Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Esther Perel Global Media
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47 snips
Jul 28, 2025 • 32min

Esther Calling - Stuck in the Middle

A man grapples with the emotional weight of being his friends' go-to confidante in romantic crises. He questions how to maintain boundaries without sacrificing deep connections. The conversation delves into the intricate balance of empathy and self-care amidst relationship turmoil. It also explores the impact of family dynamics on personal identity and the longing for emotional safety. With insight into navigating these complex emotional terrains, listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own boundaries and support roles.
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60 snips
Jul 21, 2025 • 52min

Two Conversations Esther Wants You To Hear From Sessions Live

Join psychiatrist Paul Browde, who shares his inspiring journey from growing up queer under apartheid to finding healing through storytelling and pleasure as transformative tools. His thoughts on reclaiming aliveness and confronting stigma are powerful. Later, New York Times bestselling author Nedra Glover Tawwab dives into the importance of setting boundaries in relationships, emphasizing that they foster connection rather than separation. Her compassionate insights offer a roadmap for cultivating healthier dynamics, especially in today's emotionally challenging climate.
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17 snips
Jul 14, 2025 • 1h 6min

Can Our College Friendship Survive Adulthood?

Friendship evolves, but what happens when it strains under the weight of adulthood? Two college friends face the bittersweet reality of growing apart due to life changes. They reflect on their cultural identities and the support they've offered each other through challenges. The conversation emphasizes open communication as they navigate feelings of neglect and conditional support. A fun card game is introduced to help rekindle their connection, proving that even amidst new partners, their bond can still thrive.
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138 snips
Jul 7, 2025 • 2h 16min

What Now? with Trevor Noah - Meet Esther Perel - One of My Favorite People

In a captivating conversation, renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel shares her insights on the transformative power of friendship with Trevor Noah. Reflecting on childhood experiences, they discuss how relationships help us navigate challenges and foster personal growth. The duo explores cultural differences in love and connection, highlighting the role of community in modern life. With humor and heartfelt anecdotes, they delve into the complexities of intimacy and the impact of evolving societal norms on our relationships.
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44 snips
Jun 30, 2025 • 50min

Esther Calling - Never Been In a Long Term Relationship, Scared I Don't Know How To Do This

A 42-year-old grapples with anxiety as he enters his first serious relationship, fearing he won't know how to navigate intimacy. The discussion reveals how past experiences, including childhood trauma and bullying, shape his emotional landscape. Topics like setting boundaries, emotional vulnerability, and the significance of physical touch are thoroughly explored. By confronting insecurities and embracing self-compassion, he learns that meaningful connections require both risk and trust.
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72 snips
Jun 23, 2025 • 56min

Esther Calling - Esther says "Run!"

A listener grapples with possessiveness in a budding relationship, prompting a deep dive into trust and control. Esther examines whether love should come with ultimatums and the potential costs of sacrifice. Cultural influences and past experiences shape expectations around loyalty. The discussion unfolds the emotional complexities of commitment, exploring the balance between personal boundaries and shared lives. As the dialogue progresses, the importance of open communication and self-assertion emerges, urging listeners to reflect on their own relationship dynamics.
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38 snips
Jun 16, 2025 • 1h 3min

Esther Calling - I Want To Fit In, But I Don't Want To Fit In

A single mother by choice navigates the challenges of dating amid traditional community values. She grapples with balancing her new identity and desires for intimacy while raising her child. The conversation dives into societal expectations versus personal fulfillment, reflecting on the struggle between fitting in and standing out. They discuss the emotional complexities of motherhood and the necessity of support systems as she seeks connection and self-acceptance in a world laden with judgment.
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90 snips
Jun 9, 2025 • 57min

Esther Calling - First He Loved Bombed Me And Then It Was Over

A listener bravely shares their painful journey through a love bomb experience with a narcissistic partner, grappling with trust issues after deep personal loss. The conversation dives into the emotional rollercoaster of modern dating, exploring self-worth and recognizing toxic patterns. There’s a candid discussion about the complexities of vulnerability and emotional dynamics. The episode encourages introspection to navigate attraction and foster healthier relationships, highlighting the importance of honoring one’s emotions in the aftermath of a tumultuous romance.
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39 snips
Jun 2, 2025 • 53min

Terms & Conditions May Apply: What We All Need to Know About Modern Dating

Modern dating is a complex landscape filled with questions about choice and connection. Guests share their personal histories, revealing the impact of past relationships and cultural shifts. The conversation dives into the nuances of online dating, genuine attraction, and the emotional exhaustion it can bring. With humor and candidness, speakers discuss strategies for enjoying dating despite its pitfalls, emphasizing the need for kindness and authentic connections in a commodified romantic world.
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48 snips
May 19, 2025 • 1h 7min

I Took My Boss to Therapy

Explore the tumultuous yet enlightening dynamics between a manager and their direct report in a transformed workplace. Delve into the powerful impact of first impressions and the nuances of leadership styles. The conversation emphasizes the importance of identity, communication, and trust, especially within diverse teams. It also addresses emotional challenges and the complexities of team dynamics, highlighting the role of empathy and personal growth in fostering a supportive work culture.

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