Sex With Emily

Pamela Madsen, a sex and intimacy coach and founder of Back to the Body, joins to discuss empowering women's journeys to reclaim pleasure. She reveals insights from transformative retreats focusing on self-pleasure, including unique techniques like genital mapping and the integration of BDSM and tantra. Pamela addresses common challenges in relationships, such as body image and communication barriers, while sharing tools like breath work and conscious touch to enhance intimacy. The conversation highlights the importance of ethical boundaries and fosters deeper connections.

Is the spark gone? Dr. Scott Lyons, as I explore how to get the spark back in relationships andsex. We're talking about why the spark is not what you think and what you're actually looking for.In this episode, Dr. Scott Lyons and I discuss:● Why the initial 'spark' might be misleading.● The importance of evolving and growing in relationships.● How trauma responses affect attraction and intimacy.● The difference between intensity and intimacy.● Practical ways to cultivate a sustainable and fulfilling connection.I share personal experiences and insights on dating, attraction, and the journey toward deeperself-understanding. Dr. Scott Lyons brings his expertise as a trauma therapist and somatichealer to help us understand the complexities of relationships and sexuality.Show Notes:00:00:00 - Rekindling the Spark: What You Need to Know00:02:45 - The Reality of Growth: Attraction Can Evolve00:07:57 - Freedom vs. Attachment: Different Relationship Patterns00:11:10 - Evolving Attraction: Hemisexuals, Saposexuals, and Demisexuals00:15:03 - The Attraction ICK: Is There an Attraction Spark?00:19:29 - Peeling Away the Layers: The Beauty of Intimacy00:22:49 - The Honeymoon Period Is Drunk: Sobering Up and Finding Organic Excitement00:27:40 - Variety and Newness: Keeping the Spark Alive00:31:17 - Passion or Safety: Cultivating Eroticism in Safety00:35:56 - Arousal Runway: Pottery Classes and Cooking Meals00:40:19 - Developing New Habits: Making Time for Connection00:42:51 - Chasing the Familiar: Red Flags as a Spark00:46:16 - The Importance of Feeling Safe00:49:54 - Childhood Was Perfect: Somatic Therapy and Nervous System Regulation00:53:10 - Grounding in Our Senses: Getting Back to Sensuality and Connection00:56:26 - Healing Patterns: Not Taking the Bait00:58:20 - Sustainable, Healthy, Loving Relationships: Going the Distance Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website  Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Try Dipsea Free for 30 Days!Right now, you can get a 30-day free trial PLUS 25% off your annual subscription at DipseaStories.com/SWESee the full show notes at www.sexwithemily.com

What emotions do you crave in the bedroom? Discover the fascinating concept of praise kink, where feeling worshiped can heighten intimacy. Explore how positive affirmations can enhance your connections and sexual tension. Dive into juicy listener questions about wanting your ex while being engaged and the allure of seeing your partner desired by others. Unpack your core erotic desires and learn how to turn fantasies into reality for more fulfilling experiences.

Menace, former co-host of Sex With Emily and current host on The Woody Show, joins the conversation to tackle the crucial link between confidence and sexuality. They delve into topics like managing jealousy, addressing insecurities about body counts, and even the nuances of initiating hot phone sex. Menace shares insights on overcoming biases related to height in dating and the importance of communication in intimate relationships. The duo emphasizes the power of confidence in enhancing connections and being dominant in the bedroom.

Dive into the intriguing world of mismatched sexual desires! Listen to stories of a couple with a significant age gap grappling with dwindling intimacy. Explore the challenge of differing views on sex—pleasure versus procreation. Hear from a 'pillow princess' questioning her role in giving and receiving pleasure. Finally, uncover the complexities of a decade-long dead bedroom situation and the importance of healthy communication and change. It's a thought-provoking discussion on desire, intimacy, and relationship dynamics!

Dive into the intricacies of modern dating as open communication takes center stage. Discover how sharing about casual partners can lead to more honest relationships. Explore whether ADD medication impacts intimacy and orgasm satisfaction. Listen in on a couple grappling with discomfort during oral sex—could it be technique or underlying issues? Finally, learn how to address feelings about a partner's porn preferences without judgment, fostering understanding and connection. It's an enlightening journey into enhancing sexual fulfillment!

Tired of old stereotypes about sex? Discover how commonly held myths limit pleasure and intimacy. Explore the emotional depth of penis owners and challenge misconceptions about their desires. Learn the power of effective communication and curiosity with partners, whether they're new or long-term. Uncover how positive affirmations and specific praise can enhance your relationships. It's time to embrace a more empowered and enjoyable sexual experience!

Is it wrong to watch porn without telling your partner? This podcast dives into the murky waters of sexual communication and boundaries in relationships. It highlights the importance of open dialogue about desires and intimacy. Listeners hear about navigating differing sexual drives and the impact of trauma on affection. It also tackles the experiences of sex workers and how historical context shapes our views on intimacy. Tune in for tips on enhancing connections and fostering understanding between partners.

Dive into the complexities of sexual compatibility as couples tackle their relationship dilemmas. Is a lack of pleasure from a partner a sign of disinterest, or could nerves be at play? Discover the surprising downsides of excessive squirting and how to manage it. Learn how to respond thoughtfully when a partner's kink catches you off guard, keeping the mood alive. Finally, explore the nuances of navigating past relationships when current chemistry feels lacking, highlighting the importance of open communication and understanding.

Wondering if you’re the problematic one in your love life? This conversation tackles a listener’s cheating dilemma during a break and the chaos that follows. Dive into the challenges of spicing up intimacy when past experiences clash with current expectations. There's also a candid discussion on the frustration of missing oral sex in a marriage and tips for overcoming such intimacy hurdles. Plus, learn how to revamp your sexual connection with playful ideas and effective communication!