
Ask Women Podcast: What Women Want
What do a female comic and a professional wing girl have in common? The realistically raw and hilarious perspectives on what women ACTUALLY want in a man. Prepare to be offended and awed as Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney take you through the uncensored and often ridiculous mind of a woman to help you better understand, appreciate, and avoid getting punched by the next girl you come across. Wanna Ask The Girls A Question?
Send your questions to ask@askwomenpodcast.com and check out our other dating tools and advice: https://www.winggirlmethod.com and Kristencarney.com/datinghelp
Latest episodes

Jun 3, 2025 • 46min
Ep. 530 Unlocking Confidence and Why Women Do and Don't Date Older Men
Kristen and Marni are joined by special guest Kelly Tao, one of Marne’s original wing girls, for a powerful conversation on confidence—how to access the confidence already within you, how to keep it consistent, and how to let it multiply.They also get real about age gaps in dating—and share their personal preferences about WHY dating older men can be desirable and WHY dating younger/the same age range can also be desirable so you have a better idea of what make you and your age-range appealing. It’s honest, insightful, and full of practical tips to help you show up with more confidence and connection in your dating life.>>> Become the most charming, magnetic, WITTY and confident version of yourself. Book a free call with Kristen here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession>>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

May 27, 2025 • 43min
Ep. 529 Crush Approach Anxiety with the Power of Precise Language
What if changing just a few words could completely shift your confidence and attraction levels? In this powerful episode, we welcome back language and mindset expert Spencer Burnett to dive deep into the concept of precise language—how the words you think and say directly impact your ability to connect, attract, and show up as your most magnetic self.Spencer breaks down how unconscious language patterns fuel anxiety and resistance—and then flips the script with a live, on-air language coaching demo with Marni. Watch (okay, listen!) as he rewires her inner dialogue in real time to eliminate approach anxiety using easy, practical shifts you can apply today.This isn't just theory—it's transformation you can hear. If you've ever struggled with self-talk that kills your vibe before you even say hello, you need this episode in your ears.🔥 Tune in to learn:The secret power of precise languageHow to eliminate approach anxiety through word choiceReal-time mindset rewiring in actionThis one’s a game changer.>>> Ready to become the most charming, magnetic, WITTY and confident version of yourself? Book a free call with Kristen here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession>>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

May 20, 2025 • 53min
Ep. 528 Break Free: How Hidden Trauma Is Running Your Life (And How to Stop It)
Trauma - we all have it. Whether it’s loud and obvious or quiet and buried, your past experiences are shaping your present more than you might realize.In this powerful episode, we’re joined by trauma expert Tori Helf (Janae), who breaks down exactly how to uncover the hidden traumas holding you back — and more importantly, how to release them so they stop running the show. From small emotional wounds to deep-rooted pain, we explore how trauma affects everything from your confidence to your dating life to your sense of self.Tori shares real, practical tools for identifying and healing unresolved issues — so you can finally start living freely and fully.>>> Ready to become the most charming, magnetic, WITTY and confident version of yourself? Book a free call with Kristen here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession>>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

May 13, 2025 • 37min
Ep. 527 Be a Detective in the Bedroom: How to Read Her and Please Her
Celeste Hirschman, co-creator of the Somatica® Method and a somatic sex coach, shares how to enhance intimacy and pleasure in relationships. She emphasizes the art of being a 'detective' in the bedroom—understanding what a woman likes through intuitive, playful communication. Listeners will learn about the nuances of consent, arousal patterns, and the importance of building connection before intimacy. Celeste’s actionable tips aim to boost men’s confidence and transform their approach to sexual exploration.

May 6, 2025 • 55min
Ep. 526 Unlocking Your Dark Side to Attract Women
What if your “dark side” was the key to unlocking deeper confidence, attraction, and connection in your relationships?In this episode, Adam Skoda — host of The Masculine Mindset Show, author of 77 Ways to Develop a Masculine Mindset, and creator of the Alpha Body Bootcamp Training Program — joins the show to explore the real power behind what psychology calls the “Dark Triad” traits: narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy.We dive into:What the Dark Triad really means in the context of human attraction and female psychologyHow to channel “dark” energy in a healthy way to create polarity and deeper emotional connectionPersonal stories from our own relationships where embracing shadow energy created surprising breakthroughsA grounded, practical guide to shadow work — and how to do it without spiraling or getting stuck in shameIf you’ve ever felt like there’s a part of you you’ve been told to hide — this episode is your permission slip to bring it into the light (and use it well).This week's episode is brought to you by Beducated. Get an additional 10% off at https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomenhttps://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen>>>Ready to become the most charming, magnetic, WITTY and confident version of yourself? Apply to work exclusively with Kristen here (spots are limited): https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

Apr 29, 2025 • 45min
Ep. 525 The Secret Weapon You’re Ignoring: Your Imperfections
This week, we’re flipping the script on what you think women want.Yes, your so-called "shortcomings" (the things you’re not proud of) can actually attract women when you know how to use them the right way. And our amazing guest - fiery redhead Yoann Bohbot, Founder of dotsspace.com - is here to explain exactly how to do it.We also dive into:How to find and pursue the right woman for youHow to build a strategy for attracting a specific girlHow to get different types of women based on what you wantHow to mentally overcome obstacles without ever stepping into therapy...and so much more.Don’t miss this one — it’s packed with fresh insights that could change the way you see yourself (and how women see you).This week's episode is brought to you by Beducated. Get an additional 10% off at https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomenhttps://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen>>>Ready to become the most charming, magnetic, WITTY and confident version of yourself? Apply to work exclusively with Kristen here (spots are limited): https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

Apr 22, 2025 • 47min
Ep. 524 Rewire Your Mind, Win her Attraction: The Hypnosis Hack
In this engaging discussion, hypnosis and charisma coach Wendy Packer shares her expertise on rewiring the subconscious for confidence and attraction. She reveals practical tools to replace limiting beliefs and embrace a magnetic identity. Wendy explores what true charisma is, shares phrases to enhance lovability, and discusses how to balance giving your partner what they want while maintaining your own identity. Whether you're looking to level up or understand the dynamics of attraction, her insights are invaluable.

Apr 15, 2025 • 56min
Ep. 523 Unlocking Arousal: The Many Pathways to Pleasure
In this juicy and eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the many ways women experience arousal - with a refreshingly honest look at the full spectrum of desire. Joined by sex and intimacy expert Melissa Louise, we explore the concept of arousal maps for both women and men, and how most of us have only scratched the surface of what's possible.Whether you've been with your partner for years or you're just starting something new, Melissa shares powerful tools for communicating your wants, needs, and turn-ons in ways that feel safe, confident, and connected.We also unpack the common myths about arousal, the options we didn’t even know were on the table, and why pleasure is never one-size-fits-all.This one is equal parts educational, liberating, and empowering. You might never approach sex the same way again.>>>Ready to become the most charming, magnetic, WITTY and confident version of yourself? Apply to work with exclusively with Kristen here spots are limited): https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

Apr 9, 2025 • 59min
Ep. 522 Dating Women in Their 50's - They've Still Got It
In this episode, we're joined by a bold, sexy woman in her 50s who’s single, self-aware, and not afraid to speak the truth about dating at this stage of life. We dive deep into what’s actually going on for women in their 50s—physically, emotionally, and romantically.She shares what men are doing that works, what’s turning women off faster than you can say “hey beautiful,” and the kind of communication that truly feels attractive and emotionally safe. We also get real about how things like hormones, life experience, and shifting priorities impact how women date and what kind of connection they’re open to now.If you’ve ever wondered how to better connect with women in their 50s or you're re-entering the dating world yourself, this conversation is packed with what you need to know to date in this age range successfully. Need personalized coaching to get out of your dating rut?? >>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

Apr 1, 2025 • 42min
Ep. 521 Getting What You Want and Owning Who You Are
Dating is challenging enough, so why make it harder by hiding your true self and not asking for what you want? This week, we’re joined by Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, coach and therapist at GrowingSelf.com, who shares powerful insights on building self-confidence and showing up authentically in your love life. She also breaks down attachment styles - how to identify yours and what it means for your relationships. If yours isn’t serving you well, don’t worry, Dr. Bobby provides practical tools to help you shift toward healthier, more fulfilling connections.>>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelpThis week's episode is brought to you by Beducated. Get an additional 10% off at https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomenhttps://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen