Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Dr. Eli Sheff, a prominent researcher and author, returns to discuss her extensive work on polyamorous families, revealing how societal perceptions, family dynamics, and legal challenges are evolving. She shares practical strategies for raising children in non-traditional households and highlights the emotional resilience of kids in polyamorous environments. The conversation touches on the changing landscape of polyamory, addressing discrimination in housing and employment while advocating for greater understanding and support for diverse relationship models.

Join somatic sex educators Melissa Mango and Cosmo Meens as they delve into the nuances of pleasure and consent. They discuss the empowering idea of pleasurable, consent-based touching and share insights from their work at RelateCon. The conversation explores the complexities of intimacy, navigating boundaries, and the intriguing concept of consensual objectification. Listeners will learn about the importance of communication in enhancing sexual enjoyment and the profound impact of consent education on fostering healthier relationships.

This week we’re talking about how to be open, honest, and unafraid when talking to other people about your relationships, whether they are someone you are dating, a new acquaintance, or an old friend. -- a little something that we call being unapolygetic. Check out Dara Hoffman-Fox's worksheet for coming out here: http://darahoffmanfox.com/comingoutworksheet/ Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover unique communication hacks that can elevate your relationships! Learn about the importance of emotional bids for attention and how responding positively can strengthen bonds. Dive into switch-tracking nuances and explore creative solutions for navigating communication breakdowns. The hosts also reveal how mindfulness and techniques like microscripts can transform difficult conversations into opportunities for understanding. Join them on a humorous journey filled with practical tips and relatable anecdotes!

Jonathan Lane, an attorney specializing in family and immigration law for polyamorous, kinky, and LGBTQ communities, discusses vital legal insights for nontraditional relationships. He highlights the differences between polyamory and polygamy, offering practical advice on custody, immigration, and divorce. Lane also addresses the challenges in securing employment protections for polyamorous individuals, as well as the complexities of parental rights under the law. His expertise sheds light on navigating legal hurdles in consensually non-monogamous relationships.

Dive into a whimsical exploration of biblical narratives and their connection to polyamory. The hosts humorously dissect the complicated love stories of Jacob, Rachel, and Leah, revealing timeless themes of favoritism and rivalry. They also unpack the legacies of figures like King David and Solomon, highlighting the often-overlooked dynamics of power and consent. With playful insights into ancient practices, the discussion blends history, ethics, and modern relationship challenges, making these age-old stories surprisingly relevant today.

Dive into the world of polyamory with practical tips for newcomers! Learn essential etiquette for meetups, from fostering respect to effective communication. Discover strategies for discreet interactions and the significance of consent in social settings. The hosts explore navigating hurt feelings and promote open dialogue for genuine connections. Emphasis is placed on making friends rather than seeking romantic ties, ensuring a welcoming atmosphere for all. Join a vibrant community while enhancing your polyamorous journey!

In this discussion, journalist and author Amy Gahran, known for her insights on solo polyamory, shares her thoughts on stepping off the conventional relationship escalator. She challenges societal norms about intimacy, discussing how individuals can create their own definitions of love. The conversation highlights the intricacies of solo polyamory, including autonomy, societal stigma, and communication strategies. Amy also dives into generational shifts in relationship perceptions, celebrating diverse connections that go beyond traditional romantic frameworks.

Explore what makes relationships truly inspiring, from mutual respect to individual autonomy. The hosts discuss the delicate balance of maintaining self-identity while navigating romantic connections. Delve into the critical role of respectful communication and the dangers of unhealthy behaviors that can undermine relationships. Personal anecdotes and research highlight the importance of gratitude, boundaries, and collaboration. Listeners gain insights into fostering both personal growth and fulfilling partnerships.

The hosts dive into the essence of inspiring relationships, sharing insights from experts like Esther Perel. They humorously explore the rarity of truly inspiring couples and challenge traditional views on relationship success. The discussion touches on complexities such as intimacy versus autonomy, and the interplay between romance and friendship. They emphasize the importance of balance between love and fear, advocating for personal growth and maintaining individuality to enrich connections. Prepare for a witty yet profound journey into modern relational dynamics!