Sex With Emily How to Actually Get Your Needs Met in Bed
Jan 2, 2026
Explore transformative listener stories revealing how honest communication can revolutionize intimacy. Discover Graham's journey into pegging, uncovering deeper discussions with his wife. Calvin's spontaneous threesome after a night of dancing sparks newfound excitement after 20 years! Jasmine breaks through emotional barriers to achieve her first penetrative orgasm by advocating for her needs. Learn techniques like grinding, breathwork, and staying present to enhance sexual experiences and connection.
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Pegging Sparked New Sexual Communication
- Graham asked his wife to try pegging and they explored it together, even shopping for a bigger strap-on and making a date of it.
- After pegging, their sexual communication improved dramatically and his wife began initiating the act unprompted.
Receiving Can Challenge Masculine Scripts
- Emily explains pegging is vulnerable for many men because it reverses a lifelong role of penetrator and asks them to receive and surrender control.
- She notes psychological barriers, not bodies, often limit sexual exploration and pleasure.
Spontaneous Dance-Floor Threesome
- Calvin and his wife of 20+ years spontaneously invited a woman home after dancing, which led to their first threesome that felt erotic and exploratory.
- The experience included nervousness, clear communication, condom use, and post-sex debrief about personalities and future boundaries.
