

Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing!
Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself.
Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix.
In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself.
Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix.
In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
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Apr 14, 2025 • 18min
(Matt Monday): 7 Essential Mindsets for Surviving Modern Dating
Feeling burnt out from dating? Discover how to shift your perspective and transform the dating game into an enjoyable experience. Explore seven essential mindsets that encourage an enjoyable connection rather than pressure. Dive into the importance of viewing rejection as a step toward compatibility instead of personal failure. It's time to embrace modern dating with optimism and a refreshing approach that can lead to meaningful relationships!

Apr 11, 2025 • 9min
(Rewind): If Your Ex Moved On Too Fast, WATCH THIS!
Breakups hurt, especially when an ex moves on quickly. Painful questions about self-worth can plague you, but there's a way to shift your thinking. Embrace the opportunity to let go of someone who didn't see your value. Personal struggles can lead to resilience and growth, making room for the right person in your future. A heartfelt call from a listener reveals how both men and women process heartbreak similarly. This conversation encourages self-reflection and healing, reminding us that better connections are possible ahead.

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Apr 9, 2025 • 1h
291: How to Flirt When You’re Not Confident
Dive into the world of flirting, where insecurities and fears collide with the desire for connection. Discover why many lose their spark when they like someone too much and explore the four common flirting fears. Learn to differentiate between platonic, desire, and love languages, plus simple steps to flirt without awkwardness. Tension and slowing down become your secret weapons! Enjoy playful banter in a fun segment where human insight meets AI responses, all while fostering community growth and confidence in romance.

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Apr 7, 2025 • 25min
(Matt Monday): The Psychology of Modern Men and The Relationship Recession
Finding love is tougher than ever, with cultural shifts creating a 'relationship recession.' Men face loneliness and disillusionment, while women grapple with high expectations influenced by social media. The contrast between curated online images and real-life struggles complicates authentic connections. The need for companionship is pressing, challenging misconceptions about relationship preferences. Ultimately, the pursuit of genuine connections revolves around charisma, humor, and understanding individual worth.

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Apr 4, 2025 • 14min
(Rewind): They’ve Pulled Away? AVOID THIS MISTAKE
Have you ever felt someone you love slipping away? It's a confusing mix of panic and overthinking every text. Discover the three common mistakes that can arise during these stressful moments. Learn how to recognize your value in relationships and navigate emotional withdrawals effectively. This insightful discussion provides strategies to salvage your connection or find someone more aligned with you. Say goodbye to insecurity and hello to healthier dynamics!

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Apr 2, 2025 • 1h 1min
290: The 3 Boxes Men Put Women In (And How to Get Out of Them)
Discover the intriguing 'box theory' that categorizes men’s perceptions of women in dating. The hosts discuss how first impressions can pigeonhole individuals and whether it’s possible to escape these labels. Delve into the differences between emotional connection and chemistry, and learn how to communicate your relationship intentions boldly. Strategies for shifting from casual flings to committed partnerships are also explored, along with the significance of personal boundaries in dating dynamics. Join the conversation filled with humor and insightful advice!

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Apr 1, 2025 • 2h 7min
(Matt Monday): What Makes Men Ready for Commitment | Ft. Lewis Howes
In a heartfelt discussion, bestselling author and entrepreneur Lewis Howes shares insights on commitment and vulnerability in relationships, drawing from his experiences as a newlywed. He breaks down the emotional complexities of commitment and the importance of open communication. Lewis also dives into the hidden impact of financial insecurities on dating, urging listeners to heal their money mindset. This candid conversation emphasizes the necessity of emotional safety and offers practical advice for navigating life’s storms while building strong, supportive connections.

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Mar 28, 2025 • 19min
(Rewind): How to Make Them CHASE YOU Without “Playing It Cool”
Navigating the tricky waters of early dating can feel like a game of tug-of-war. Discover five insightful tips on how to show just the right amount of interest without losing your cool. The conversation highlights the importance of vulnerability and personal standards while fostering genuine attraction. Learn how to engage authentically and create a connection that encourages mutual interest, all while maintaining your own power. It's all about understanding attraction dynamics and being true to yourself!

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Mar 26, 2025 • 1h 17min
289: How To Overcome Your Biggest Dating Insecurities
In this discussion, Lewis Howes, author and host of The School of Greatness, shares his insights on overcoming dating insecurities. He explores how to handle emotional overwhelm and emphasizes the importance of emotional regulation and taking imperfect action. The conversation dives into reframing limiting beliefs about age, experience, and self-worth that often hinder dating success. Listeners gain practical advice on building confidence, facing rejection, and embracing vulnerabilities as strengths in their romantic journeys.

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Mar 24, 2025 • 15min
(Matt Monday): Stop Chasing Your ‘Type’ & Start ATTRACTING Your PERSON
Exploring the quest for love, this discussion challenges the idea of dating your 'type'. It reveals how superficial attractions often drown out true compatibility. The emotional pain of rejection is examined, encouraging resilience and personal growth. Listeners learn not to obsess over ideal partners but to embrace imperfections in themselves and others. Insights on fostering deeper connections and self-worth highlight the unexpected nature of love, promoting a refreshing perspective on romantic relationships.