True You Podcast

In this episode, join Marty and Bill as they welcome special guest Dr. Marie Feuer on the True You Podcast. Dr. Feuer shares her transformative journey from activism to spirituality, discussing her involvement in energy activism, mystical events, and integrating Internal Family Systems (IFS) into her practice. The conversation covers groundbreaking topics like remote healing, telepathic communication, and personal anecdotes that highlight the powerful impact of IFS. About Dr. Marie Feuer:Marie transitioned from full-time activism into a journey of recovery and spirituality. Her transformation began with The Living Theater, where trance performances awakened her to the power of energy. Activism with the American Indian Movement at Wounded Knee connected her with medicine people and mystical events, eventually leading her to mentors in metaphysics and remote healing.Beginning in 1990, she taught gang members as a professor before moving on to colleges with at-risk students. Over 15 years, she engaged in ACA 12-step work and inner-child healing, evolving into Internal Family Systems. With more than 12 years in the mystic arts and psychology, Marie now continues to integrate IFS into her spiritual practice.Contact Alice:Website: https://www.mariefeuer.org/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lifepathhealings/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrMarieYucaipaTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lifepathhealingsChapters:00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:28 Marie Feuer's Journey and Spiritual Awakening01:28 Technical Difficulties and Podcast Dynamics02:45 Exploring Remote Healing and Telepathy08:11 Personal Experiences with Energy Healing13:32 The Role of Psychedelics and Self-Healing14:52 Matrix Energetics and True Self Exploration20:10 Entities, Spirit Guides, and IFS27:10 Concerns About IFS Training Integrity27:37 Therapists and Internal Work28:56 The New Age Industry and Certification Issues30:03 The Unique Approach of IFS30:46 The Role of an IFS Practitioner32:06 Using IFS to Achieve Results34:41 Authenticity and Changing Goals39:18 The True Self and Coaching43:03 The Rise of IFS and Its Impact45:58 Speculations on Human Evolution and IFS51:41 The Importance of Authenticity and Responsibility53:22 Final Thoughts and Wrap-UpLinks and Resources:• The Telepathy Tapes - https://thetelepathytapes.com/• The Field by Lynn McTaggart - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000V507D4• Matrix Energetics - https://www.matrixenergetics.com/• Luis Elizondo - https://luiselizondo-official.com/• True You Podcast Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast• Would you like to be a guest on our podcast? Complete this form to apply: https://forms.gle/Fre2eEmiNoDPYKmp9• Internal Family Systems - https://ifs-institute.com/• Bill Tierney Coaching - https://www.billtierneycoaching.com/• ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - https://www.listeningisthekey.com/• Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO• Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd• Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - https://www.partsworkpractice.com• Contact Marty - mkettelhut@msn.com• Contact Bill - bill@billtierneycoaching.com

In this episode, join hosts Marty and Bill as they welcome special guest Violet Eden, a psychotherapist specializing in self-love, authenticity, and spiritual awakening. Violet shares her remarkable journey, including a transformative healing experience from breast cancer through a love-based practice, and how she rediscovered herself after losing her memory due to a seizure disorder. This episode unpacks the core ideas of Inner Family Systems (IFS), pure consciousness, and the nuanced distinctions between ego, soul, and self. About Violet Eden:Violet Eden is a psychotherapist in Ann Arbor Michigan who specializes in self-love, authenticity and becoming spiritually awake. She is currently writing a book on these topics entitled: A Special Kindness: The Practice of Self-Love and Authenticity.Contact Alice:Website: Core-healing-center.comChapters:00:00 Introduction to the True You Podcast00:58 Meet Violet Eden03:03 Violet's Journey to Self-Discovery04:53 The Eye Exercise and Awareness07:03 Understanding the Authentic Self12:45 Violet's Cancer Healing Story19:00 The Second Miracle: Memory Loss and Recovery27:40 Living from Your Authentic Self30:34 Childhood Game: Warmer, Warmer, Colder, Colder31:19 Internal Guidance System and Life's Purpose33:47 Defining Spirituality35:55 Ego Obliteration and Memory Loss44:59 Understanding the Self and Pure Consciousness53:46 Writing a Book on Self-Love and AuthenticityLinks and Resources: • John Bradshaw Inner Child books - https://www.goodreads.com/author/list/7705.John_Bradshaw• Neurosis and Human Growth - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/130383.Neurosis_and_Human_Growth• Jerry Waxler - https://www.jerrywaxler.com/• Rupert Supira - https://rupertspira.com/• True You Podcast Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast• Would you like to be a guest on our podcast? Complete this form to apply: https://forms.gle/Fre2eEmiNoDPYKmp9• Internal Family Systems - https://ifs-institute.com/• Bill Tierney Coaching - https://www.billtierneycoaching.com/• ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - https://www.listeningisthekey.com/• Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO• Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd• Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - https://www.partsworkpractice.com• Contact Marty - mkettelhut@msn.com• Contact Bill - bill@billtierneycoaching.com

In this episode, join Bill and Marty as they welcome Alice Grossi, an IFS-informed practitioner and avid adventurer. In this episode, Alice shares her journey through Internal Family Systems therapy, her experiences sailing across the Pacific Ocean, and her cultural immersions with indigenous communities. The conversation explores themes of genuine connection, self-awareness, and the multifaceted nature of identity. Alice discusses the importance of self-responsibility, the role of co-regulation, and the endless opportunities for self-discovery. About Alice:Alice is an Internal Family Systems (IFS) Informed practitioner. In her workshops, she navigates realms of authentic relating, IFS and parts work, creating spaces for genuine connections that drop below the surface, guiding individuals to deeper self-awareness and self-love.She has worked as a crew and captain on sailing yachts, crossed the Pacific Ocean, guided hundreds of humans in outdoor education and experiential programs, and has done cultural immersions with Native American families and indigenous communities.She brings this and more of her background into her work, providing compassion and safety for others to delicately navigate their internal landscapes, both in group format and private sessions.A catalyst for healing connections, Alice invites individuals to embrace authenticity, resilience, and life as a never ending opportunity for self-discovery.Contact Alice:Website: www.alicegrossi.comEmail: hello.alicegrossi@gmail.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/alice.grossi__deeper.coachinghttps://www.instagram.com/self2parts.journeyFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/alicecrezzygrossi/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alice-grossi/Chapters:00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome01:36 Alice Grossi's Background and Expertise03:54 Exploring Authenticity and True Self05:40 The Impact of Diverse Experiences12:46 Sailing Adventures and Self-Discovery20:05 Navigating Boundaries and Relationships26:19 Trust and Authenticity in Relationships27:32 Finding Safety Within Yourself29:12 The Importance of Co-Regulation31:18 Connecting Through Touch and Breath33:14 Nature and Historical Connections36:38 Understanding and Welcoming Fear42:17 Embracing All Parts of Yourself46:22 Workshops and Future PlansLinks and Resources: • True You Podcast Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast• Would you like to be a guest on our podcast? Complete this form to apply: https://forms.gle/Fre2eEmiNoDPYKmp9• Internal Family Systems - https://ifs-institute.com/• Bill Tierney Coaching - https://www.billtierneycoaching.com/• ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - https://www.listeningisthekey.com/• Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO• Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd• Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - https://www.partsworkpractice.com• Contact Marty - mkettelhut@msn.com• Contact Bill - bill@billtierneycoaching.com

In this episode, hosts Bill and Marty are joined by Jason Blydell, an IFS coach, former Division I athlete, and Marine Corps officer. In this candid discussion, Jason shares his personal journey of transformation, deep healing, and spiritual awakening after losing his father. The conversation explores the nuances of ontological coaching, the impact of presence-centric approaches, and the profound effects of Jason's work with high-performing leaders.About Jason Blydell:Jason is a former two-sport Division I athlete and combat-tested Marine Corps officer who now guides leaders through deep inner transformation. After losing his father and the identities he once clung to—son, athlete, warrior—Jason embarked on a journey of profound healing, purpose, and spiritual awakening. Through his work at Gone Beyond Leadership, he helps high-performing leaders move beyond external achievement and reconnect with a deeper, truer source of power—leading from love, freedom, and wholeness. He’s a devoted father of 4, husband, and a warrior for the human spirit, standing for a new kind of leadership: soulful, embodied, and unshakably rooted in truth.Contact Jason:Website: www.jasonblydell.comEmail: jason.blydell@gmail.comInstagram: http://instagram.com/jason_blydellSubstack: https://jasonblydell.substack.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jason-blydell/Chapters:00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction01:15 Jason's Background and Military Experience06:46 Transition to Coaching and Ontological Coaching08:43 Deep Dive into Ontological Coaching14:36 Present-Centric Approach and Parts Work22:54 Live Coaching Session27:03 Earning Trust and Understanding Parts27:50 Cultivating a Beautiful Interior World29:16 The Power of Presence in Coaching36:15 The Evolution of Coaching40:27 Performance and Authenticity42:00 Exploring Sexual Energy and Creativity48:28 The Importance of Presence and Letting Go of Agendas51:31 Final Reflections and Closing ThoughtsShow notes:• John O’Donohue (poet) - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_O%27Donohue• Aletheia Coaching Program - https://integralunfoldment.com/• Gone Beyond Leadership• Contact Marty - mkettelhut@msn.com• Contact Bill - bill@billtierneycoaching.com• True You Podcast Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast• Would you like to be a guest on our podcast? Complete this form to apply: https://forms.gle/Fre2eEmiNoDPYKmp9• Internal Family Systems - https://ifs-institute.com/• Bill Tierney Coaching - https://www.billtierneycoaching.com/• ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - https://www.listeningisthekey.com/• Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO• Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd• Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - https://www.partsworkpractice.com

In this episode, join Bill and Marty as they welcome guest Alison Dyer, a certified IFS practitioner. Alison shares her incredible story of trauma, abuse, and the healing power of imagination. Through candid discussions, learn how Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy became her path to reconnecting with her divine self and transforming her life. About Alison:As a certified IFS practitioner. My focus is on building relationships in our inner world so that we may have a positive impact on the outside world. I am exploring the idea of connecting with the wisdom of our soul and our humanity.  Someone who loves learning and going deep into the world of imagination.Contact Alison:Email: alisonmdyer4@gmail.comInstagram: http://instagram.com/dyer8893Chapters:00:00 Introduction to the True You Podcast00:37 Meet Our Guest: Alison Dyer02:20 Alison's Journey with IFS and Imagination03:28 Childhood Trauma and Imagination as a Coping Mechanism05:16 Struggles with Religion and Self-Identity08:51 The Role of Imagination in Healing22:11 Alison's Experiences with Abuse in the Church28:39 A New Church and Unsettling Encounters29:27 A Secret Relationship and Its Consequences30:31 The Turning Point: Reporting the Pastor31:26 Healing and Rediscovering Faith32:18 The Role of Imagination in Healing33:47 The Loving Parent Guidebook34:49 Reflections on Trauma and Growth35:27 The Power of 'What If' Questions41:12 Personal Stories and Divine Connection45:16 The True Self and Internal Family Systems49:56 Parts Work Practice and Final ThoughtsLinks and Resources:• Loving Parent Guidebook - https://shop.adultchildren.org/collections/books/products/loving-parent-guidebook• Contact Marty - mkettelhut@msn.com• Contact Bill - bill@billtierneycoaching.com• True You Podcast Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast• Would you like to be a guest on our podcast? Complete this form to apply: https://forms.gle/Fre2eEmiNoDPYKmp9• Internal Family Systems - https://ifs-institute.com/• Bill Tierney Coaching - https://www.billtierneycoaching.com/• ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - https://www.listeningisthekey.com/• Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO• Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd• Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - https://www.partsworkpractice.com

In this episode, hosts Bill and Marty reflect on the journey of creating the podcast and its evolving identity. They explore the concept of the brain's efficiency in forming habitual thought grooves and the conscious effort required to shift these patterns. They discuss the ethical dimensions of communication and the importance of taking responsibility for one’s thoughts and words. The conversation shifts towards understanding and working through entrenched negative beliefs, the role of parts work in internal family systems (IFS) therapy, and the process of updating these beliefs. By fostering a friendship with the mind, the hosts emphasize the significance of appreciating one's mental processes and how embracing new habits can lead to a fulfilling life transformation.00:00 Introduction to the True You Podcast01:06 The Brain's Efficiency and Habit Formation02:14 Ethics and Responsibility in Communication03:45 The Power of Thought and Behavior Habits05:10 Overcoming Self-Doubt and Embracing Authenticity09:50 Creating Structures for New Habits16:07 Exploring Self-Energy and Internal Family Systems (IFS)18:32 Understanding and Healing Trauma20:53 Understanding Parts Work and Beliefs21:29 Asking the Right Questions22:27 Revealing and Addressing Core Beliefs23:47 Timing and Respect in Parts Work25:53 Client Experiences and Shifting Beliefs31:35 Renegotiating Roles for Unburdened Parts33:43 Wrapping Up and Future TopicsLinks and Resources:• Contact Marty - mkettelhut@msn.com• Contact Bill - bill@billtierneycoaching.com• True You Podcast Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast• Would you like to be a guest on our podcast? Complete this form to apply: https://forms.gle/Fre2eEmiNoDPYKmp9• Internal Family Systems - https://ifs-institute.com/• Bill Tierney Coaching - https://www.billtierneycoaching.com/• ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - https://www.listeningisthekey.com/• Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO• Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd• Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - https://www.partsworkpractice.com

In this episode, Bill and Marty engage in a deep conversation about contentment, inspired by Marty's recent newsletter article. They discuss the transformative power of acceptance and forgiveness, and how these stages lead to true contentment. Marty shares his thoughts on the influence of Fred Luskin's book on forgiveness and the significance of the Prisoner's Dilemma in understanding human behavior. Bill reflects on his journey to rediscover joy through sobriety and the importance of self-energy. Together, they uncover the essence of being aligned with one's authentic self.Chapters:00:00 Introduction and Greetings00:11 Discussing the Newsletter on Contentment02:01 Forgiveness and Its Impact04:24 Exploring the Concept of Contentment07:43 The Prisoner's Dilemma and Contentment14:56 Personal Reflections on Contentment22:56 Exploring the Nature of Joy and Contentment24:01 Early Recovery and Perceptions of Joy24:43 Manufactured Joy vs. True Self-Energy26:04 The Concept of Optimum Resource28:16 Contentment and Containment33:56 The Itch of Yearning and Acceptance39:38 Final Thoughts and ReflectionsLinks and Resources:• Contact Marty - mkettelhut@msn.com• Contact Bill - bill@billtierneycoaching.com• True You Podcast Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast• Would you like to be a guest on our podcast? Complete this form to apply: https://forms.gle/Fre2eEmiNoDPYKmp9• Internal Family Systems - https://ifs-institute.com/• Bill Tierney Coaching - https://www.billtierneycoaching.com/• ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - https://www.listeningisthekey.com/• Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO• Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd• Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - https://www.partsworkpractice.com

In the second episode of the True You Podcast, Bill and Marty address the distinctions between the 'true self' and the 'parts' within us as outlined in the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model. They uncover how self-energy can guide us through various life challenges and discuss the importance of recognizing and tending to our parts for better self-led lives. The conversation flows through practical applications, the role of consciousness, and how parts work together under self-leadership. Chapters:00:00 Introduction to the True You Podcast00:38 Understanding the True You and IFS02:21 Personal Beliefs and IFS Distinctions03:37 Illustrations and Visual Learning in IFS06:08 The Seat of Consciousness12:30 Practical Applications of IFS14:25 Self-Led vs. Burden-Led Parts23:14 Maintaining Capacity and Self-Leadership25:04 Acknowledging and Addressing Concerns26:20 Practical Applications of IFS26:32 Analogy to Governmental Systems28:14 The Role of Self-Energy in Healing30:45 Overcoming Overwhelm with Self-Energy31:54 The Loving Parent in IFS32:40 The Role of the Practitioner in IFS34:29 Exploring Critical Parts in Therapy36:59 The Power of Self-Energized Curiosity39:04 The Mystery of Self and Parts42:51 Invitation to Engage with the ConversationShow notes:• Self-Therapy Workbook: An Exercise Book For The IFS Process by Bonnie Weiss - https://www.amazon.com/dp/0984392742• Contact Marty - mkettelhut@msn.com• Contact Bill - bill@billtierneycoaching.com• True You Podcast Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast• Would you like to be a guest on our podcast? Complete this form to apply: https://forms.gle/Fre2eEmiNoDPYKmp9• Internal Family Systems - https://ifs-institute.com/• Bill Tierney Coaching - https://www.billtierneycoaching.com/• ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - https://www.listeningisthekey.com/• Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO• Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd• Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - https://www.partsworkpractice.com

In the debut episode of the True You Podcast, hosts Bill Tierney, a results coach and certified IFS practitioner, and Dr. Martin Kettelhut, an experienced leadership coach and author, introduce themselves and share their unique coaching journeys. They discuss the evolution of their podcast from 'Not Your Typical Leadership Coaching' to focusing on authentic self-expression and true leadership. With a personal story about overcoming fear in a heated discussion, Marty reveals how authenticity and presence lead to true leadership and genuine connection. Chapters:00:00 Welcome to the True You Podcast00:17 Meet Your Hosts: Dr. Martin Kettelhut and Bill Tierney00:26 Marty's Coaching Journey01:30 A Tale of Two Locations02:30 The Evolution of Our Podcast03:01 Bill's Path to Recovery Coaching05:33 The Leadership Coaching Podcast10:26 The True You Podcast: A New Beginning11:24 The Power of Authenticity19:14 Recognizing Your True Self20:36 Bill's Personal Story24:26 Challenges in Leadership26:02 Introduction to Personal Challenges26:36 Exploring Internal Family Systems (IFS)27:27 Power and True Self29:45 Facing Fear and Courage32:16 Handling Conflict with Grace43:20 The Importance of Boundaries44:59 Invitation to Join the Conversation45:54 Conclusion and Next StepsShownotes:• Power Vs Force - https://www.amazon.com/Power-Force-David-Hawkins-M-D/dp/1401945074• True You Podcast Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast• Would you like to be a guest on our podcast? Complete this form to apply: https://forms.gle/Fre2eEmiNoDPYKmp9• Internal Family Systems - https://ifs-institute.com/• Bill Tierney Coaching - https://www.billtierneycoaching.com/• Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - https://www.listeningisthekey.com/• Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO• Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd• Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - https://www.partsworkpractice.com