Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 172 - Polyamory in Movies and TV (Live Show)
May 22, 2018
Dive into a lively discussion about how modern media represents polyamory and non-monogamous relationships. The hosts critique depictions in shows like 'Transparent' and 'She's Gotta Have It,' analyzing the complexities and misconceptions surrounding these lifestyles. They share personal anecdotes and examine how various narratives challenge traditional romantic norms. With engaging insights, they highlight the importance of authentic storytelling and the evolving perception of polyamory in pop culture.
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Mainstream Frames Polyamory Around Couples
- Media often portrays non-monogamy as a way for a couple to 'spice up' rather than as equal relationships.
- This framing centers couple-privilege and typically erases male bisexuality and people of color.
Writers Balance Realism With Mainstream Comfort
- Representation improved year-to-year, with more nuance and more people of color appearing on screen.
- Writers still balance realistic portrayal against what mainstream audiences expect and accept.
Insecure Shows Hookups Don’t Equal Relationships
- In Insecure, Molly sleeps with Dro, a married man in an open relationship with his wife Candace.
- The arc shows Molly becoming unhappy because the arrangement stays casual and never becomes the committed relationship she wanted.
