How to Get the Girl: By the Ask Women Podcast Ep. 557 How to Spark Attraction in the First 30 Seconds
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Dec 16, 2025 In this insightful discussion, dating coach Patrick James, author of '107 Proven Ways to Get the Girl', shares strategies for sparking attraction quickly. He emphasizes the significance of boldness in approaching women and how playful rapport breaks can set you apart. The hosts explore the importance of facial expressions and energy in creating a welcoming atmosphere. They provide tips on avoiding typical interview questions, making conversations feel natural, and boosting confidence through practice. Prepare to enhance your attraction game!
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Practice Your Face And Voice On Camera
- Record yourself on video and audio to catch expressionless faces and monotone voices so you can fix them.
- Practice smiling, varied intonation, and small facial movements until they feel natural on camera.
Faces Communicate Emotion More Than Words
- Women are emotional communicators so words without facial emotion come across flat or suspicious.
- A closed, expressionless face signals insecurity or withholding, which reduces trust and attraction.
Train Your Vocal Cadence
- Read aloud while recording to hear your cadence and practice varied intonation and volume.
- Experiment with pitch and emphasis so your voice feels alive during conversations.