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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

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18 snips
Nov 4, 2024 • 56min

Finding Love Would Mean Letting Go of Who I Am

The struggle of finding love often reveals deeper truths about identity and societal expectations. A gay Muslim man's journey highlights the tension between faith and authenticity. Listeners discover the impact of fantasy on real relationships and the importance of empathy. The conversation dives into the emotional sacrifices made for love, along with personal anecdotes of coming out and familial pressures. Ultimately, it emphasizes the power of honesty in navigating love amidst culture and belief.
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Oct 21, 2024 • 49min

Esther Calling - You Are So Not Invited to My Wedding

Navigating the tension between past and present relationships takes center stage. A young woman grapples with her fiancé's decision to invite her former abusive boss to their wedding. Emotional turmoil and authority struggles emerge, highlighting the complex dynamics of loyalty and boundaries. The conversation unpacks the intricacies of wedding guest lists and the importance of communication. With insights on emotional conflicts, it emphasizes empathy as essential for fostering understanding and resolving personal challenges.
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Oct 14, 2024 • 59min

Love the Child, Not the Father

Client 1 shares their intense journey of love, parenting, and emotional strife during the COVID lockdown. Feeling unsupported and overwhelmed, they navigate the treacherous waters of a relationship strained by unplanned parenthood. Esther Perel helps unpack the emotional complexities and power dynamics at play, emphasizing the need for flexibility and open communication. The conversation touches on breaking cycles of resentment and setting boundaries, ultimately highlighting the importance of maintaining individual identities while co-parenting.
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Oct 7, 2024 • 46min

Best Friends Don't Make For the Best Bosses

Two best friends navigate the rocky terrain of turning a personal bond into a professional one. They discuss miscommunication and how it can fracture both friendship and business. The importance of honest dialogues emerges as a key theme for healing their relationship. They explore power dynamics at work and the challenge of expressing ideas when intimidation looms. Ultimately, they seek strategies to blend their personal and professional lives while maintaining clear communication and healthy boundaries.
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36 snips
Sep 23, 2024 • 56min

Say More - Miranda July and Esther Perel on The Rebirth of Desire

In this discussion, writer and artist Miranda July shares her unique storytelling insights alongside renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel. They delve into the intricate bond between love and desire in modern relationships, contrasting domesticity and eroticism. Exploring themes of vulnerability, they navigate the emotional complexities of intimacy and the impact of societal expectations. They also discuss the essence of eroticism beyond mere physicality and its role in deepening connections. Their dynamic conversation offers rich perspectives on desire and creativity.
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36 snips
Sep 16, 2024 • 40min

Esther Calling - Why Can't I Find Someone? Is it Me?

In this thought-provoking discussion, Esther Perel speaks with a woman who feels caught in frustrating dating patterns despite her openness to various relationship forms. They delve into the emotional challenges of modern dating, exploring how optimism can coexist with exhaustion. The guest shares her experiences with fleeting connections and the impact of ghosting. Esther reframes her frustrations, emphasizing the importance of self-worth and genuine connections. Together, they navigate the complexities of seeking meaningful relationships in today’s dating landscape.
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Sep 9, 2024 • 1h 7min

We Had Boundaries and He Crossed Them

A couple in a consensual, non-monogamous relationship faces a crisis when an unplanned pregnancy disrupts their carefully established boundaries. They explore the emotional turmoil and complexities of trust amid unexpected challenges, as their relationship dynamics shift. The discussion delves into the navigation of family roles, communication struggles, and the impact of betrayal. Through heartfelt reflections, they confront vulnerability and the delicate balance between individual desires and shared responsibilities in parenthood.
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Aug 26, 2024 • 1h 2min

The Arc of Love - Happily Divorced

In this engaging conversation, Esther, an amicably divorced divorce lawyer, offers a fresh perspective on post-marriage relationships. She discusses the significance of mutual respect and effective co-parenting, emphasizing the emotional complexities that surface after divorce. The talk delves into redefining love, the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships, and the transformative nature of new freedoms after separation. Esther also touches on how language shapes our narratives about connection, showcasing that love can take many forms even after it ends.
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Aug 19, 2024 • 53min

The Arc of Love - All The Things We Never Said

Esther, an expert in relationship dynamics and emotional processing, guides listeners through a journey of unexpressed feelings following loss. A poignant discussion unfolds about navigating grief and how it intertwines with intimacy in relationships. Esther emphasizes the importance of open communication and recognizing unspoken emotions, especially after a partner's passing. The dialogue explores the complexities of regret, love, and moving on, highlighting how to find connection while honoring the memories of lost loved ones.
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Aug 12, 2024 • 53min

The Arc of Love - A Romantic Revival

Esther, a compassionate coach specializing in helping couples heal after loss, guides a couple grappling with the aftermath of a loved one's suicide. They explore their journey from mere survival to revitalizing their relationship, addressing deep wounds like maternal absence and its impact on trust. This conversation dives into overcoming trauma, the significance of communication, and rediscovering joy and intimacy amidst adversity. With personal stories and emotional clarity, they navigate the complexities of love and connection in the wake of grief.

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