

Episode 21: Clarity About What You Want
In this episode, Bill and Marty discuss the importance of getting clarity on what you truly want in life. They explore why many people struggle with this clarity, often focusing more on what they don't want. Through personal anecdotes and professional experiences, both coaches share valuable techniques for establishing clear objectives, navigating internal obstacles, and using one's internal guidance system to achieve desired outcomes. The conversation also touches on the significance of self-awareness, the role of protective internal parts, and the practical steps to shift focus from negative experiences to positive affirmations.
Chapters:00:00 Introduction to the True You Podcast
00:54 The Importance of Clarity in Coaching
02:44 Challenges in Defining What You Want
03:10 Technical Difficulties and Coaching Dynamics
04:22 Exploring Client Objectives and Coaching Strategies
12:01 Understanding Internal Family Systems
18:32 Personal Experiences and Manifestation
28:21 Understanding Our Desires and Misconceptions
29:14 Personal Journey and Business Insights
30:27 The Importance of Clarity in Coaching
32:33 Internal Family Systems and Ideal Clients
33:16 Navigating Challenges and True Desires
34:48 Nonviolent Communication and Self-Reflection
37:47 Self-Awareness and Personal Development
42:52 The Role of Internal Guidance
49:22 Parts Work Practice Conference AnnouncementLinks and Resources:
• True You Podcast Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast
• Would you like to be a guest on our podcast? Complete this form to apply: https://forms.gle/Fre2eEmiNoDPYKmp9
• Internal Family Systems - https://ifs-institute.com/
• Bill Tierney Coaching - https://www.billtierneycoaching.com/
• ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - https://www.listeningisthekey.com/
• Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO
• Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd
• Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - https://www.partsworkpractice.com
• Contact Marty - mkettelhut@msn.com
• Contact Bill - bill@billtierneycoaching.com