
True You Podcast Episode 35: Selfish, Selfless, Oneness
In this episode, Bill and Marty discuss about the intricate balance between being selfish and selfless. They discuss the concept of 'wise selfishness,' a theory introduced by the Dalai Lama, and how it exposes the false binary between self-interest and altruism. The conversation touches on personal anecdotes, philosophical insights, and real-world examples, ultimately leading to a profound exploration of connection, unity, and what it truly means to be 'self.'
Chapters:
00:00 Welcome to the True You Podcast
00:16 Introducing Bill Tierney and His Coaching Philosophy
01:30 The Tension Between Selfishness and Selflessness
05:43 Exploring Wise Selfishness with the Dalai Lama
09:01 A Personal Story of Generosity
11:37 The Unity of Self and the Universe
25:52 The Impact of the Pandemic on Our Connections
33:09 Struggling with the Concept of Oneness
34:28 Interdependence vs. Oneness
36:28 Experiences of Oneness
37:40 Energetic Connections
44:23 Unity in a Divided World
54:10 Personal Reflections and Coaching
58:25 Concluding Thoughts on Oneness
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• Internal Family Systems - https://ifs-institute.com/
• Compassionate Results Coaching - https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/
• Bill’s book, ‘Compassionate Results Guidebook’ - https://compassionateresultsguidebook.com
• ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - https://www.listeningisthekey.com/
• Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO
• Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd
• Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - https://www.partsworkpractice.com
• Contact Marty - mkettelhut@msn.com
• Contact Bill - bill@compassionateresultscoaching.com
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