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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

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10 snips
Mar 31, 2025 • 51min

Esther Calling - To Forgive My Ex-Husband I Need to Forgive Myself First

A young divorcée grapples with anger and frustration as she navigates co-parenting with her ex-husband. They discuss the emotional challenges stemming from past traumas and the intricacies of communication that strain their relationship. Self-forgiveness emerges as a critical theme in healing and fostering healthier connections. The conversation delves into the cycle of blame and personal responsibility, emphasizing the need for reflection to break negative patterns. Ultimately, it's about evolving communication to support their children's well-being.
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29 snips
Mar 24, 2025 • 1h 4min

You are Vocal on the Criticism But Silent on the Compliments

In this insightful discussion, a couple grapples with feelings of abandonment and isolation while raising their family. The wife feels neglected, while the husband struggles to meet both familial and personal demands. They share the emotional turmoil arising from their disconnect, highlighting the importance of appreciation, communication, and mutual understanding. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-care to nurture both the couple's relationship and their children's well-being, as they seek to rewrite their family narrative.
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59 snips
Mar 17, 2025 • 56min

Esther Perel Invites Us to Imagine Our Preferred Future

In a thought-provoking conversation, Amy Webb, CEO of the Future Today Institute and renowned futurist, teams up with former Google executive Frederik Pferdt, an innovation expert. They discuss how today's technological trends shape our relationships for tomorrow. The pair explores the tension between excitement for AI advancements and anxiety about job displacement. They also emphasize the importance of storytelling, emotional engagement, and cultivating empathy to navigate uncertainty, all while envisioning a balanced, preferred future.
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30 snips
Mar 10, 2025 • 53min

Leaving the Shame Behind

A couple navigates life after a series of health crises, discussing how these challenges shape their relationship and parenting. They confront the emotional complexities of anger and the need for sincere apologies. The discussion highlights the importance of vulnerability in parenting and the lasting impact of childhood experiences. As they unpack their struggles, they emphasize honest communication, personal growth, and the power of seeking support. Ultimately, they explore the journey of trauma recovery and the healing that comes from empathetic connections.
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33 snips
Mar 3, 2025 • 48min

Esther Calling - No Longer Daddy's Little Girl

A woman grapples with the pain of being estranged from her father for two years while trying to navigate her own identity and future family plans. The conversation dives deep into the emotional complexities of familial estrangement, highlighting the influence of parental relationships on personal growth. Financial dynamics and the weight of past conflicts surface, revealing how childhood experiences shape adult perspectives. This heartfelt discussion encourages self-discovery and the importance of chosen family in the healing journey.
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46 snips
Feb 24, 2025 • 40min

Esther Calling - I Can Break up with Him But I'm Still Stuck With Myself

A woman grapples with the complexities of her long-distance relationship, contemplating whether to end it. Esther helps her explore fears of intimacy, rejection, and deep-seated family dynamics. The conversation reveals the struggle between seeking emotional safety and desiring connection. They discuss the impact of loneliness, emotional vulnerability, and the importance of articulating personal needs. Ultimately, they focus on self-acceptance and breaking free from guilt, empowering her to seek closer relationships and embrace her true self.
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79 snips
Feb 17, 2025 • 54min

I Want to Feel Wanted

A husband grappling with his feelings shares his story of marital discontent. After ten years of marriage, he reveals his desire to leave, prompting a deep dive into the emotional fallout of sudden relationship changes. Conversations with Esther reveal the struggle between parental responsibilities and intimacy, along with the complexities of desire versus companionship. The discussion emphasizes the need for open communication, self-perception, and the balance between caregiving and personal fulfillment in long-term relationships.
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121 snips
Feb 10, 2025 • 1h 3min

When the Turn On Becomes a Turn Off

A couple opens up about their shifting sexual preferences after 15 years of marriage. Explore how trust, intimacy, and vulnerability fuel their fantasies. Disturbingly, one partner’s fetish has become a turn-off for the other. The discussion underscores the emotional needs tied to sexual desires and the importance of mutual understanding. Learn how to deepen emotional connections while navigating complex dynamics in long-term relationships, emphasizing curiosity and openness for a more fulfilling intimate life.
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Feb 3, 2025 • 46min

Esther Calling - I'm Keeping the Baby...Now What?

A woman grapples with the profound complexities of an unexpected pregnancy following a whirlwind romance and a breakup. As she seeks guidance from Esther Perel, they explore the emotional turmoil of choosing to keep the baby despite feeling rejected. The conversation navigates the dynamics of control and manipulation, the importance of communication in co-parenting, and the personal growth that can emerge from such turbulent experiences. Together, they illuminate paths forward in the face of uncertainty and conflicting emotions.
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63 snips
Jan 27, 2025 • 1h 4min

Is This Worth a Second Chance?

Exploring the complexities of rekindled romances, the podcast dives into a couple's journey after an eight-year relationship. They grapple with whether to try again and how to break free from their old patterns. Themes of intimacy and emotional needs are examined, revealing the impact of childhood experiences on current dynamics. The importance of open communication and mutual commitment shines through as they navigate feelings of vulnerability and the fear of falling back into past mistakes.

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