How to Get the Girl: By the Ask Women Podcast

This one’s from the vault back when the show was called Ask Women—so don’t be confused by the old name drop! The advice still holds up (and then some).In this episode, we’re joined by Adam Wayne, Marni’s personal coach, to talk about one of the trickiest topics for men: how to share your vulnerabilities without coming off as self-deprecating, weak, or like you’re making excuses for who you are.Adam breaks down how to own your truth, express emotion, and connect deeply with women—without ever losing your edge. Whether you're dating, in a relationship, or just trying to get better at opening up, this conversation is a must-listen as it’s Insightful, honest, and practical, as always!>>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠>>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty

K.T. Tatara, a comedian and crowd-reading maestro, joins Kristen for a captivating discussion on bouncing back from cringe-worthy first impressions. They explore the fine line between awkward and unrecoverable moments, emphasizing the art of self-deprecation and the power of naming the weird energy in a room. Listeners are treated to strategies for recovery that include when to own up to a blunder and when to pivot. With humor and authenticity, K.T. shares insights that help demystify the complexities of attraction in both dating and relationships.

Aaron Marino, known as Alpha M, is a leading men’s lifestyle influencer and entrepreneur behind multiple fashion and grooming brands. In this engaging conversation, he reveals that true confidence is a skill, not arrogance. Listeners learn the power of grooming habits, how small wins build swagger, and strategies for overcoming self-doubt. He also discusses the importance of taking risks in dating and the transformative effects of online interactions, emphasizing internal validation over social media's pressures.

Jevon Wooden, an Empathetic Leadership Coach, shares insights on the critical role of emotional intelligence (EQ) in attracting and connecting with women. He explains how EQ helps men understand and respond to women's emotions, fostering genuine relationships. Topics include practical strategies for improving communication, gauging emotional awareness, and using empathy to enhance interactions. Jevon also discusses how emotional intelligence can be the antidote to feeling disconnected, making you more magnetic and confident in your dating life.

Join Dr. Tina Shermer, a certified sex therapist and bestselling author, as she confronts the heavy burden of sexual shame that often plagues men. She explains how this shame can stem from upbringing and cultural pressures, ultimately affecting dating confidence. Throughout the dialogue, Dr. Shermer emphasizes the power of open discussions around sex, reframing perceptions, and embracing body autonomy. Listeners are left inspired to turn their dating struggles into pathways for deeper connections and greater self-acceptance.

Join Ally Iseman, a certified relationship coach and founder of PassportToPleasure.com, as she unpacks jealousy in dating. She reveals how this often-overlooked emotion can boost attraction and intimacy instead of ruining relationships. Discover the importance of self-awareness, the necessity of open conversations about jealousy, and learn how to turn those tricky feelings into playful intrigue. Ally also shares tips on maintaining confidence during first dates and embracing spontaneity for deeper connections.

Join powerhouse salesman Brad DeMint, host of the How to Win podcast, as he uncovers the secrets to confidently asking for what you want in life and dating. He shares insights on overcoming limiting beliefs and the vital role of self-belief. Discover how effective communication and rapport can transform your connections and understand why many struggle to articulate their desires. Brad’s advice serves as a wake-up call for those who have been holding back—get ready to embrace your empowerment!

Join intimacy expert Susan Bratton as she dives into candid conversations about male performance issues, specifically erectile dysfunction. She explains that ED isn't just psychological, tying it to physical factors like cardiovascular health. Learn how factors such as diet, communication, and even the porn you consume can impact your intimate life. Susan offers advice on boosting confidence and effective treatments, exploring both budget-friendly and luxury options. Ultimately, she reveals what women truly desire in intimate relationships—hint: it’s not about perfection!

Dive into the world of men's fashion as two experts share how dressing sharply can captivate attention. Discover the secrets behind stylish looks that make women swoon and why confidence matters. Hear about the return to elegance at networking events and the magic of using personal style as a tool for attraction. Get insights into transforming self-esteem through fashion choices, and learn how your appearance reflects your character. It's all about making a stunning first impression and showing pride in yourself!

In this insightful discussion, confidence coach Kelly Tao, a wing girl for Marni's Inner Circle, shares her expertise on unlocking inner confidence in dating. She emphasizes self-trust and the thrill of taking risks to form genuine connections. The trio candidly explores the dynamics of age gaps in relationships, highlighting the appeal of older men for their maturity while discussing compatibility over age. Packed with practical tips, it’s a vibrant conversation aimed at helping men engage more confidently in their romantic pursuits.