

Sex With Emily
Dr. Emily Morse
Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily at sexwithemily.com/ask-emily. For more sexy fun, visit sexwithemily.com and our online store shop.sexwithemily.com. Join SmartSX, her exclusive membership community, for expert-led workshops, intimate discussions, and everything you need to elevate your pleasure! Order her book today: SMART SEX: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure.
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Dec 9, 2025 • 1h 1min
The One Question That Ends All Relationship Confusion
In this engaging discussion, bestselling author and wellness expert Liz Moody shares her journey from agoraphobia to empowerment. She introduces a unique exercise that encourages listeners to consider their future selves for better decision-making. Liz also emphasizes the importance of clarifying relationship labels and improving communication to enhance intimacy. With insights on micro-intimacy and prioritizing joy over appearance, she provides practical strategies for nurturing relationships and embracing personal growth.

Dec 5, 2025 • 38min
When Sexual Preferences Become Deal Breakers
Dr. Emily tackles tricky relationship dilemmas, like a wife pressured for midnight sex, revealing deeper emotional needs at play. She discusses why men often wake up aroused and the importance of respecting sleep boundaries. Alternatives to nocturnal intimacy are suggested, from timing to creative foreplay. Out of a sexless marriage? Emily explores options for reconciliation or reimagining partnerships. Plus, she dives into boosting libido and the significance of communication surrounding oral sex in relationships.

Dec 2, 2025 • 36min
How to Know If You're Actually Having an Orgasm
Dive into the fascinating world of orgasms as the host reveals the physiological magic happening in your body. Discover the four stages of orgasm and learn how clitoral anatomy plays a crucial role in pleasure. Explore the intriguing concept of dry orgasms and the effectiveness of hands-free techniques like tantric breathing. And if you've ever dealt with a partner's jackhammer approach, get tips on how to communicate your needs effectively. It's a deep and enlightening journey into intimacy and connection!

Nov 28, 2025 • 34min
Pelvic Positioning Changes Everything
Discover how pelvic positioning can unlock new sensations and enhance orgasms. A caller learns that straight legs can change clitoral stimulation, while mindful masturbation techniques help expand pleasure options. Explore why some find anal sex more enjoyable than vaginal, with insights into anatomy and nerve endings. Delve into the benefits of open discussions about intimacy and orgasms. The episode also touches on dating after loss and the fascinating world of erotic lactation.

Nov 25, 2025 • 44min
How to Talk to Teens About Sex
Dr. Aliza Pressman, a developmental psychologist and founder of the Mount Sinai Parenting Center, shares her expertise on navigating conversations about sex with teens. She highlights how technology isolates youth and impacts their relationships and sexual experiences. Aliza introduces the Five R's framework to help parents talk about difficult topics like porn and identity. The discussion emphasizes the importance of pleasure-inclusive sex education and maintaining open, nonjudgmental communication to foster healthy sexual development in young people.

Nov 21, 2025 • 43min
5 Things Secretly Stealing Your Pleasure
Dr. Emily Nagoski, a renowned sex educator and author, joins for a candid conversation on the complexities of desire and pleasure. They dive into the impact of stress and societal myths, like the misconception of "blue balls," which hinder sexual enjoyment. Discover practical tools to calm your nervous system and prioritize pleasure over momentum during intimacy. Also discussed is the importance of unlearning shame around sex and fostering healthy conversations with kids about sexuality without pressure.

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Nov 18, 2025 • 52min
Your Dating List Is Keeping You Single
Damona Hoffman, a celebrity dating coach and author of "F the Fairy Tale," joins to debunk myths that keep singles stuck in their love lives. She emphasizes the importance of prioritizing feelings and shared life goals over superficial traits. If you're getting ghosted, it might be your profile—not competition. Damona shares the 'three C's' for a captivating dating profile and stresses the need for empathetic communication and directness in dating. This conversation encourages clarity and self-awareness, leading to more meaningful connections.

Nov 14, 2025 • 45min
Terrified of Dating After Divorce (How To Bounce Back)
In this engaging conversation, Dr. Scott Lyons, a holistic psychologist and author known for his therapeutic expertise, joins Dr. Emily Morse to tackle dating fears post-divorce. They discuss how conservative upbringings can hinder sexual exploration and introduce the idea of using a 'compliment sandwich' to address sensitive topics. Scott shares breathwork techniques to ease anxiety before a date, encouraging listeners to view first dates as fun trials rather than high-stakes auditions. Plus, they highlight key behaviors to observe for long-term compatibility.

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Nov 11, 2025 • 31min
Why Cohabitation Destroys Intimacy (And How To Bring It Back)
Exploring the dynamics of intimacy, the hosts delve into how living together often diminishes sexual tension. They offer tips for reigniting romance, emphasizing the importance of creating separation and engaging in playful behaviors. A listener grapples with a partner's reluctance to give oral sex and the complexities of valid sexual dealbreakers. They also discuss cultural taboos surrounding fetish conversations and how to encourage open dialogue for mutual exploration. Practical advice and candid discussions abound!

Nov 7, 2025 • 1h 9min
Why I Opened My Marriage After 20 Years
Dr. Wednesday Martin, a cultural anthropologist and author of "Untrue," dives into the journey of opening her marriage after 20 years. She discusses how women’s sexual desire often wanes in the first few years of monogamy and explores alternatives like service sex. Wednesday shares her personal transition to non-monogamy, emphasizing communication and empathy. She breaks down the differences between swinging, open relationships, and polyamory, and highlights the importance of safety in finding partners. Her insights on attachment styles and relationship flexibility offer a fresh perspective on modern love.


