

Who counts as a significant other?
38 snips Feb 7, 2025
Raina Cohen, a journalist and author, explores the significance of platonic relationships; Stephanie Yates-Anyabwile, a marriage and family therapist, shares insights on modern relationship challenges; and Bella DePaulo, a social psychologist and expert on single life, challenges societal norms around companionship. They discuss redefining significant others beyond romantic ties, the value of deep friendships during crises, and embracing solitude as a pathway to personal growth. The role of pets as emotional support is also highlighted.
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Platonic Love Story
- Raina Cohen felt an instant connection with "M" in a D.C. bar, similar to falling in love.
- Their bond deepened quickly, marked by frequent visits, shared activities, and a desire to know each other's thoughts.
Beyond Friendship Norms
- Cohen's intense friendship prompted her to explore platonic relationships that challenge conventional norms.
- She discovered that such friendships are often misunderstood and judged, even in the workplace.
Historical Significance of Friendship
- Historical friendships, like sworn brotherhood, demonstrate that intense, non-romantic bonds were once publicly recognized.
- Modern society views friendship as disposable, unlike historical examples where ceremonies celebrated them.