Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 188 - What Hierarchy Means to Me
Sep 11, 2018
The podcast dives deep into the complexities of hierarchy in polyamorous relationships. Hosts share personal experiences, exploring how hierarchies can both benefit and harm emotional connections. They discuss the importance of self-examination and communication, questioning societal pressures that shape relationship dynamics. A guest joins to offer insights on how hierarchy impacts various aspects of life, from friendships to careers. The conversation ultimately encourages listeners to embrace the fluid nature of relationships and engage in meaningful dialogue about their own beliefs.
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Hierarchy Definition
- Hierarchy in relationships means a pecking order, conscious or unconscious.
- This order often prioritizes romantic partners, then family, then friends.
The Favorite Question
- People new to polyamory often ask Emily, "Who's your favorite?"
- One person even asked which partner she'd save in a life-or-death scenario.
Cosmic Hierarchy
- Emily views her relationships as a "cosmic hierarchy" with spheres of influence.
- Closest are partners, then newer partners/close friends, then outer circles.