Love Life With Matthew Hussey (Matt Monday): It Took Me 38 Years to Realize What I’ll Tell You in 10 Minutes...
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Jun 30, 2025 Discover the hard-earned truths about building lasting love. It’s not about finding the perfect partner, but about investing in the relationship you choose. Explore the difference between 'settling for' and 'settling on' someone, which is crucial for fostering genuine connections. Learn how modern dating myths can paralyze your choices and shift your mindset to embrace a more proactive approach to love. Get ready to redefine what certainty in relationships truly means!
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Great Relationships Are Built
- Great relationships are not simply found; they are intentionally built over time.
- The belief that you instantly "just know" the right person creates unrealistic expectations and leads to doubt.
Distrust Undermines Love Decisions
- We often lack trust in our own decisions about love, fearing we'll choose wrongly.
- This causes us to seek impossible external certainty instead of building trust from within.
Early Love Certainty Can Fade
- In his 20s, Mathew Hussey experienced early feelings of certainty that later faded as relationship challenges arose.
- Instead of building the relationship, he judged it by doubts and looked for an escape rather than commitment.