
Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
Multiamory offers support and advice for modern relationships. Whether you are monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you and we’re here for you. Multiamory is a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts. For network details, contact cameron@pleasurepodcasts.com.
Latest episodes

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Jun 3, 2025 • 1h 3min
532 - Is Attachment Theory Just Bullsh*t?
Dive into a thought-provoking discussion about attachment theory and its criticisms. The hosts explore how this theory influences modern relationships, especially non-monogamous ones. They share personal experiences with different attachment styles and stress the importance of context in navigating relationship anxiety. Discover how parenting and interpersonal connections shape our attachment patterns. The conversation also highlights the potential for healing through relationships, encouraging a deeper understanding of ourselves and our connections with others.

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May 27, 2025 • 59min
531 - What's Wrong with Enjoying Consensual Sex with Multiple People? Listener Q&A
In this engaging Q&A, hosts tackle listener questions about love, polyamory, and the challenges of discussing non-monogamy with friends and family. They explore the intricacies of expressing love in relationships, emphasizing personal meaning over traditional definitions. The conversation delves into the complexities of identity in polyamorous dynamics, the significance of communication, and the value of platonic connections. Listeners are encouraged to embrace open dialogue and self-discovery in their unique relationship journeys.

May 20, 2025 • 59min
530 - Why You Keep Having the Same Fight – 3 Toxic Patterns that Keep Us Stuck
Dive into the intricate world of relationship conflicts, where recurring patterns mimic a choreographed dance. Discover how blame games and emotional withdrawal can derail connections, alongside strategies to disrupt these cycles. Through humor and insightful discussions, the dynamics of financial arguments and deeper emotional needs are explored. Learn to recognize attachment styles and how they fuel tensions, with playful metaphors guiding the way to healthier communication and understanding. Transform your relational choreography!

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May 13, 2025 • 1h 6min
529 - Yes, You Can Think Your Way Out of Your Feelings (Sometimes)
The hosts dive into cognitive reappraisal, exploring how we can think our way out of negative emotions in relationships. They discuss the fine line between healthy self-reflection and self-gaslighting, especially when triggers arise. Listeners learn about emotional regulation, the impact of upbringing, and the importance of pausing during tough conversations. With humor and personal anecdotes, they offer practical strategies for navigating feelings, fostering mindfulness, and enhancing emotional dynamics in romantic connections.

May 6, 2025 • 1h 8min
528 - The Art of Stepping Back: De-escalation
Explore the art of de-escalation in relationships, diving into the emotional intricacies of separating and transitioning from romantic to platonic connections. Discover the concept of 'conscious uncoupling' and how younger generations are reshaping perceptions of breakups. The hosts tackle the challenges of maintaining intimacy post-relationship while emphasizing the importance of clear communication. Personal stories and insights illustrate the need for intentionality in navigating these complexities, helping listeners approach relationship changes with mindfulness.

Apr 29, 2025 • 1h 3min
527 - Why Your Search for Closure Isn't Working
Exploring the quest for closure after breakups, the hosts discuss the vital distinction between seeking answers and achieving emotional acceptance. They emphasize introspection as essential for healing, rather than rushing into new relationships. The conversation dives into how past patterns affect future commitments and introduces the Need for Closure Scale. With personal anecdotes and coping strategies like journaling, they invite listeners to embrace the non-linear journey of grief and the complexities of emotional processing.

Apr 22, 2025 • 1h 1min
526 - How do you make space for a primary relationship while keeping a non-primary one? Listener Q&A
Today we're answering some more listener questions! We'll be tackling some questions about moving too fast in relationships, relationship hierarchy, and primary versus non-primary relationships. Want your question answered on a future Q&A episode? Become on of our Supercast subscribers at multiamory.com/join on a sliding scale! Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.The Seattle Erotic Art Festival is May 2, 3, &4. Get 10% off select festival passes by using code MULTI at seaf.art/tickets.Get 20% off your first order of the world's smartest cat litter at prettylitter.com/multiamory with promo code MULTIAMORY Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 15, 2025 • 1h 7min
525 - Your Metamour is Not the Villain with Alex Alberto
In this discussion with Alex Alberto, a queer author and filmmaker, they tackle the often misunderstood dynamics of metamours in polyamory. Alex highlights the importance of viewing metamours as allies rather than rivals, sharing personal stories that celebrate Metamore Day. They address the emotional complexities of relationships, the challenges of jealousy, and the need for open communication. With insights from their memoir and upcoming film, Alex encourages listeners to embrace these connections for a richer, more understanding non-monogamous experience.

Apr 8, 2025 • 1h 12min
524 - From Worried to Empowered: Taking Action for Relationship Rights with Experts Diana Adams and Brett Chamberlin
Diana Adams, an international legal leader and Executive Director of the Chosen Family Law Center, teams up with Brett Chamberlain, founder of the Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Non-monogamy. Together, they dive into the importance of advocacy for LGBTQ and non-monogamous relationship rights. They discuss legislative initiatives, the need for inclusive legal frameworks, and the significance of community resilience in activism. Listeners gain insight into tangible actions for supporting diverse family structures and the fight against systemic discrimination.

Apr 1, 2025 • 49min
523 - How do I cultivate polyamorous community? Listener Q&A
In this lively discussion, the hosts tackle listener questions about building local polyamory communities, emphasizing the need for clear communication and inclusive environments. They explore coping with feelings of guilt and missing non-nesting partners, offering practical strategies to navigate these complex emotions. The conversation also covers the dynamic nature of new relationships and the significance of emotional honesty, encouraging vulnerability and connection among listeners eager to cultivate connections.