Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 189 - Handling Backlash
Sep 18, 2018
The hosts dive into the backlash faced by non-monogamous relationships, exploring why such discomfort persists. They discuss the difference between subtle and overt reactions from friends and family, and analyze the neurological roots of these strong responses. Misconceptions about non-monogamy are debunked, alongside critiques of biased media portrayals. Listeners receive practical tips for managing tough conversations, choosing when to disclose personal relationship choices, and building supportive communities to thrive amidst backlash.
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Friendship Strain From Backlash Example
- Emily described a friend, Mackenzie, whose reactions to Emily's relationships caused stress and strain in their friendship. That example shows how personal backlash can emerge from discomfort around sexuality and infidelity triggers.
Subtle Versus Overt Backlash
- Dedeker and Jace shared that backlash can be subtle, like friends assuming you'll try to change their relationships. Jace noted early coming-out reactions were stronger and more explicit than later, subtler distancing.
Backlash Roots In Brain-Based Fear
- Backlash often stems from primitive fear responses like amygdala-based reactions and serotonin-linked aggression. Past trauma or low serotonin can amplify aggressive or prejudiced reactions to non-monogamy.
