The Libido Fairy Podcast #92: Counterintuitive Truths About Sex That Changed Everything For Me
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Jun 16, 2025 Discover counterintuitive truths about libido and desire that challenge conventional notions of attraction. Explore how performance pressure can hinder true intimacy and learn to embrace a mindset of curiosity for personal pleasure. The importance of individuality in sexual expression takes center stage, highlighting the impact of emotional connections over traditional satisfaction. Redefining sexual fulfillment reveals that context and communication are vital for enriching relationships, offering a fresh perspective on enhancing desires and intimacy.
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Say Yes Before Desire
- Don't wait to feel turned on before agreeing to sex; responsive desire means arousal often follows initiation.
- Stay open, start with cuddling or kissing to create conditions that lead to desire.
Curiosity Beats Performance
- Trying hard to be good at sex kills desire by making it a performance.
- Approaching sex with curiosity and a beginner's mindset encourages authentic, real connection.
Sex Was Never For You
- Many women stop wanting sex because it never was about their pleasure; they used it for validation or security.
- Relearning sex as an expressive, unique experience can restore desire and enjoyment.