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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

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Jul 15, 2025 • 1h 7min

538 - When Knowing Better Doesn't Mean Doing Better

Dive into the complexities of modern relationships, where awareness of psychological concepts often fails to translate into action. Explore the challenges of applying relationship knowledge during emotional conflicts and discover the irony of knowing yet not doing. Learn about the innovative intersection of probiotics and vaginal health, while also addressing personal values versus behaviors. Plus, find practical tools to support trust, self-reflection, and emotional healing in relationships through body movement and cognitive behavioral techniques.
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Jul 8, 2025 • 59min

537 - Breaking the Cycle: Releasing the Grip of Control

Dive into the complex world of control in relationships. Discover the psychological roots of why some people seek control, influenced by past experiences and insecurities. The discussion highlights the fine line between healthy influence and damaging behavior. You'll learn practical exercises to improve communication and navigate the desire for control, fostering deeper connections. The hosts also share personal stories that shed light on overcoming these challenges and embracing a more loving approach.
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Jul 1, 2025 • 1h 1min

536 - Finding Your Voice: Navigating Control and Taking Back Your Power in Relationships

Dive into the intricate world of control in relationships! Discover how power dynamics can subtly influence your autonomy and well-being. The hosts explore the psychological effects of feeling powerless and discuss strategies for reclaiming personal power and emotional balance. Gender dynamics are also examined, revealing their impact on attraction and relationship satisfaction. Get ready to learn how to recognize manipulative behaviors and empower yourself to foster healthier connections!
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Jun 24, 2025 • 41min

535 - How Do You Maintain Equity Across Multiple Relationships? Listener Q&A

Explore the emotional intricacies of maintaining equity in polyamorous relationships. The hosts discuss the importance of open communication to address financial disparities and feelings of inadequacy. Creative solutions for strengthening long-distance bonds are shared, including unique activities to foster connection. Personal stories highlight the challenges of jealousy and competition among partners, emphasizing empathy and understanding. Tune in for insightful tips on navigating complex dynamics while prioritizing all partners' needs.
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Jun 17, 2025 • 1h 8min

534 - When We're Asked to Change (and When It's Okay to Refuse)

This discussion dives into the emotional challenges that arise when partners request changes, big or small. It highlights the balance of individual comfort and relationship dynamics while navigating these requests. The speakers share personal stories and practical strategies for fostering open dialogue and emotional honesty. They also examine the ethics of asking for change, particularly in non-monogamous relationships, encouraging self-awareness and boundary-setting. The conversation emphasizes that change can lead to mutual growth when approached constructively.
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Jun 10, 2025 • 1h 12min

533 - How to be Dateable with Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu

Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu, active daters turned influential voices in modern romance, offer insights from their book, How To Be Dateable. They dissect traditional dating advice, emphasizing the importance of meaningful connections over quantity. Listeners learn about innovative first dates that blend everyday life with potential partners, the pitfalls of dating app culture, and the complexities of navigating modern relationships. They also explore personal dating archetypes and the necessity of adaptability in the ever-evolving dating landscape.
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Jun 3, 2025 • 1h 3min

532 - Is Attachment Theory Just Bullsh*t?

Dive into a thought-provoking discussion about attachment theory and its criticisms. The hosts explore how this theory influences modern relationships, especially non-monogamous ones. They share personal experiences with different attachment styles and stress the importance of context in navigating relationship anxiety. Discover how parenting and interpersonal connections shape our attachment patterns. The conversation also highlights the potential for healing through relationships, encouraging a deeper understanding of ourselves and our connections with others.
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May 27, 2025 • 59min

531 - What's Wrong with Enjoying Consensual Sex with Multiple People? Listener Q&A

In this engaging Q&A, hosts tackle listener questions about love, polyamory, and the challenges of discussing non-monogamy with friends and family. They explore the intricacies of expressing love in relationships, emphasizing personal meaning over traditional definitions. The conversation delves into the complexities of identity in polyamorous dynamics, the significance of communication, and the value of platonic connections. Listeners are encouraged to embrace open dialogue and self-discovery in their unique relationship journeys.
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May 20, 2025 • 59min

530 - Why You Keep Having the Same Fight – 3 Toxic Patterns that Keep Us Stuck

Dive into the intricate world of relationship conflicts, where recurring patterns mimic a choreographed dance. Discover how blame games and emotional withdrawal can derail connections, alongside strategies to disrupt these cycles. Through humor and insightful discussions, the dynamics of financial arguments and deeper emotional needs are explored. Learn to recognize attachment styles and how they fuel tensions, with playful metaphors guiding the way to healthier communication and understanding. Transform your relational choreography!
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May 13, 2025 • 1h 6min

529 - Yes, You Can Think Your Way Out of Your Feelings (Sometimes)

The hosts dive into cognitive reappraisal, exploring how we can think our way out of negative emotions in relationships. They discuss the fine line between healthy self-reflection and self-gaslighting, especially when triggers arise. Listeners learn about emotional regulation, the impact of upbringing, and the importance of pausing during tough conversations. With humor and personal anecdotes, they offer practical strategies for navigating feelings, fostering mindfulness, and enhancing emotional dynamics in romantic connections.

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