Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing! Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself. Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Jul 7, 2025 • 21min
(Matt Monday): They Ghosted You? Here’s the Only Response That Wins
Ghosting can feel devastating, but it often reveals more about the ghoster than the ghosted. Discover why people ghost in modern dating and learn to stop fixating on those who flake. The conversation delves into the emotional toll of ghosting and how digital communication has changed expectations in relationships. Embrace the complexities of authentic connections, inspired by the contrasting lives of Hamilton and Burr, while building your self-esteem through a confidence challenge.
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Jul 4, 2025 • 10min
(Rewind): You’ll Push Them Away if You Try Too Hard. Do This Instead
A listener shares her experience of dating her 'dream guy,' only to feel his pull away after a brief separation. Experts discuss how to navigate emotional connections during these tricky moments and regain attention without appearing desperate. The conversation shifts to the importance of being authentic in relationships, emphasizing that confidence and personal interests are more attractive than trying too hard to impress. It's all about balancing attraction with individuality to foster genuine connections.
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Jul 2, 2025 • 1h 15min
303: How To Know If They Have Relationship Potential In Early Dating (Feat. Dr. Morgan Cutlip)
In this engaging discussion, Dr. Morgan Cutlip, a relationship expert and author of "A Better Share," shares her insights on navigating modern relationships. She highlights the complexities of parenting and effective communication with partners. Topics include the hidden "mental load" in relationships, setting boundaries without guilt, and recognizing what makes someone relationship-ready. Cutlip emphasizes the importance of addressing needs openly to prevent resentment and cultivate deeper emotional connections, while offering practical tools for personal growth.
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Jun 30, 2025 • 10min
(Matt Monday): It Took Me 38 Years to Realize What I’ll Tell You in 10 Minutes...
Discover the hard-earned truths about building lasting love. It’s not about finding the perfect partner, but about investing in the relationship you choose. Explore the difference between 'settling for' and 'settling on' someone, which is crucial for fostering genuine connections. Learn how modern dating myths can paralyze your choices and shift your mindset to embrace a more proactive approach to love. Get ready to redefine what certainty in relationships truly means!
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Jun 27, 2025 • 14min
(Rewind): "Bad Texter" or Just Not That Into You?
Texting can be thrilling in dating, but what happens when the messages start to dwindle? This discussion dives into the confusion that arises from inconsistent texting and how it impacts emotional closeness. It explores the common mistake of overanalyzing a partner's phone habits, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing genuine connection over communication frequency. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their experiences and understand the nuances of early dating dynamics.
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Jun 25, 2025 • 1h 3min
302: “I’m nearly 40 and feel rushed to find love…help!”
Feeling rushed to find love as you near 40? Dive into the common anxiety about dating and societal pressures that can make you feel behind. Discover how to manage urgency without panic and the pitfalls of distraction relationships. Learn to embrace the unpredictability of life, communicate your relationship goals clearly, and set healthy boundaries against external expectations. Let go of comparisons and find joy in your dating journey with a newfound focus on intentional connections.
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Jun 23, 2025 • 21min
(Matt Monday): The Brutal TRUTH About Relationships You Need to Hear
Delve into the complexities of modern dating and the paralysis of choice. Discover how the pursuit of the 'perfect partner' can block meaningful connections. Learn the importance of commitment and shared values in relationships. Understand the need to set personal standards and the role of vulnerability. Reflect on how past heartbreaks can shape your expectations in love. This conversation empowers you to build a love life that truly works for you, breaking free from endless comparisons.
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Jun 20, 2025 • 13min
(Rewind): #1 Mindset to Conquer Rejection
Rejection can sting, but there's a deeper emotional pain that might surprise you. Embracing vulnerability is key to overcoming the fear of rejection and living a vibrant life. Time is precious, and letting fear hold you back from experiences can lead to regret. The hosts urge listeners to take small risks daily, reminding them that embracing life fully is essential. Discover how shifting your mindset can help you put yourself out there confidently and start building meaningful connections.
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Jun 18, 2025 • 57min
301: Essential Insights for Understanding an Avoidant
This discussion dives into the nuances of avoidant attachment in relationships. Listeners learn to identify the five key traits of avoidant partners and explore the magnetic pull between avoidants and anxious individuals. The impact of childhood experiences on attachment styles is also examined. Strategies for communicating with an avoidant partner while respecting their space are shared, highlighting the importance of self-awareness and empathy in fostering healthy relationship dynamics.
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Jun 16, 2025 • 15min
(Matt Monday): “4 Things They Notice (and Fall for) in the First 30 Days”
Delve into what truly makes someone irresistible in the early dating stages. Discover four powerful strategies to enhance your attractiveness and create intrigue. Explore the delicate balance between emotions and logic in romance, complemented by personal anecdotes. Learn the importance of setting boundaries and non-verbal communication to attract the right partners. Enjoy playful insights to navigate dating while fostering genuine connections. Transform your relationship with life and gain valuable dating advice that'll change the game!
