How to Get the Girl: By the Ask Women Podcast Ep. 554 Throwback! The Relationship Doctor Is In (with Bob Grant)
Nov 12, 2025
In this engaging discussion, Bob Grant, known as 'The Relationship Doctor' and a bestselling author, shares his expertise on the intricacies of women's emotions and effective communication in relationships. He emphasizes the importance of listening to build attraction and redefines the friend zone, encouraging emotional closeness. Bob also addresses conflict as a necessary component of intimacy, advises on managing boundaries, and discusses how and when to disclose mental health issues, rounding off with tips on communicating non-negotiables for healthier relationships.
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Sister’s Boss Dismissed Her Feelings
- Marni described her sister repeatedly venting to a male boss who dismissed her feelings and suggested solutions.
- The boss's responses left the sister more drained and ultimately contributed to her quitting.
Listen To 'I Feel' Instead Of Fixing
- When a woman says "I feel..." she often wants to be heard, not fixed, so invite her to explain with "Tell me more."
- Listening helps her sort thoughts aloud and builds emotional safety that deepens connection.
Don’t Fear — Build Genuine Closeness
- Do not fear the friend zone; focus on getting close rather than trying to forcibly pull her out.
- Show genuine care and consistent interest to convert friendship into romantic potential.