True You Podcast

Bill and Marty dive into the transformative journey of reinventing oneself. They highlight the power of coaching and the Internal Family Systems model in facilitating change. Real-life examples illustrate how structured plans and consistent support are vital for maintaining a new vision. The discussion contrasts focused coaching with broader approaches, emphasizing the need to address internal conflicts. Listeners are encouraged to practice new behaviors and to create a clear, authentic vision to guide their transformations.

In this episode, Bill and Marty talk about Marty’s new book on relationship-based leadership and how it empowers others. Bill shares insights on using the Internal Family Systems model to sustain meaningful change in life. They discuss the importance of internal safety to be your authentic self. Learn how to create that needed space to respond thoughtfully and lead with compassion and charisma. Chapters:00:00 Introduction and Host Introductions01:27 Exploring Leadership Styles02:50 Charisma and Internal Family Systems07:50 The Importance of Safety in Authenticity12:29 Navigating Personal and Professional Relationships18:55 Handling Anxiety and Emotional Regulation21:31 Speeding and Self-Reflection23:28 Condo Meetings and Emotional Reactions26:06 Understanding Nervous System Responses30:07 The Power of Pausing and Unblending32:05 Creating Internal Safety37:04 Practical Exercises for Self-Regulation38:07 Final Thoughts and Wrap-UpLinks and Resources:• True You Podcast Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast • If you would like to be a guest on the True You podcast, please complete this guest application: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbHITeLbAD98TRhFPZzK2kStuHos5HFjOGBWAaTJjgVcEAGA/viewform  • Internal Family Systems - https://ifs-institute.com/ • Compassionate Results Coaching - https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/ • Bill’s book, ‘Compassionate Results Guidebook’ - https://compassionateresultsguidebook.com • ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - https://www.listeningisthekey.com/ • Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO • Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd • Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - https://www.partsworkpractice.com • Contact Marty - mkettelhut@msn.com• Contact Bill - bill@compassionateresultscoaching.com🔗 Compassionate Results Coaching links: https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/links➡️ To learn more about the Internal Family Systems Model, visit https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/about-ifs ➡️Join the Parts Work Practice Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/partsworkpractice🔗 Parts Work Practice page: https://www.partsworkpractice.com/📖 Get the Compassionate Results Guidebook here: http://compassionateresultsguidebook.com/➡️Attend IFS Coaching Groups: https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/coaching-groups📞Take the Coaching Readiness Assessment, go to https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/contact🎙️Listen to True You Podcast at https://trueyoupodcast.com available on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube! #recovery #ifs #internalfamilysystems #ifscoach #ifscoaching #ifsmodel #partswork #partsworkcoach #podcast #ifspodcast #selfhelf #selfimprovement #leadership #richardschwartz #groupcoaching #ifsgroups #compassionateresults

In this episode, Bill and Marty get into the practice of meditation. Marty, despite not considering himself an expert, shares his 27 years of daily meditation experience. The discussion covers common misconceptions about meditation. Marty emphasizes the core of meditation as focusing the mind and being aware of one's thoughts and sensations without judgment. The episode includes a short guided meditation and addresses the challenges people face when beginning to meditate. Bill shares candidly how he has always struggled with meditation, but Marty pointed out that the practice of taking his attention inside to connect with his parts is, in fact, a form of meditation.Chapters:00:00 Introduction to the True You Podcast01:28 Marty's Meditation Journey03:43 Debunking Meditation Myths12:27 Guided Meditation Exercise20:29 Challenges and Personal Experiences with Meditation22:56 Struggles with Meditation23:39 Typical Meditation Challenges24:28 The Importance of Choice in Meditation27:12 Redefining Meditation32:05 Guided Meditation Practices39:30 Group Meditation Benefits42:17 Concluding Thoughts on MeditationLinks and resources:• True You Podcast Facebook Page - ⁠https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast⁠ • If you would like to be a guest on the True You podcast, please complete this guest application: ⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbHITeLbAD98TRhFPZzK2kStuHos5HFjOGBWAaTJjgVcEAGA/viewform⁠  • Internal Family Systems - ⁠https://ifs-institute.com/⁠ • Compassionate Results Coaching - ⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/⁠ • Bill’s book, ‘Compassionate Results Guidebook’ - ⁠https://compassionateresultsguidebook.com⁠ • ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - ⁠https://www.listeningisthekey.com/⁠ • Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - ⁠https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO⁠ • Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - ⁠https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd⁠ • Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - ⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com⁠ • Contact Marty - ⁠mkettelhut@msn.com⁠• Contact Bill - ⁠bill@compassionateresultscoaching.com⁠🔗 Compassionate Results Coaching links: ⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/links⁠➡️ To learn more about the Internal Family Systems Model, visit ⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/about-ifs⁠ ➡️Join the Parts Work Practice Facebook group: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/partsworkpractice⁠🔗 Parts Work Practice page: ⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com/⁠📖 Get the Compassionate Results Guidebook here: ⁠http://compassionateresultsguidebook.com/⁠➡️Attend IFS Coaching Groups: ⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/coaching-groups⁠📞Take the Coaching Readiness Assessment, go to ⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/contact⁠🎙️Listen to True You Podcast at ⁠https://trueyoupodcast.com⁠ available on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube! #recovery #ifs #internalfamilysystems #ifscoach #ifscoaching #ifsmodel #partswork #partsworkcoach #podcast #ifspodcast #selfhelf #selfimprovement #leadership #richardschwartz #groupcoaching #ifsgroups #compassionateresults

In this episode, Bill and Marty discuss about the intricate balance between being selfish and selfless. They discuss the concept of 'wise selfishness,' a theory introduced by the Dalai Lama, and how it exposes the false binary between self-interest and altruism. The conversation touches on personal anecdotes, philosophical insights, and real-world examples, ultimately leading to a profound exploration of connection, unity, and what it truly means to be 'self.' Chapters:00:00 Welcome to the True You Podcast00:16 Introducing Bill Tierney and His Coaching Philosophy01:30 The Tension Between Selfishness and Selflessness05:43 Exploring Wise Selfishness with the Dalai Lama09:01 A Personal Story of Generosity11:37 The Unity of Self and the Universe25:52 The Impact of the Pandemic on Our Connections33:09 Struggling with the Concept of Oneness34:28 Interdependence vs. Oneness36:28 Experiences of Oneness37:40 Energetic Connections44:23 Unity in a Divided World54:10 Personal Reflections and Coaching58:25 Concluding Thoughts on OnenessLinks and Resources:• True You Podcast Facebook Page - ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast⁠⁠ • If you would like to be a guest on the True You podcast, please complete this guest application: ⁠⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbHITeLbAD98TRhFPZzK2kStuHos5HFjOGBWAaTJjgVcEAGA/viewform⁠⁠  • Internal Family Systems - ⁠⁠https://ifs-institute.com/⁠⁠ • Compassionate Results Coaching - ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/⁠⁠ • Bill’s book, ‘Compassionate Results Guidebook’ - ⁠⁠https://compassionateresultsguidebook.com⁠⁠ • ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - ⁠⁠https://www.listeningisthekey.com/⁠⁠ • Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - ⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO⁠⁠ • Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - ⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd⁠⁠ • Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - ⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com⁠⁠ • Contact Marty - ⁠⁠mkettelhut@msn.com⁠⁠• Contact Bill - ⁠⁠bill@compassionateresultscoaching.com⁠⁠🔗 Compassionate Results Coaching links: ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/links⁠⁠➡️ To learn more about the Internal Family Systems Model, visit ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/about-ifs⁠⁠ ➡️Join the Parts Work Practice Facebook group: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/partsworkpractice⁠⁠🔗 Parts Work Practice page: ⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com/⁠⁠📖 Get the Compassionate Results Guidebook here: ⁠⁠http://compassionateresultsguidebook.com/⁠⁠➡️Attend IFS Coaching Groups: ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/coaching-groups⁠⁠📞Take the Coaching Readiness Assessment, go to ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/contact⁠⁠🎙️Listen to True You Podcast at ⁠⁠https://trueyoupodcast.com⁠⁠ available on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube! #recovery #ifs #internalfamilysystems #ifscoach #ifscoaching #ifsmodel #partswork #partsworkcoach #podcast #ifspodcast #selfhelf #selfimprovement #leadership #richardschwartz #groupcoaching #ifsgroups #compassionateresults

In this episode, Marty and Bill talk about the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model and how it supports personal coaching. They share six prompts that help deepen connection in relationships, especially around unresolved feelings, honest communication, and rebuilding trust. The conversation focuses on staying grounded in reality to ease emotional pain and create more peace. They also share ways to grow, strengthen emotional capacity, and bring more closeness and understanding to relationships.Chapters:00:00 Introduction and Welcome00:20 Understanding IFS (Internal Family Systems)01:36 Coaching vs. Therapy03:27 Nonviolent Communication and Its Integration with IFS06:55 Addressing Criticisms and Misconceptions14:59 Creating Connection: Six Prompts for Relationship Building17:15 Personal Story: Road Trip Tensions31:13 Navigating Scary Conversations32:19 Building Trust and Honesty33:46 Addressing Unresolved Issues34:15 Making Requests and Setting Boundaries35:36 Expressing Gratitude and Love38:18 Planning and Coordination44:24 Commitments and Accountability49:22 Overcoming Resistance and Embracing ConnectionLinks and show notes:• True You Podcast Facebook Page - ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast⁠⁠ • If you would like to be a guest on the True You podcast, please complete this guest application: ⁠⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbHITeLbAD98TRhFPZzK2kStuHos5HFjOGBWAaTJjgVcEAGA/viewform⁠⁠  • Internal Family Systems - ⁠⁠https://ifs-institute.com/⁠⁠ • Compassionate Results Coaching - ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/⁠⁠ • Bill’s book, ‘Compassionate Results Guidebook’ - ⁠⁠https://compassionateresultsguidebook.com⁠⁠ • ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - ⁠⁠https://www.listeningisthekey.com/⁠⁠ • Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - ⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO⁠⁠ • Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - ⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd⁠⁠ • Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - ⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com⁠⁠ • Contact Marty - ⁠⁠mkettelhut@msn.com⁠⁠• Contact Bill - ⁠⁠bill@compassionateresultscoaching.com⁠⁠🔗 Compassionate Results Coaching links: ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/links⁠⁠➡️ To learn more about the Internal Family Systems Model, visit ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/about-ifs⁠⁠ ➡️Join the Parts Work Practice Facebook group: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/partsworkpractice⁠⁠🔗 Parts Work Practice page: ⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com/⁠⁠📖 Get the Compassionate Results Guidebook here: ⁠⁠http://compassionateresultsguidebook.com/⁠⁠➡️Attend IFS Coaching Groups: ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/coaching-groups⁠⁠📞Take the Coaching Readiness Assessment, go to ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/contact⁠⁠🎙️Listen to True You Podcast at ⁠⁠https://trueyoupodcast.com⁠⁠ available on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube! #recovery #ifs #internalfamilysystems #ifscoach #ifscoaching #ifsmodel #partswork #partsworkcoach #podcast #ifspodcast #selfhelf #selfimprovement #leadership #richardschwartz #groupcoaching #ifsgroups #compassionateresults

In this episode, Marty and Bill discuss Marty's ongoing book about the concept of beauty and seamlessly transition into an in-depth conversation about capacity and the concept of 'Self' within the internal family systems model. The discussion extends to personal anecdotes, including stories of overcoming trauma, the influence of childhood experiences, and practical steps to increase personal capacity. They explore the impacts of connection, meditation, integrity, and physical exercise on one’s capacity to handle life's daily challenges. Chapters:00:00 Introduction 00:22 Exploring the Concept of Beauty02:41 Today's Topic: Capacity and Self03:57 Understanding Capacity and Its Limits08:29 The Impact of Trauma on Capacity13:51 Managing and Increasing Capacity17:48 Real-Life Examples and Practical Tips20:34 The Theory of Capacity in Daily Life25:32 Struggles and Escaping Marriage26:14 The Comfort Inn and Feeling Freedom27:19 Depression and Seeking Help28:55 The Power of Running30:41 Increasing Capacity Through Connection33:36 Restoring Integrity39:01 Healing the Past with IFS48:53 Enlightenment and Capacity49:31 Wrapping Up and Future TopicsLinks and Show notes:• "Angel" Keanu Reeves movie “Good Fortune” - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt27543578/• True You Podcast Facebook Page - ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast⁠⁠ • If you would like to be a guest on the True You podcast, please complete this guest application: ⁠⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbHITeLbAD98TRhFPZzK2kStuHos5HFjOGBWAaTJjgVcEAGA/viewform⁠⁠  • Internal Family Systems - ⁠⁠https://ifs-institute.com/⁠⁠ • Compassionate Results Coaching - ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/⁠⁠ • Bill’s book, ‘Compassionate Results Guidebook’ - ⁠⁠https://compassionateresultsguidebook.com⁠⁠ • ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - ⁠⁠https://www.listeningisthekey.com/⁠⁠ • Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - ⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO⁠⁠ • Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - ⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd⁠⁠ • Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - ⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com⁠⁠ • Contact Marty - ⁠⁠mkettelhut@msn.com⁠⁠• Contact Bill - ⁠⁠bill@compassionateresultscoaching.com⁠⁠🔗 Compassionate Results Coaching links: ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/links⁠⁠➡️ To learn more about the Internal Family Systems Model, visit ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/about-ifs⁠⁠ ➡️Join the Parts Work Practice Facebook group: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/partsworkpractice⁠⁠🔗 Parts Work Practice page: ⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com/⁠⁠📖 Get the Compassionate Results Guidebook here: ⁠⁠http://compassionateresultsguidebook.com/⁠⁠➡️Attend IFS Coaching Groups: ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/coaching-groups⁠⁠📞Take the Coaching Readiness Assessment, go to ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/contact⁠⁠🎙️Listen to True You Podcast at ⁠⁠https://trueyoupodcast.com⁠⁠ available on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube! #recovery #ifs #internalfamilysystems #ifscoach #ifscoaching #ifsmodel #partswork #partsworkcoach #podcast #ifspodcast #selfhelf #selfimprovement #leadership #richardschwartz #groupcoaching #ifsgroups #compassionateresults

In this episode, Bill and Marty explore the intricate balance between taking action and practicing acceptance in various aspects of life. From business leadership and career transitions to personal relationships and spiritual growth, Bill and Marty share insights and personal anecdotes to help listeners navigate these complex dynamics. Discover how inner wisdom and core values can guide decisions and enhance connections. Chapters:00:00 Introduction and Hosts' Backgrounds01:07 Catching Up: Personal and Professional Updates04:31 Group Coaching and Leadership Insights06:06 The Importance of the Right Role in Business09:52 Personal Stories and Relationship Dynamics13:50 New Projects and Future Plans15:58 Main Topic Introduction: Passive vs. Active24:31 Exploring Spirituality and Personal Growth25:10 The Balance of Passivity and Activity in Coaching25:42 The Challenge of Surrender in Personal Development26:47 Writing as a Dance Between Surrender and Creation28:24 Overcoming Resistance and Shame in Writing30:34 Navigating Passive and Active Approaches in Life32:32 The Wisdom of Knowing When to Act or Let Go37:41 The Role of Al-Anon in Personal Transformation41:19 The Journey to Sobriety and Connection48:21 Concluding Thoughts and Future TopicsLinks and Resources:• True You Podcast Facebook Page - ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast⁠⁠ • If you would like to be a guest on the True You podcast, please complete this guest application: ⁠⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbHITeLbAD98TRhFPZzK2kStuHos5HFjOGBWAaTJjgVcEAGA/viewform⁠⁠  • Internal Family Systems - ⁠⁠https://ifs-institute.com/⁠⁠ • Compassionate Results Coaching - ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/⁠⁠ • Bill’s book, ‘Compassionate Results Guidebook’ - ⁠⁠https://compassionateresultsguidebook.com⁠⁠ • ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - ⁠⁠https://www.listeningisthekey.com/⁠⁠ • Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - ⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO⁠⁠ • Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - ⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd⁠⁠ • Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - ⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com⁠⁠ • Contact Marty - ⁠⁠mkettelhut@msn.com⁠⁠• Contact Bill - ⁠⁠bill@compassionateresultscoaching.com⁠⁠🔗 Compassionate Results Coaching links: ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/links⁠⁠➡️ To learn more about the Internal Family Systems Model, visit ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/about-ifs⁠⁠ ➡️Join the Parts Work Practice Facebook group: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/partsworkpractice⁠⁠🔗 Parts Work Practice page: ⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com/⁠⁠📖 Get the Compassionate Results Guidebook here: ⁠⁠http://compassionateresultsguidebook.com/⁠⁠➡️Attend IFS Coaching Groups: ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/coaching-groups⁠⁠📞Take the Coaching Readiness Assessment, go to ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/contact⁠⁠🎙️Listen to True You Podcast at ⁠⁠https://trueyoupodcast.com⁠⁠ available on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube! #recovery #ifs #internalfamilysystems #ifscoach #ifscoaching #ifsmodel #partswork #partsworkcoach #podcast #ifspodcast #selfhelf #selfimprovement #leadership #richardschwartz #groupcoaching #ifsgroups #compassionateresults

In this episode, Bill and Marty welcome guest Dr. Kathy Nielsen, a multidisciplinary scholar and software engineering professional. They discuss Kathy’s unique journey from computer programming in the Cayman Islands to teaching at the University of Colorado. The discussion weaves through themes of compassion, love, and what it means to truly know oneself. Highlights include reflections on spirituality, perceptions of inner and outer worlds, and the significance of recognizing one's heart and love in diverse roles and experiences. About Dr. Kathy:Dr. Kathy Nielson is a multi-disciplinary scholar and software engineering professional who has designed and built systems in different domains. She worked as an agile product engineering coach, helping teams learn, grow, and create together. She’’s especially interested in how both students and professionals develop their craft — and in the power of collaboration to share knowledge and create together. Outside of work, you’ll find her at the piano, chanting kirtan, exploring with her dog, or simply soaking in the beauty of the world around her.Contact Dr. Kathy: Websites: https://chimerising.org/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drkathy/Chapters:00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:54 Kathy Nielsen's Background and Achievements03:08 Exploring the Concept of the True Self05:50 The Philosophy of True Self and Love07:30 Practical Examples and Personal Stories12:00 Internal Family Systems and True Self16:53 Navigating Life's Challenges with True Self21:46 The Role of Love in Different Life Phases23:04 Exploring Unconditional Love Through Music24:29 Finding Beauty in Nature26:25 The Relationship Between Internal and External Worlds27:25 A Transformative Experience in Nature30:46 The Concept of Awe and Beauty31:42 The Intersection of Internal and External Realities34:15 Guiding Groups to Inner Awareness36:02 The Complexity of Inside and Outside37:59 The Power of Naming Emotions39:00 Reflections on Youth and Technology40:18 Concluding Thoughts on Choice and AwarenessLinks and Resources:• True You Podcast Facebook Page - ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast⁠⁠ • If you would like to be a guest on the True You podcast, please complete this guest application: ⁠⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbHITeLbAD98TRhFPZzK2kStuHos5HFjOGBWAaTJjgVcEAGA/viewform⁠⁠  • Internal Family Systems - ⁠⁠https://ifs-institute.com/⁠⁠ • Compassionate Results Coaching - ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/⁠⁠ • Bill’s book, ‘Compassionate Results Guidebook’ - ⁠⁠https://compassionateresultsguidebook.com⁠⁠ • ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - ⁠⁠https://www.listeningisthekey.com/⁠⁠ • Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - ⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO⁠⁠ • Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - ⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd⁠⁠ • Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - ⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com⁠⁠ • Contact Marty - ⁠⁠mkettelhut@msn.com⁠⁠• Contact Bill - ⁠⁠bill@compassionateresultscoaching.com⁠⁠🔗 Compassionate Results Coaching links: ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/links⁠⁠➡️ To learn more about the Internal Family Systems Model, visit ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/about-ifs⁠⁠ ➡️Join the Parts Work Practice Facebook group: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/partsworkpractice⁠⁠🔗 Parts Work Practice page: ⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com/⁠⁠➡️Attend IFS Coaching Groups: ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/coaching-groups⁠⁠📞Take the Coaching Readiness Assessment, go to ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/contact⁠⁠🎙️Listen to True You Podcast at ⁠⁠https://trueyoupodcast.com⁠⁠ available on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube! #recovery #ifs #internalfamilysystems #ifscoach #ifscoaching #ifsmodel #partswork #partsworkcoach #podcast #ifspodcast #selfhelf #selfimprovement #leadership #richardschwartz #groupcoaching #ifsgroups #compassionateresults

In this episode, Bill and Marty feature special guest Guthrie Sayen. Guthrie, co-founder of the Institute for Healing and Awakening, discusses his journey and training in IFS (Internal Family Systems). He elaborates on his coaching approach, emphasizing the importance of grounding, core awareness, and field consciousness. The conversation covers the nature of trauma, the role of awareness, and how accessing our innate resources helps in healing and personal growth.About Guthrie:Co-founder of The Institute for Healing and Awakening; creator and lead trainer for Coaching with Spirit, a comprehensive coach training with a spiritual orientation; creator and lead trainer of the Coaching with IFS programs, which provide a in-depth immersion in IFS over 1.5 years with am emphasis on helping practitioners awaken.Contact Guthrie: Websites: https://www.healingandawakening.institute/ and https://www.bridgetothedivine.com/nd Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/instituteforhealingandawakeningLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/institute-for-healing-and-awakeningChapters:00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:53 Guthrie's Background and Training03:55 Meditation and Presence09:12 Technical Difficulties and Resuming Discussion10:58 The Four Building Blocks of Presence18:16 Consciousness and Quality of Life26:59 Understanding Consciousness and Happiness27:51 The Role of a Coach in Personal Transformation30:24 Entering the Client's System with Humility36:11 The Concept of Othering and Internal Conflict39:31 Nonviolent Communication and Core Awareness41:53 The Theory of Burdens and Innate Resources47:21 The Purpose of Shame and Healing Trauma49:23 Final Thoughts and Getting in TouchLinks and Resources:• True You Podcast Facebook Page - ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast⁠⁠ • If you would like to be a guest on the True You podcast, please complete this guest application: ⁠⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbHITeLbAD98TRhFPZzK2kStuHos5HFjOGBWAaTJjgVcEAGA/viewform⁠⁠  • Internal Family Systems - ⁠⁠https://ifs-institute.com/⁠⁠ • Compassionate Results Coaching - ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/⁠⁠ • Bill’s book, ‘Compassionate Results Guidebook’ - ⁠⁠https://compassionateresultsguidebook.com⁠⁠ • ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - ⁠⁠https://www.listeningisthekey.com/⁠⁠ • Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - ⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO⁠⁠ • Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - ⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd⁠⁠ • Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - ⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com⁠⁠ • Contact Marty - ⁠⁠mkettelhut@msn.com⁠⁠• Contact Bill - ⁠⁠bill@compassionateresultscoaching.com⁠⁠🔗 Compassionate Results Coaching links: ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/links⁠⁠➡️ To learn more about the Internal Family Systems Model, visit ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/about-ifs⁠⁠ ➡️Join the Parts Work Practice Facebook group: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/partsworkpractice⁠⁠🔗 Parts Work Practice page: ⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com/⁠⁠📖 Get the Compassionate Results Guidebook here: ⁠⁠http://compassionateresultsguidebook.com/⁠⁠➡️Attend IFS Coaching Groups: ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/coaching-groups⁠⁠📞Take the Coaching Readiness Assessment, go to ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/contact⁠⁠🎙️Listen to True You Podcast at ⁠⁠https://trueyoupodcast.com⁠⁠ available on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube! #recovery #ifs #internalfamilysystems #ifscoach #ifscoaching #ifsmodel #partswork #partsworkcoach #podcast #ifspodcast #selfhelf #selfimprovement #leadership #richardschwartz #groupcoaching #ifsgroups #compassionateresults

In this episode, Marty and Bill welcome Jesse Schuhlein, a former engineering executive turned IFS coach. Jesse shares his remarkable journey of growing BER Technologies from a small startup to a 170-person industry leader, and the moment he realized he needed a change. He recounts his transformative experiences with psychedelics, meditation, and therapy, which led him to Internal Family Systems (IFS). Today, Jesse uses his engineering background and IFS training to help others align with their true selves. About Jesse:Jesse Schuhlein is a former engineering executive who helped grow Zaber Technologies from a 3-person startup into a 170-person industry leader.In his mid-forties, he went searching for something more through psychedelics and meditation, looking for deeper answers about consciousness and the universe. That journey unexpectedly led into therapy, personal growth, and healing—and ultimately to Internal Family Systems (IFS). Today, Jesse coaches people using IFS, blending mindfulness and real-world leadership experience to help them move from chasing success to living in alignment.Contact Jesse: Website: https://www.rechargecoaching.ca/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jesse.schuhleinYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/JesseSchuhleinChapters:00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:51 Jesse Schuhlein’s Background and Journey03:45 Building a Successful Company07:30 Creating a Great Workplace Culture14:41 Transition to Coaching and IFS28:50 Naming the Man Club29:26 Recognizing Emotions and Discontent31:42 The Role of IFS in Coaching32:36 Understanding Internal Family Systems (IFS)33:56 Coaching vs. Therapy34:48 Client Goals and Parts Work37:11 The Importance of Self-Work for Practitioners47:38 Defining and Releasing Burdens50:33 How to Connect with Jesse52:56 Closing Remarks and Future TopicsLinks and Resources:• True You Podcast Facebook Page - ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast⁠⁠ • If you would like to be a guest on the True You podcast, please complete this guest application: ⁠⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbHITeLbAD98TRhFPZzK2kStuHos5HFjOGBWAaTJjgVcEAGA/viewform⁠⁠  • Internal Family Systems - ⁠⁠https://ifs-institute.com/⁠⁠ • Compassionate Results Coaching - ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/⁠⁠ • Bill’s book, ‘Compassionate Results Guidebook’ - ⁠⁠https://compassionateresultsguidebook.com⁠⁠ • ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - ⁠⁠https://www.listeningisthekey.com/⁠⁠ • Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - ⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO⁠⁠ • Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - ⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd⁠⁠ • Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - ⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com⁠⁠ • Contact Marty - ⁠⁠mkettelhut@msn.com⁠⁠• Contact Bill - ⁠⁠bill@compassionateresultscoaching.com⁠⁠🔗 Compassionate Results Coaching links: ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/links⁠⁠➡️ To learn more about the Internal Family Systems Model, visit ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/about-ifs⁠⁠ ➡️Join the Parts Work Practice Facebook group: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/partsworkpractice⁠⁠🔗 Parts Work Practice page: ⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com/⁠⁠📖 Get the Compassionate Results Guidebook here: ⁠⁠http://compassionateresultsguidebook.com/⁠⁠➡️Attend IFS Coaching Groups: ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/coaching-groups⁠⁠📞Take the Coaching Readiness Assessment, go to ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/contact⁠⁠🎙️Listen to True You Podcast at ⁠⁠https://trueyoupodcast.com⁠⁠ available on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube! #recovery #ifs #internalfamilysystems #ifscoach #ifscoaching #ifsmodel #partswork #partsworkcoach #podcast #ifspodcast #selfhelf #selfimprovement #leadership #richardschwartz #groupcoaching #ifsgroups #compassionateresults