
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing!
Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself.
Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix.
In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
Latest episodes

19 snips
Mar 28, 2025 • 19min
(Rewind): How to Make Them CHASE YOU Without “Playing It Cool”
Navigating the tricky waters of early dating can feel like a game of tug-of-war. Discover five insightful tips on how to show just the right amount of interest without losing your cool. The conversation highlights the importance of vulnerability and personal standards while fostering genuine attraction. Learn how to engage authentically and create a connection that encourages mutual interest, all while maintaining your own power. It's all about understanding attraction dynamics and being true to yourself!

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Mar 26, 2025 • 1h 17min
289: How To Overcome Your Biggest Dating Insecurities
In this discussion, Lewis Howes, author and host of The School of Greatness, shares his insights on overcoming dating insecurities. He explores how to handle emotional overwhelm and emphasizes the importance of emotional regulation and taking imperfect action. The conversation dives into reframing limiting beliefs about age, experience, and self-worth that often hinder dating success. Listeners gain practical advice on building confidence, facing rejection, and embracing vulnerabilities as strengths in their romantic journeys.

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Mar 24, 2025 • 15min
(Matt Monday): Stop Chasing Your ‘Type’ & Start ATTRACTING Your PERSON
Exploring the quest for love, this discussion challenges the idea of dating your 'type'. It reveals how superficial attractions often drown out true compatibility. The emotional pain of rejection is examined, encouraging resilience and personal growth. Listeners learn not to obsess over ideal partners but to embrace imperfections in themselves and others. Insights on fostering deeper connections and self-worth highlight the unexpected nature of love, promoting a refreshing perspective on romantic relationships.

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Mar 21, 2025 • 12min
(Rewind): The UNEXPECTED Way to Make Them Want MORE With You
The episode uncovers the pitfalls of 'playing it cool' in dating, revealing how insecurity influences our interactions. It emphasizes the importance of genuine emotional investment over indifference to deepen relationships. A compelling personal story illustrates that engagement is more attractive than detachment. Listeners are encouraged to communicate their needs and emotions openly, embracing vulnerability as a strength. Tips on fostering stronger connections are also shared, offering fresh insights into modern love dynamics.

Mar 19, 2025 • 1h 12min
288: Should You Date Your 'Type'? (The Truth No One Tells You)
Is dating your 'type' sabotaging your chances at real love? The hosts dive into how rigid types can obscure better matches and the nuances of what truly defines compatibility. Discover why societal pressures can lead to commitment phobia and a preference for fleeting flings over meaningful relationships. They unpack the 'hobby dilemma', discussing the pressure to showcase impressive skills, while reminding us that authenticity trumps curated images. Get ready for a refreshing take on vulnerability and emotional connection!

Mar 17, 2025 • 12min
(Matt Monday): The 5 Biggest Red Flags in Anora
Ever had that sinking feeling that something in your relationship isn’t quite right—but you push it aside because everything seems too good to be true? We’ve all been there. And no film captures this better than Anora, this year’s Best Picture winner at the Academy Awards. If you’ve ever rushed into commitment, been swept away by grand gestures, or felt like you’re in a one-sided relationship, then you need to watch today’s episode. I break down the 5 biggest red flags that signal your relationship could be headed for disaster—and how to spot them before it’s too late. --- ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at → http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com

Mar 14, 2025 • 15min
(Rewind): If You Want More From Someone Who’s Not Ready DO NOT CHASE Do THIS Instead
Have you ever dated someone who’s so hard to stay away from EVEN THOUGH they’re not interested in a relationship and you know you should keep your distance? It’s like a drug . . . or the worst kind of junk food . . . even after you swear it off for good, your resolve crumbles the moment they reach out. When you’re in this vulnerable position, the hope that they may change and that things could be different is what drags you back in. And before you know it, you go right back to feeling powerless—holding on to someone who’s not giving you what you need. So how can you break this cycle once and for all? Don’t miss today’s brand-new video! --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

24 snips
Mar 12, 2025 • 1h 11min
287: Green Flags vs. Red Flags: How to Tell If They’re Relationship Material
Dive into a refreshing take on relationships by exploring green flags that signify real compatibility. Discover the essential traits predicting long-term success and learn how celebrating each other's wins can strengthen connections. The discussion highlights the importance of curiosity about your partner, while tackling the magnetic pull of red flag energy. With a lighthearted game of green flag dilemmas, the hosts provide practical insights wrapped in humor, making it a fun and enlightening experience on navigating modern love.

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Mar 10, 2025 • 24min
(Matt Monday): 4 Crucial Steps to Know If Someone Is Right for You
Explore the intriguing balance between chemistry and compatibility in modern dating. Discover how technology reshapes relationships, often complicating genuine connections. Learn why strong attraction doesn't always mean a healthy bond and how vital it is to assess a partner's key qualities. Delve into the importance of emotional availability and articulate desires in building rewarding partnerships. Reflect on your past relationships to redefine what truly matters for lasting love.

Mar 7, 2025 • 13min
(Rewind): Want More From Someone? DO NOT Chase; Do THIS Instead!
In today’s Rewind episode, I share very specific principles that will be useful the next time you feel like you’re getting carried away with someone you like. And remember, no one (including yourself!) should make you feel like you’re “not enough.” No matter who you’re dating, by investing in yourself, you can come into any situation feeling like an equal. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com