Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Kevin Patterson, creator of the Poly Role Models blog and author of 'Love Is Not Colorblind', dives into the nuanced intersections of race and polyamory. He emphasizes the importance of representation in literature and media, sharing his personal journey of evolving beauty standards. The discussion also tackles societal biases influencing attraction, encouraging self-reflection. Patterson sheds light on misconceptions about polyamory and advocates for inclusivity in both relationships and gaming culture, all while gearing up for his upcoming book tour.

Dive into the world of cognitive biases and their surprising effects on relationships! The hosts tackle how these biases can shape perceptions and decisions, impacting your connections with others. They explore fascinating topics like matriarchal cultures, emotional intimacy among men, and the psychology of first impressions. With practical strategies and exercises, learn to enhance empathy and communication. Plus, discover tools to navigate rules in relationships, status quo bias, and emotional dynamics for healthier interactions!

The Triforce of Communication is back! This is yet another one of our favorite communication tools, and this week we're revisiting it with much more knowledge and experience using it in our daily lives. Learn how to get what you want in conversations with your partner, and how to avoid common miscommunication pitfalls with this super simple tool.Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Multiamory crew loves talking about gender, so we' were both excited and intimidated by tackling such a broad topic this week. Gender identity and expression has come into mainstream conversation, and in this episode we're tackling the basics of everything you need to know: language, avoiding bias and stereotypes, and how gender effects your privilege and lived experiences.Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Andrew Gurza, host of the Disability After Dark podcast and a disability awareness consultant, brings humor and candor to the conversation about sex and disability. He explores societal misconceptions and the unique challenges faced by disabled individuals in dating. Andrew advocates for inclusive fitness that enhances intimacy rather than seeking a 'cure.' He also addresses the importance of using respectful language and fostering open dialogues about disability while sharing his personal experiences navigating relationships in an ableist world.

Breaking up is tough, but healing can be even tougher. Discover strategies for moving on, including the importance of a 10-day no contact rule to gain clarity. Learn how to navigate friendships with ex-partners and why some arrangements, like 'friends with benefits,' may not work. Explore therapeutic activities that aid emotional recovery and the need for a supportive network. Finally, reflect on past relationships to grow, recognize red flags, and embrace new experiences as you rediscover your self-worth.

Trust is a fundamental pillar in both romantic and non-monogamous relationships, yet it's incredibly fragile. The podcast delves into the complexities of trust, highlighting how past experiences shape our willingness to trust after betrayal. It emphasizes the need for mutual acknowledgment of mistakes and the role of honesty in rebuilding connections. Balancing intuition and rationality is key, along with fostering open communication. Through shared insights, the speakers explore how trust evolves and can be strengthened even after significant breaches.

Dive into the realities of sexual health, breaking down the stigma surrounding STIs. Explore the risks of infections like chlamydia and herpes, and learn why regular testing matters. The discussion emphasizes the significance of open communication in relationships, along with personal responsibility in polyamorous dynamics. Discover the emotional implications of HPV and the importance of vaccination. Overall, it's a candid conversation aimed at empowering listeners to take charge of their sexual health through knowledge and awareness.

Kitty Stryker, a feminist writer and queer activist, delves into the critical theme of consent culture. She explores how consent extends beyond the bedroom into daily life, emphasizing open dialogue and personal autonomy. The conversation navigates the complexities of consent dynamics across various relationship types, promoting accountability and compassion. Stryker also humorously discusses unsolicited medical advice, raising awareness about power dynamics in professional relationships. Join her in advocating for a more conscious approach to consent in all interactions.

The Multiamory crew answers common questions about polyamory, exploring its practice and distinguishing it from other forms of non-monogamy. They address misconceptions about polyamorous relationships and discuss the importance of communication with metamores. The podcast also delves into different relationship models in polyamory and emphasizes the importance of treating all partners with kindness and respect.