How to Get the Girl: By the Ask Women Podcast Ep. 553 No-BS Guide to Dating Women in Their 40's
Nov 18, 2025
A candid single mom shares her unfiltered insights on dating in your 40s. She highlights the red flags of dishonesty found on dating apps, especially from married men. Financial parity and shared values are crucial for her; she emphasizes the importance of equal partnerships. Time management is essential as a mom, preferring quick in-person meetings over endless texting. She discusses the impact of exes and custody arrangements and shares anecdotes of dating disasters, emphasizing how attraction is often instinctive.
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Married Man Caught On A Date
- Heidi arrived early to a date and watched the man remove his ring before the meeting.
- She confronted him subtly and ended the date immediately when she realized he was married.
Older Daters Often Mask Their Reality
- Heidi says many older daters lie about their relationship status or roles to justify affairs.
- She finds younger men more honest, though less compatible long-term.
Fake Police Officer Revealed By Research
- A man told Heidi he was a police officer but was only a mechanic at the department.
- She researched him and ended the connection when she discovered the lie.