
The Libido Fairy Podcast
Podcast by Hannah Johnson
Latest episodes

Feb 15, 2025 • 10min
#77: 5 Reasons You're Not Having Orgasms With Your Partner (Plus Tips)
If you’re struggling to orgasm with your partner, it’s not because something is wrong with you.
So many women can orgasm alone but not with a partner—or feel like their body just won’t cooperate, no matter how much they want to climax. And here’s the thing: it’s not just about technique. There are hidden reasons why orgasms feel out of reach, and today, I’m breaking down the five biggest ones—and how to fix them.
In this episode, we’ll cover:
✔️ The #1 mistake stopping women from orgasming (it’s not what you think)
✔️ How stress & your nervous system affect your ability to climax
✔️ The breathing mistake that blocks orgasms mid-build-up
✔️ Why more foreplay = better orgasms (and how to slow things down)
✔️ The essential tool most people skip (hint: it’s lube)
✔️ The power of communication & how to ask for what you need in bed
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Feb 11, 2025 • 6min
#76: The Real Reason You Don’t Want Sex (And How to Fix It)
Explore the biggest myth about libido that might be holding you back. Discover why desire often fades in long-term relationships and what truly drives your motivation for intimacy. Find out a transformative question that could shift your perspective on sexual desire. If sex has begun to feel like a chore, this discussion could provide the insights you need for a renewed spark.

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Feb 4, 2025 • 14min
#75: Permission To Take Up Space & Feel Pleasure In Sex
Discover the journey of embracing personal authenticity in sexual experiences. The discussion highlights the importance of prioritizing one's own pleasure over societal expectations. Gain insights into fostering deeper intimacy through self-exploration and open communication. Tips for building confidence and taking up space in sexual encounters are shared, aiming to empower listeners to fully enjoy their intimate lives.

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Jan 25, 2025 • 18min
#74: Stop Saying Yes When You Mean No: How to Honor Your Needs in the Bedroom
Tired of saying yes when you'd rather say no? Discover why many women conform out of fear and how this can damage intimacy. Explore practical strategies to foster genuine consent and authentic connections. Learn about tools like the willingness scale and pleasure mapping to enhance your sex life. Open up honest conversations that truly honor your needs and desires. It's time to reclaim your pleasure and prioritize your boundaries!

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Jan 14, 2025 • 20min
#72: The Secret to Better Sex: What You’re Missing Before and After
Discover the essential role of pre- and post-sexual care in deepening intimacy and satisfaction. Learn techniques to enhance emotional connections and better prepare for intimate moments. Explore how effective communication and nervous system regulation can transform your sexual experiences. Embrace the idea that intentional preparation and aftercare can help eliminate feelings of disconnection. Uncover the secrets to creating fulfilling sexual relationships that go beyond just physical pleasure.

Jan 9, 2025 • 18min
#71: Stop Performing & Create Authentic Pleasure and Connection in the Bedroom
In this episode, Hannah dives into one of the most common challenges in intimacy—faking pleasure and performing in bed. She breaks down why faking orgasms or pretending to enjoy things does more harm than good, for both you and your relationship. With practical steps and real talk, Hannah shares how to reconnect with your body, communicate honestly with your partner, and create a deeper sense of trust and intimacy. Learn how to stop enduring, start enjoying, and redefine what success in sex really means. If you’re ready to leave the pressure to perform behind and build a truly fulfilling sex life, this episode is for you!
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Jan 4, 2025 • 35min
#70: Ultimate Guide To Communication About Sex
Explore the vital role of communication in sexual relationships and how it fosters intimacy. Discover practical frameworks for discussing desires and boundaries. Learn about the importance of tone, body language, and setting in these conversations. Enhance your connection through active listening and emotional understanding. With actionable advice, strengthen your relationship and communicate your desires with confidence!

Dec 29, 2024 • 36min
#69: Life-Changing Lessons From 2024
In this special year-end episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah reflects on her personal and professional growth in 2024, sharing nine transformative lessons she’s learned. From navigating public mistakes and embracing imperfection to prioritizing self-care, building a supportive team, and fostering meaningful relationships, Hannah candidly shares how these lessons have shaped her life and business. She discusses the challenges of overcoming people-pleasing, dealing with criticism, letting go of toxic relationships, and learning how to trust others and herself.
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Nov 12, 2024 • 12min
#68: Cycle-Syncing Sex + Intimacy For Every Menstrual Phase
In this conversation, Hannah Deindorfer, a sex coach known as the libido fairy, discusses the importance of understanding the menstrual cycle and its impact on libido and intimacy. She emphasizes the concept of cycle syncing, which involves aligning intimacy with the different phases of the menstrual cycle to enhance emotional and physical wellbeing. Hannah provides practical tips for tracking the menstrual cycle and explores how each phase influences energy levels and sexual desire. She also addresses the effects of hormonal birth control on libido and offers insights on maintaining sexual health and pleasure.

Nov 5, 2024 • 8min
#67: Do We Even Need To Have Sex?
In this episode, Hannah talks about sexual motivators, how sex drive really works, and answers the question of whether you need to have sex to have a healthy relationship.