Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 560 - I'm Solo Poly, But I Want More: Listener Q&A
Dec 16, 2025
The hosts dive into listener questions about solo polyamory and the desire for deeper connections. They explore the possibility of escalating existing relationships while managing commitments. Effective communication becomes a key theme, with tips on discussing needs and fears openly. Realities of dating while already in partnerships are examined, alongside strategies for presenting current dynamics to new partners. The conversation emphasizes a relaxed approach to dating and the importance of emotional preparation for tough discussions.
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Date To Collect Data, Not To Fill A Void
- Take the pressure off and date from curiosity rather than urgency.
- Go on in-person dates to gather data about what you actually want and who fits.
Client Who Downgraded To Let Partner Seek Children
- Jace shared a client who de-escalated to let a partner pursue children with someone else.
- The downgrade caused significant pain even though it aimed to preserve connection.
Have A Clear Conversation With Current Partners
- Talk with existing partners about your changing needs and expected impacts.
- Name the precious parts of the relationship you want to preserve while you explore new partnerships.