The Libido Fairy Podcast

Is sex your duty? A friend sent me this tweet yesterday about “duty sex” that is blowing up on X. I think within 2 days it had over 5 million views and the responses got dicey. We’re going to check out that original tweet, read some of the wildest replies, and I’m going to give my take as a sex coach that’s helped thousands of women deal with sex challenges like this.

In this episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah breaks down the challenges and strategies for initiating sex in a way that builds intimacy and connection. She begins by explaining the different types of desire—spontaneous and responsive—and how they affect the way partners approach sex. Hannah dives into the common struggles of initiating, such as fear of rejection and mismatched desire types, and offers practical tips on how to overcome these challenges.

In this episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah delivers 10 years of brutally honest sex advice that transforms your relationship with sex, your body, and your partner. Drawing from her experience coaching thousands of women, she dives into the most effective, no-nonsense tips that will help you reclaim your pleasure, stop faking orgasms, and boost your desire.

In this episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast* Hannah introduces a simple yet transformative bedroom tool that can enhance intimacy, boost confidence, and bring more playfulness into your sex life. Sharing personal stories and client experiences, she explains how this underrated addition can heighten your senses, reduce performance pressure, and build deeper trust with your partner. Hannah offers practical tips on how to introduce this tool into your relationship, create playful experiences, and explore new sensations, all while keeping things fun and low-pressure. If you're looking to deepen your connection and try something new without the intimidation of high-tech gadgets, this episode is for you!

In this episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah takes on the topic of faking orgasms—a common issue for many women. Drawing from personal experiences and stories from her students, she explores the reasons why women fake it, ranging from wanting to protect their partner’s feelings to feeling insecure about their own ability to orgasm. Hannah explains why faking orgasms is damaging to both personal pleasure and relationship intimacy. She shares actionable tips on how to own your pleasure, communicate openly with your partner, and prioritize connection over performance. By reclaiming your body and embracing real pleasure, you can stop the cycle of faking and start experiencing deeper sexual satisfaction. If you’ve ever felt the pressure to perform rather than enjoy sex, this episode will help you break free and build a more authentic and pleasurable sex life.

In this powerful episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah dives into the topic of sexual confidence and freedom. Inspired by a conversation with one of her students in The Intimacy Accelerator, who expressed jealousy of Hannah’s ease and playfulness around sex, Hannah shares what it truly takes to let go of guilt, shame, and years of awkwardness in the bedroom. She discusses how women can start feeling relaxed and free in their sexual expression by addressing deep-rooted conditioning, shifting their mindset to make sex fun and playful, reconnecting with their bodies, and communicating desires with confidence. This episode provides heartfelt guidance on how to cultivate a deeper sense of freedom and joy in your sex life. If you’ve ever struggled with feeling awkward or pressured during sex, this episode is for you!

In this episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah dives into one of the most challenging aspects of intimacy: giving honest feedback about sex without hurting your partner’s feelings or causing conflict. Drawing from her personal experiences and years of coaching, she shares practical tips on how to approach these conversations with compassion, openness, and curiosity. Hannah discusses why it’s crucial to address discomfort rather than avoiding it, how to frame feedback in a way that builds connection, and the common mistakes people make—like waiting too long or using critical language. She also provides actionable steps to create a deeper, more fulfilling sexual connection with your partner through regular, honest communication. If you’ve ever struggled with giving feedback in the bedroom, this episode is for you!

In this episode of the Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah Deindorfer busts common myths about sex in long-term relationships. She discusses how desire discrepancy (when one partner wants sex more than the other) is normal, the prevalence of responsive desire (needing emotional or physical stimulation to feel aroused), and the fact that many women don’t orgasm during sex—yet this doesn’t mean the sex is unsatisfying. She also addresses the importance of communicating needs, using lubrication, and embracing breaks during sex. Ultimately, Hannah emphasizes that many aspects of sexual experiences that people may find unusual or concerning are, in fact, completely normal.

In this episode, Hannah Deindorfer, the Libido Fairy, shares five actionable tips to enhance sexual satisfaction. She highlights the importance of supporting the nervous system, adding more time for foreplay, engaging in self-touch, stimulating nerve-rich areas like the clitoris and nipples during sex, and using lubrication to prevent discomfort.

In this episode, Hannah is interviewed by Marina on The Deep Within Podcast about her journey to overcoming sexual trauma, mental health issues, and gives practical tools for overcoming negative sexual experiences.