Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 174 - Numerous Non-Binary Identities (with therapist Dara Hoffman-Fox)
Jun 5, 2018
Dara Hoffman-Fox, a queer-identified gender therapist and author, discusses the rich spectrum of non-binary identities. They dive into the challenges of navigating gender language and the importance of respectful pronoun use. Insightful personal stories illuminate the emotional labor in non-traditional relationships. Dara emphasizes the need for inclusivity and understanding in conversations about identity, advocating for better support networks for non-cisgender individuals. This engaging dialogue sheds light on the complexities of self-identity and societal perceptions.
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Non-Binary As An Umbrella
- Non-binary is an umbrella for people who do not feel solely male or female.
- Many distinct identities exist beneath that umbrella, so non-binary simplifies a complex spectrum.
Trans Terminology Is Evolving
- 'Transgender' usage has evolved and people vary in how they use 'trans' versus 'transgender'.
- Some reserve 'transgender' for those undergoing legal or medical transition while others prefer the shorter 'trans'.
Dara's Gender Discovery Journey
- Dara described her decade-long personal discovery from realizing she was gay to recognizing non-binary aspects of her gender.
- A non-binary workshop and writing a workbook helped her understand and name her experience.
