleasure. Explore the intriguing concept of dry orgasms and the effectiveness of hands-free techniques like tantric breathing. And if you've ever dealt with a partner's jackhammer approach, get tips on how to communicate your needs effectively. It's a deep and enlightening journey into intimacy and connection!

Discover how pelvic positioning can unlock new sensations and enhance orgasms. A caller learns that straight legs can change clitoral stimulation, while mindful masturbation techniques help expand pleasure options. Explore why some find anal sex more enjoyable than vaginal, with insights into anatomy and nerve endings. Delve into the benefits of open discussions about intimacy and orgasms. The episode also touches on dating after loss and the fascinating world of erotic lactation.

Dr. Aliza Pressman, a developmental psychologist and founder of the Mount Sinai Parenting Center, shares her expertise on navigating conversations about sex with teens. She highlights how technology isolates youth and impacts their relationships and sexual experiences. Aliza introduces the Five R's framework to help parents talk about difficult topics like porn and identity. The discussion emphasizes the importance of pleasure-inclusive sex education and maintaining open, nonjudgmental communication to foster healthy sexual development in young people.