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Mentioned in 11 episodes
The Other Significant Others
Reimagining Life with Friendship at the Center
Book • 2024
In 'The Other Significant Others,' Rhaina Cohen delves into the lives of individuals who have prioritized deep friendships as their primary life partnerships.
Through personal narratives, historical insights, and social science research, Cohen examines how these relationships defy conventional societal norms.
The book features stories of friends who are co-homeowners, co-parents, and caregivers, illustrating the various forms of profound connection that can anchor our lives.
Cohen argues that by expecting too much from romantic relationships and too little from friendships, we undermine both.
Her work encourages readers to broaden their understanding of meaningful relationships and to recognize the transformative power of authentic, platonic connections.
Through personal narratives, historical insights, and social science research, Cohen examines how these relationships defy conventional societal norms.
The book features stories of friends who are co-homeowners, co-parents, and caregivers, illustrating the various forms of profound connection that can anchor our lives.
Cohen argues that by expecting too much from romantic relationships and too little from friendships, we undermine both.
Her work encourages readers to broaden their understanding of meaningful relationships and to recognize the transformative power of authentic, platonic connections.
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Mentioned in 11 episodes
Mentioned by 

as a book on his list.


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Mentioned by Raina Cohen as a book that reimagines life with friendship at the center.

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Mentioned by Elise Hugh as the book written by Raina Cohen, about reimagining life with friendship at the center.

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Written by 

, exploring intense platonic relationships.


Raina Cohen

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Who counts as a significant other?
Mentioned by 

as the author of the book, and discussed throughout the podcast.


Chris Duffy

34 snips
How to be a better friend (w/ Rhaina Cohen)
Mentioned by 

as a book that has become his new Bible, focusing on the importance of friends as significant others.


Trevor Noah

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A Friendship Revolution with Rhaina Cohen
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as the author of the book, which reimagines life with friendship at the center.

Sigal Samuel

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Can a friend be our most significant other?
Recommended by 

as a book exploring alternative family structures and prioritizing friendship.


Ezra Klein

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Micro Bonus Holiday Gift: Ezra Klein
Mentioned by 

as a book that tells stories of people who prioritized platonic friendships.


Simon Sinek

Happily Friended with author Rhaina Cohen
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as the author of the book, discussing the history and psychology of friendship.

Rachel Feltman

Valentine’s Day Isn’t Just for Romance—The Science of Deep Friendships
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in the introduction of the podcast episode, highlighting the untold story of 

and her influence on Benedict Arnold.


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Peggy Shippen

Significant Others: A Sneak Peek at the Woman Behind Benedict Arnold’s Betrayal
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as the book written by Raina Cohen on reimagining life with friendship.

Mina Kim

Forum from the Archives: What It’s Like to Parent With Your Friends
Mentioned by Raina Cohen, who wrote it, about reimagining life with friendship at the center.

What It’s Like to Parent With Your Friends
Mentioned by 

as the author of the book, discussing deep, committed friendships.


Aisha Rascoe

The Sunday Story: More Than Friends
Vermeld door 

in de context van het belang van vriendschap in de samenleving.


Lynn Berger

Lynn Berger - Hoe vriendschap de belangrijkste relatie werd van deze tijd
Mentioned by 

about adults who have chosen to make a life with someone who isn't their spouse.


Mandy Len Catron

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