Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 185 - Can Men Get Along with their Metamours?
Aug 21, 2018
In this engaging discussion, Dr. Alex Bove, a researcher focused on metamour relationships in polyamory, shares insights from his study on men's dynamics with their male metamours. He uncovers three key phases of metamour relationships and explores how traditional masculinity can hinder emotional expression among men. Listeners will learn about the importance of open communication, the evolving nature of male intimacy, and strategies for fostering healthier connections in polyamorous contexts.
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Research Motivation
- Dr. Alex Bove's research on male metamour relationships fills a gap in polyamory literature.
- This research was inspired by personal experience and existing gaps in masculinity studies.
Unscripted Relationships
- Dedeker Winston points out the lack of established social scripts for metamour relationships.
- This makes navigating these relationships challenging and requires figuring things out as they unfold.
Shared Purpose
- Prioritize shared purpose and being on the same team in metamour relationships.
- Focus on supporting your shared partner collaboratively.