How to Get the Girl: By the Ask Women Podcast

Most men think attraction is built by being polite, respectful, and safe.But that’s exactly why so many women feel nothing, even when the guy checks all the boxes.In this episode, Marni breaks down the biggest misunderstanding men have about attraction with Kurt who is a listener of the podcast. Why logic, effort, and approval seeking quietly kill chemistry before it ever starts. You’ll learn the difference between emotional attraction and emotional safety, why asking permission drains polarity, and how men accidentally skip the flirting phase without realizing it.If you’ve ever heard “You’re a great guy, I just don’t feel the spark,” this episode explains what actually went wrong and how to stop being invisible without becoming arrogant, manipulative, or fake.This is about emotional leadership, polarity, and creating attraction on purpose.>>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠>>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty 

In this insightful discussion, dating coach Patrick James, author of '107 Proven Ways to Get the Girl', shares strategies for sparking attraction quickly. He emphasizes the significance of boldness in approaching women and how playful rapport breaks can set you apart. The hosts explore the importance of facial expressions and energy in creating a welcoming atmosphere. They provide tips on avoiding typical interview questions, making conversations feel natural, and boosting confidence through practice. Prepare to enhance your attraction game!

Kevin Aillaud, an Alpha Male Coach and founder of the Elevated Alpha Society, dives into what it means to be an alpha man today. He redefines alpha as cognitive mastery, moving away from outdated concepts of dominance. Kevin shares insights on escaping the friend zone by changing internal thoughts and emphasizes the importance of emotional ownership. He offers practical tools to curb anxiety and transform thoughts into beliefs, all while highlighting the significance of self-perception in shaping others' reactions.

Enjoy this special throwback episode where Marni sits down with seduction coach Vince Kelvin to talk about dating, attraction, confidence, and how men can naturally get better with women. Vince breaks down actionable insights, useful techniques, and surprising truths about modern dating. Listen now and learn something new.>>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠>>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

A candid single mom shares her unfiltered insights on dating in your 40s. She highlights the red flags of dishonesty found on dating apps, especially from married men. Financial parity and shared values are crucial for her; she emphasizes the importance of equal partnerships. Time management is essential as a mom, preferring quick in-person meetings over endless texting. She discusses the impact of exes and custody arrangements and shares anecdotes of dating disasters, emphasizing how attraction is often instinctive.

In this engaging discussion, Bob Grant, known as 'The Relationship Doctor' and a bestselling author, shares his expertise on the intricacies of women's emotions and effective communication in relationships. He emphasizes the importance of listening to build attraction and redefines the friend zone, encouraging emotional closeness. Bob also addresses conflict as a necessary component of intimacy, advises on managing boundaries, and discusses how and when to disclose mental health issues, rounding off with tips on communicating non-negotiables for healthier relationships.

Tim Ash, an author and expert in evolutionary psychology, joins the discussion to unveil the primal instincts behind attraction and relationships. He explores how men and women evolved differently and why that shapes modern dating behaviors. The conversation also dives into the chemistry of love, the influence of economic power on partner choice, and the impact of dating apps on mate selection. With practical relationship advice, Tim sheds light on understanding each other better in the context of these primal instincts.

In this engaging discussion, Amy Rowan, a sexologist and founder of Suburban Intimacy, reveals how many women struggle to feel fully engaged during intimacy. She shares her personal journey of overcoming sexual confidence issues and emphasizes the importance of dropping pressure around orgasm. Amy advises men on how to create a safe, playful environment for intimacy and suggests focusing on non-sexual touch to foster connection. With a roadmap to deeper pleasure, her insights aim to transform relationships and enhance intimacy.

In this engaging discussion, happiness coach Robert Mack shares his journey from overcoming depression to teaching the transformative power of inner happiness. He explains why happiness makes you more attractive, how self-care can boost your dating life, and offers practical strategies to prioritize joy. Robert emphasizes that emotional regulation and authenticity are essential, while extreme positivity can sometimes put people off. Dive into strategies for cultivating happiness and building self-esteem that resonates with potential partners.

We’re throwing it back to the Ask Women days! Comedian Nick Guerra joins Marni and Kristen for a classic “Over Analyze This” episode where we dive into listener letters and answer your biggest dating questions. From how to handle jealousy to dealing with flakers and c*ck blockers, nothing’s off limits. We also dive into our classic segment, Help Another Brother Out, where we give one listener some direct, no-BS advice to get his dating life back on track.Tune in for some laughs, some raw truths, and a little nostalgic chaos from the Ask Women archives — now under the new How to Get the Girl banner.>>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠>>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠