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Mentioned in 10 episodes
The Other Significant Others
Reimagining Life with Friendship at the Center
Book • 2024
In 'The Other Significant Others,' Rhaina Cohen delves into the lives of individuals who have prioritized deep friendships as their primary life partnerships.
Through personal narratives, historical insights, and social science research, Cohen examines how these relationships defy conventional societal norms.
The book features stories of friends who are co-homeowners, co-parents, and caregivers, illustrating the various forms of profound connection that can anchor our lives.
Cohen argues that by expecting too much from romantic relationships and too little from friendships, we undermine both.
Her work encourages readers to broaden their understanding of meaningful relationships and to recognize the transformative power of authentic, platonic connections.
Through personal narratives, historical insights, and social science research, Cohen examines how these relationships defy conventional societal norms.
The book features stories of friends who are co-homeowners, co-parents, and caregivers, illustrating the various forms of profound connection that can anchor our lives.
Cohen argues that by expecting too much from romantic relationships and too little from friendships, we undermine both.
Her work encourages readers to broaden their understanding of meaningful relationships and to recognize the transformative power of authentic, platonic connections.
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