The Libido Fairy Podcast

#87: How to Figure Out What You Actually Want in Bed

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May 15, 2025
Explore the journey of self-discovery in the bedroom with practical tips for articulating desires. Learn to recognize your body's signals and the importance of consent. Communication takes center stage, empowering listeners to express their needs for a more fulfilling sexual experience. Say goodbye to guessing games and hello to pleasure!
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ANECDOTE

Hannah's Art Story Insight

  • Hannah shares a story about freezing when asked what to paint without guidance.
  • She used simple questions to find answers, a strategy she applied successfully to her sex life.
ADVICE

Tune Into Your Body's Signals

  • Identify how your body says yes or no to sensations to better know what you like sexually.
  • Listen for a continuum of feelings, from mild acceptance to strong enthusiasm or discomfort to strong aversion.
ADVICE

Ask Specific Questions, Explore Slowly

  • Ask specific 'either or' questions to tune into your body's preferences during intimacy.
  • Experiment slowly and without expectation, exploring both yes and no responses for more self-awareness.
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