How to Get the Girl: By the Ask Women Podcast

When it comes to men’s health, your penis might be saying more than you think. On this episode of How to Get the Girl, we sit down with Dr. Elliot Justin — physician, innovator, and creator of the world’s first smart penis ring — to talk about not erectile dysfunction, but erectile fitness.Dr. Justin shares why sexual health is more than performance — it’s a vital indicator of your overall well-being. We dig into the critical need for data-driven solutions in medicine, how technology is changing the game for men’s health, and why paying attention to your erections could literally save your life.He also opens up about keeping intimacy alive with his wife of decades — proving that long-term relationships don’t have to mean long-term boredom in the bedroom.If you’ve ever wondered what your erections reveal about your health (and your love life), this is a conversation you don’t want to miss.>>>Join Kristen for an in-person workshop in Los Angeles September 27th and 28th! >>>SEATS ARE LIMITED! Get them here:⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/day1⁠⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/day2⁠>>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠>>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty ⁠⁠⁠

Communication is the foundation of every great relationship, but for so many people, it’s also the biggest struggle. In this episode, we’re joined by Suzanne Tabachnick, founder of Social Foundations, a supportive community dedicated to helping people build social awareness, abilities, and confidence. While Social Foundations focuses on individuals navigating life on the autism spectrum, Suzanne’s insights are valuable for anyone who wants to strengthen their communication skills and form deeper connections, leading to chemistry and romance. We dive into the essentials of effective communication in dating and relationships: how to notice the areas where you might be falling short, what habits could be holding you back, and practical steps you can take to improve. Whether you’ve struggled to express yourself, misread signals, or just want to become more confident in connecting with others, this conversation will help you level up your ability to bond, attract, and sustain meaningful relationships.>>>Join Kristen along with the founder of Limitless Brave and surprise guest for an in-person workshop in Los Angeles September 27th and 28th. >>>SEATS ARE LIMITED!https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/day1https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/day2>>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠>>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty ⁠⁠

How do you know when to pursue, when to pull back, and when to stop altogether? In this throwback episode, we sit down with Emmy-nominated producer and casting director Tanya Bershadsly to break down the art of pursuit. We dive into the signals women give that tell you she’s interested, HOW TO SPOT when you’re pushing too far, and the difference between persistence and pressure. Tanya brings her eye for human behavior from years in casting to reveal what women are really communicating, often without saying a word. Whether you struggle to make the first move or aren’t sure when to step back, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence to pursue women the right way.>>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠>>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty ⁠

This week, is a serious DON'T MISS. We sit down with Erin Keating, creator of the brand and podcast Hotter Than Ever, dedicated to dating over 50, to reveal the unfiltered truths men need to hear. While Erin’s show focuses on dating later in life, the insights she shares apply to any man looking to attract and connect with women. Erin is no-holds-barred, authentic, and tells it exactly like it is- no fluff, no sugarcoating. We cover the biggest online dating mistakes guys of every age make, how to actually get her to say yes to a date, and what instantly makes a woman give you a chance (or swipe left) on an app. Packed with insider perspectives straight from a woman’s mind, this episode is your playbook for standing out, making REAL connections, and turning matches into real-life dates.

This one’s from the vault back when the show was called Ask Women—so don’t be confused by the old name drop! The advice still holds up (and then some).In this episode, we’re joined by Adam Wayne, Marni’s personal coach, to talk about one of the trickiest topics for men: how to share your vulnerabilities without coming off as self-deprecating, weak, or like you’re making excuses for who you are.Adam breaks down how to own your truth, express emotion, and connect deeply with women—without ever losing your edge. Whether you're dating, in a relationship, or just trying to get better at opening up, this conversation is a must-listen as it’s Insightful, honest, and practical, as always!>>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠>>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty

K.T. Tatara, a comedian and crowd-reading maestro, joins Kristen for a captivating discussion on bouncing back from cringe-worthy first impressions. They explore the fine line between awkward and unrecoverable moments, emphasizing the art of self-deprecation and the power of naming the weird energy in a room. Listeners are treated to strategies for recovery that include when to own up to a blunder and when to pivot. With humor and authenticity, K.T. shares insights that help demystify the complexities of attraction in both dating and relationships.

Aaron Marino, known as Alpha M, is a leading men’s lifestyle influencer and entrepreneur behind multiple fashion and grooming brands. In this engaging conversation, he reveals that true confidence is a skill, not arrogance. Listeners learn the power of grooming habits, how small wins build swagger, and strategies for overcoming self-doubt. He also discusses the importance of taking risks in dating and the transformative effects of online interactions, emphasizing internal validation over social media's pressures.

Jevon Wooden, an Empathetic Leadership Coach, shares insights on the critical role of emotional intelligence (EQ) in attracting and connecting with women. He explains how EQ helps men understand and respond to women's emotions, fostering genuine relationships. Topics include practical strategies for improving communication, gauging emotional awareness, and using empathy to enhance interactions. Jevon also discusses how emotional intelligence can be the antidote to feeling disconnected, making you more magnetic and confident in your dating life.

Join Dr. Tina Shermer, a certified sex therapist and bestselling author, as she confronts the heavy burden of sexual shame that often plagues men. She explains how this shame can stem from upbringing and cultural pressures, ultimately affecting dating confidence. Throughout the dialogue, Dr. Shermer emphasizes the power of open discussions around sex, reframing perceptions, and embracing body autonomy. Listeners are left inspired to turn their dating struggles into pathways for deeper connections and greater self-acceptance.

Join Ally Iseman, a certified relationship coach and founder of PassportToPleasure.com, as she unpacks jealousy in dating. She reveals how this often-overlooked emotion can boost attraction and intimacy instead of ruining relationships. Discover the importance of self-awareness, the necessity of open conversations about jealousy, and learn how to turn those tricky feelings into playful intrigue. Ally also shares tips on maintaining confidence during first dates and embracing spontaneity for deeper connections.