Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 175 - Adventures in Online Arguments
Jun 12, 2018
Dive into the wild world of online arguments! Discover how digital interactions can both divide and connect us. Learn the importance of empathy and self-reflection when engaging in debates. Explore the concept of a 'quiet ego' and the need for a shared humanity in discussions. Embrace a growth mindset to foster community over individual viewpoints. Also, get practical tips on navigating conflict while maintaining respect and civility. Plus, a fun nod to refreshing your wardrobe with stylish essentials!
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Online Distance Dehumanizes Interaction
- Online interactions dehumanize others because we don't see real-time emotional reactions.
- That distance amplifies anger and makes arguments escalate faster than in-person conflicts.
Middle School Study On Flaming
- Jace described a middle-school study comparing face-to-face and typed group debates.
- The study measured whether kids 'flamed' more when typing versus speaking aloud.
Quiet Ego Reduces Defensive Reactivity
- 'Quiet ego' blends Buddhist thought with positive psychology to reduce defensive reactivity.
- It encourages balancing self-interest with awareness of others to improve discourse and health.