Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

The hosts dive into the backlash faced by non-monogamous relationships, exploring why such discomfort persists. They discuss the difference between subtle and overt reactions from friends and family, and analyze the neurological roots of these strong responses. Misconceptions about non-monogamy are debunked, alongside critiques of biased media portrayals. Listeners receive practical tips for managing tough conversations, choosing when to disclose personal relationship choices, and building supportive communities to thrive amidst backlash.

The podcast dives deep into the complexities of hierarchy in polyamorous relationships. Hosts share personal experiences, exploring how hierarchies can both benefit and harm emotional connections. They discuss the importance of self-examination and communication, questioning societal pressures that shape relationship dynamics. A guest joins to offer insights on how hierarchy impacts various aspects of life, from friendships to careers. The conversation ultimately encourages listeners to embrace the fluid nature of relationships and engage in meaningful dialogue about their own beliefs.

No one wants a relationship full of drama...or do they? Turns out there are specific roles that many of us actually enjoy to play in any given "drama" situation. This week we talk about how to break the cycle and transform drama into empowerment.Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tension after a fight? Discover ways to reconnect with partners following emotional separations. Explore the complexities of handling jealousy in non-monogamous relationships and the importance of open communication. The hosts provide practical strategies for navigating tense reunions and emphasize the value of emotional authenticity. Mindfulness and body awareness techniques are introduced to help process feelings. Learn how to find healthy outlets for emotions before reconnecting, and foster collaboration through meaningful conversations and rituals.

In this engaging discussion, Dr. Alex Bove, a researcher focused on metamour relationships in polyamory, shares insights from his study on men's dynamics with their male metamours. He uncovers three key phases of metamour relationships and explores how traditional masculinity can hinder emotional expression among men. Listeners will learn about the importance of open communication, the evolving nature of male intimacy, and strategies for fostering healthier connections in polyamorous contexts.

This week we're coming at ya live from our first ever patreon retreat in Lake Tahoe, CA! We answer questions from our Patreon supporters, discussing how to avoid scarcity mindset, preventing burnout, fostering inclusivity, Emily's goddess voice, and more!Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What does it mean to have an equal relationship? The hosts explore signs of imbalance and discuss how strict 50/50 equality differs from the concept of equity. They provide practical tips for identifying needs and navigating sacrifices while highlighting the importance of mutual respect. The conversation also touches on applying equity in non-hierarchical polyamory, emphasizing boundary setting and regular check-ins. Tune in for insights that could transform how you approach your love life.

Dive into the world of gamification and discover how game mechanics can enhance personal development and relationships. Learn to level up your life by applying playful elements to communication and connection. Explore the benefits of gamification in daily tasks, from fitness to productivity, and redefine relationship goals beyond traditional milestones. Uncover innovative strategies to make difficult conversations engaging and motivating, and leverage technology to track progress and achieve personal growth goals in an exciting way.

In this discussion, Dr. Kim Tallbear, an Associate Professor at the University of Alberta and author of 'Native American DNA,' dives deep into the concept of settler sexuality. She unpacks how historical contexts shape modern relationships and critiques existing sexual norms. The conversation explores redefining intimacy and kinship beyond colonial constructs, addressing the challenges of navigating non-traditional dynamics. With an emphasis on accountability in Indigenous communities, Tallbear advocates for authentic discussions about love and societal change.

Guest Phoebe Phillips from Polyammering blog discusses the challenges of mono/poly relationships, emphasizing fairness, understanding, and self-work. Topics include transitioning from monogamy to polyamory, debunking societal misconceptions, handling jealousy, and navigating honesty in relationships. Insights on maintaining individual identities and overcoming stereotypes in mono/poly dynamics.