

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
Multiamory | Pleasure Podcasts
Multiamory offers support and advice for modern relationships. Whether you are monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you and we’re here for you. Multiamory is a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts. For network details, contact cameron@pleasurepodcasts.com.
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Aug 5, 2025 • 55min
541 - Make Agreements with Yourself, Not With Your Partner
Explore the power of making personal agreements rather than relying solely on partner commitments. Discover how self-reflection and intentionality can foster personal growth and healthier relationships. Learn about the benefits of documenting agreements in non-monogamous setups and the importance of flexibility. Delve into establishing personal values and boundaries that enhance well-being, while crafting self-agreements to navigate conflicts. This insightful discussion emphasizes aligning actions with your ideal self for more meaningful connections.

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Jul 29, 2025 • 60min
540 - Banish the Ghost of Relationships Past
This discussion dives into the lingering impact of past relationships and how they shape our current connections. It highlights the concept of relationship PTSD and offers strategies for overcoming trust issues. The hosts share insights on recognizing healthy versus unhealthy dynamics, emphasizing the importance of communication. They explore the healing power of shared experiences and the necessity of letting go of emotional baggage, advocating for self-acceptance as a means to foster healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

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Jul 22, 2025 • 43min
539 - Introducing My Polyamorous Partner to My Monogamous Parents: Listener Q&A
Explore the challenges of introducing a polyamorous partner to monogamous parents. The discussion offers practical tips for navigating family dynamics, emphasizing open communication and boundary-setting. Personal anecdotes reveal the emotional complexities involved and the importance of self-acceptance. Listeners gain insights on managing societal stigma and handling parental expectations creatively. Dive into strategies for maintaining a positive atmosphere and establishing connections that foster understanding.

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Jul 15, 2025 • 1h 5min
538 - When Knowing Better Doesn't Mean Doing Better
Dive into the complexities of modern relationships, where awareness of psychological concepts often fails to translate into action. Explore the challenges of applying relationship knowledge during emotional conflicts and discover the irony of knowing yet not doing. Learn about the innovative intersection of probiotics and vaginal health, while also addressing personal values versus behaviors. Plus, find practical tools to support trust, self-reflection, and emotional healing in relationships through body movement and cognitive behavioral techniques.

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Jul 8, 2025 • 57min
537 - Breaking the Cycle: Releasing the Grip of Control
Dive into the complex world of control in relationships. Discover the psychological roots of why some people seek control, influenced by past experiences and insecurities. The discussion highlights the fine line between healthy influence and damaging behavior. You'll learn practical exercises to improve communication and navigate the desire for control, fostering deeper connections. The hosts also share personal stories that shed light on overcoming these challenges and embracing a more loving approach.

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Jul 1, 2025 • 59min
536 - Finding Your Voice: Navigating Control and Taking Back Your Power in Relationships
Dive into the intricate world of control in relationships! Discover how power dynamics can subtly influence your autonomy and well-being. The hosts explore the psychological effects of feeling powerless and discuss strategies for reclaiming personal power and emotional balance. Gender dynamics are also examined, revealing their impact on attraction and relationship satisfaction. Get ready to learn how to recognize manipulative behaviors and empower yourself to foster healthier connections!

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Jun 24, 2025 • 38min
535 - How Do You Maintain Equity Across Multiple Relationships? Listener Q&A
Explore the emotional intricacies of maintaining equity in polyamorous relationships. The hosts discuss the importance of open communication to address financial disparities and feelings of inadequacy. Creative solutions for strengthening long-distance bonds are shared, including unique activities to foster connection. Personal stories highlight the challenges of jealousy and competition among partners, emphasizing empathy and understanding. Tune in for insightful tips on navigating complex dynamics while prioritizing all partners' needs.

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Jun 17, 2025 • 1h 6min
534 - When We're Asked to Change (and When It's Okay to Refuse)
This discussion dives into the emotional challenges that arise when partners request changes, big or small. It highlights the balance of individual comfort and relationship dynamics while navigating these requests. The speakers share personal stories and practical strategies for fostering open dialogue and emotional honesty. They also examine the ethics of asking for change, particularly in non-monogamous relationships, encouraging self-awareness and boundary-setting. The conversation emphasizes that change can lead to mutual growth when approached constructively.

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Jun 10, 2025 • 1h 10min
533 - How to be Dateable with Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu
Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu, active daters turned influential voices in modern romance, offer insights from their book, How To Be Dateable. They dissect traditional dating advice, emphasizing the importance of meaningful connections over quantity. Listeners learn about innovative first dates that blend everyday life with potential partners, the pitfalls of dating app culture, and the complexities of navigating modern relationships. They also explore personal dating archetypes and the necessity of adaptability in the ever-evolving dating landscape.

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Jun 3, 2025 • 1h 1min
532 - Is Attachment Theory Just Bullsh*t?
Dive into a thought-provoking discussion about attachment theory and its criticisms. The hosts explore how this theory influences modern relationships, especially non-monogamous ones. They share personal experiences with different attachment styles and stress the importance of context in navigating relationship anxiety. Discover how parenting and interpersonal connections shape our attachment patterns. The conversation also highlights the potential for healing through relationships, encouraging a deeper understanding of ourselves and our connections with others.