Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 555 - Reclaiming Spirituality as a Queer, Polyamorous Person with Brian G. Murphy
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Nov 11, 2025 
Brian G. Murphy, an organizer and relationship coach, explores the intersection of queerness and spirituality. He discusses the healing power of spirituality for those harmed by religion and how meaningful rituals can shape community connections. Brian shares his personal journey, including his conversion to Judaism and the importance of inclusive language for a broader sense of the divine. The conversation highlights the value of questioning faith while embracing diverse spiritual practices, showing that love and spirituality can coexist beautifully.
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Spirituality As Healing And Rewriting Shoulds
- Spirituality can be reclaimed as a space for healing rather than only harm from religion.
- Brian urges unpacking inherited "shoulds" to rewrite values and practices that actually serve you.
Name Ordinary Moments As Sacred
- Notice and name everyday experiences as sacred to reclaim meaning in queer and sexual life.
- Claim that your relationships and body deserve to be called holy even outside organized religion.
Calling Nightlife Religious Reduced Shame
- Brian noticed nonreligious people light up when he called clubs and hookups 'religious experiences.'
- That language soothed shame about sex and offered new meaning to casual encounters.
