Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing! Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself. Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Oct 3, 2025 • 25min
How to Make Them Call and Text You Every Day | Rewind
Ever wondered why someone goes silent after a few great dates? Discover how to regain control over communication by modeling the dynamic you desire. Learn how initiating contact can shift responses and foster reciprocity. Explore the difference between modeling and mirroring in dating, and find practical strategies for effective outreach. Balancing pride and proactivity is key, as is maintaining standards to eliminate feelings of desperation. Ultimately, be your best self and recognize when someone isn’t the right fit for you.
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Oct 1, 2025 • 1h 5min
Why Women Are Giving Up on Men in 2025
The discussion tackles the intriguing rise of women choosing singlehood and the cultural shifts that fuel this trend. The hosts explore the complexities of modern relationships, including how financial independence and evolving gender roles impact dating dynamics. They highlight men's struggles to adapt and feelings of invisibility in a changing landscape. Insights on the role of dating apps, emotional growth, and the importance of shared values in relationships add depth, while predictions about future dating trends keep the conversation lively.
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Sep 29, 2025 • 17min
The Psychology of Why We Chase People Who Are WRONG for Us | Matt Monday
Explore why finding true understanding in relationships outshines mere compatibility checklists. Discover the cycle of chasing both exciting yet toxic partners and safe but dull ones. Learn how childhood experiences shape adult attraction and the unconscious patterns that keep us stuck. Gain insights on setting non-negotiable standards for future partners and the importance of making deliberate changes to foster healthier love. Lastly, understand how small shifts in response can lead to breaking destructive cycles and creating new, positive relationship dynamics.
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Sep 26, 2025 • 14min
6 Ways to Heal Your Broken Heart | Rewind
Discover six transformative ways to mend a broken heart. Learn how retelling your breakup story can help reframe your emotions. Understand the importance of seeking support from loved ones instead of hiding your pain. Matthew shares strategies for finding newfound peace and eliminating triggers that prolong heartache. He emphasizes reclaiming memories tied to your ex and encourages you to embrace experiences you missed during the relationship. Finally, gain perspective on how your pain will evolve over time.
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Sep 24, 2025 • 1h 2min
The “Ex Effect”: Why Your Brain Can’t Let Them Go
Feeling stuck on an ex? Discover how to reframe the notion of never being happy again as just an anxious thought. The discussion explores nostalgia traps and the tendency to glorify past relationships. Learn how to reclaim your agency and create new joys from old places. There’s also practical advice on dating while separating from a long marriage and recognizing the complexities of new relationships. Plus, enjoy a fun rapid-fire game evaluating post-breakup behaviors that can either help or hurt your healing journey.
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Sep 22, 2025 • 15min
The Subtle Signs They’ll Commit Forever | Matt Monday
Navigating modern dating can feel overwhelming, especially with curated images blurring reality. Idealizing partners based on their social media presence distracts from recognizing true commitment signals. Understanding shared values and long-term goals is crucial in assessing potential partners. Matthew shares key indicators that suggest someone is truly capable of committing for the long haul. Break free from illusions and focus on what truly matters in love!
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Sep 19, 2025 • 11min
Want To Keep Their Attention? DO NOT CHASE; Do THIS Instead | Rewind
Discover why initial sparks don’t always ignite lasting connections. Learn how balancing sincerity and playfulness can create irresistible attraction. The key? Embrace unique pairings that leave them thinking about you after the date. Practical tips help you assess your social strengths and diversify your approach. Ready to elevate your dating game and keep their attention? Tune in for strategies that transform dating dynamics!
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Sep 17, 2025 • 1h 7min
They’ve Stopped Trying? Don’t Chase Do THIS Instead!
Explore the exhausting cycle of overgiving in relationships. Discover how the need for perfection can sabotage true connection and attraction. Learn why it’s crucial to create space for mutual investment in love. The hosts provide practical strategies to break free from people-pleasing and reclaim your confidence. A listener Q&A addresses heartbreak and patterns, adding depth to the discussion about trusting yourself. Don't miss insights on how being authentic is the key to healthier relationships!
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Sep 15, 2025 • 13min
The Subtle Signs a Narcissistic Partner Is Destroying Your Life | Matt Monday
Discover the shocking betrayal of a young girl bullied by someone she trusted. Dive into the harrowing effects of narcissistic behavior and the concept of betrayal blindness. Explore the complexities of accountability in toxic relationships, including a mother's denial of harm. Learn to identify narcissistic partners and the emotional scars they leave behind. Uncover ways to navigate the turmoil of betrayal and regain your confidence. This conversation offers invaluable insights into healing from deep emotional pain.
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Sep 12, 2025 • 13min
The UNEXPECTED Way to Make Someone Want MORE With You | Rewind
Explore the emotional toll of the 'cool girl' facade in relationships. The discussion reveals how pretending to be uninterested can actually hinder genuine connections. Delve into the dangers of people-pleasing and how it often leads to feeling undervalued. Listeners are encouraged to bravely state their needs, fostering deeper attraction and mutual investment. This refreshing take on relationships emphasizes the importance of authenticity and claiming one’s value in romantic pursuits.
