Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing!
Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself.
Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix.
In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself.
Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix.
In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
Episodes
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Aug 8, 2025 • 18min
(Rewind): This Romantic Gesture Is Actually a Major RED FLAG
Explore the pitfalls of romantic gestures that lack genuine emotional connection. Discover how misaligned expectations can lead to confusion and heartache. Uncover the importance of clear communication and understanding your core values in relationships. Learn to identify your personal relationship goals to navigate love with intention and avoid superficiality. This insightful discussion equips you with tools to spot red flags and fosters healthier romantic connections.
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Aug 6, 2025 • 57min
308: How to Know When to Walk Away
In modern dating, recognizing when to walk away can be tough. Differing lifestyles and values may not always signal doom, but they require tough conversations. Effective conflict resolution and self-awareness are highlighted as keys to growth. The discussion also emphasizes the importance of open communication on future goals, especially regarding parenting. Overall, it's about balancing empathy and recognizing unhealthy patterns while seeking genuine connections in a superficial dating landscape.
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Aug 4, 2025 • 23min
(Matt Monday): They Were Perfect… So Why Did It Still End?
Learn how to succeed in love by viewing conflicts as common challenges rather than opposing forces. Discover the power of teamwork and empathy to bridge gaps, while navigating pride and emotional vulnerability. Explore the importance of intentional commitment in relationships, and how to balance personal growth with partnership. Achieve closure through honest reflections to enhance emotional health. Plus, get introduced to a new AI tool offering personalized relationship support.
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Aug 1, 2025 • 10min
(Rewind): 5 Secrets to Finding Love Even If You Hate Dating
Dating fatigue can be exhausting, but there are ways to restore your energy while searching for love. Explore five essential strategies to manage your personal energy on this journey. Learn how to ease into relationships without overwhelming expectations. Discover the importance of strong communication over insecurity. Find out how to match your effort to the relationship's stage, ensuring a more fulfilling and enjoyable experience. Say goodbye to burnout and hello to a healthier approach to finding love!
Jul 30, 2025 • 1h 16min
307: Why Intimacy Feels SO Good With the WRONG People – Shan Boodram
Shan Boodram, a certified sex educator and relationship expert, dives deep into the dynamics of intimacy and relationships. She discusses why intimacy can sometimes lead to feelings of being ghosted or friend-zoned. Listeners learn how to navigate mismatched libidos and the importance of clearly communicating boundaries. Shan explores the tempting allure of toxic relationships and offers practical tips to reignite passion in long-term partnerships. Her insights aim to foster healthier romantic connections and enhance emotional security.
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Jul 28, 2025 • 19min
(Matt Monday): How to Break the Cycle & STOP Chasing the WRONG Person
The conversation dives into why we get stuck in cycles of chasing unavailable partners and mistaking chaos for passion. It highlights the familiar patterns in toxic attraction, likening them to learned behaviors for survival. Personal anecdotes emphasize how past anxieties can affect current relationships. The hosts also discuss methods to break these destructive patterns, encouraging mindfulness and intention in seeking healthier connections. Plus, there's a handy tool mentioned to help organize life and foster better relationships.
Jul 25, 2025 • 7min
(Rewind): How to Make Them See You as More Than Just a Hookup
Navigating the post-hookup haze can be tricky, but there are strategies to keep the spark alive. Discover essential tips for maintaining confidence after intimacy. Learn how thoughtful follow-ups can transform that awkward morning into an opportunity for deeper emotional connections. Gain insights on how to ensure genuine interest, moving beyond mere physical attraction.
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Jul 23, 2025 • 1h 21min
306: Think It’s Love? 5 Signs It’s Obsession (And It’ll Never Last)
What makes the line between love and obsession so thin? Dive into the intriguing phenomenon of limerence, where one-sided affections can trap us in a whirlwind of unrequited hope. Explore how obsession can cloud our judgment, blurring reality with idealization of former partners. Discover crucial differences between a crush and emotional fixation, and learn strategies to break free from unhealthy patterns. Plus, analyze how films like 'Titanic' shape our perceptions of love. It's a complex journey through the heart's most perplexing emotions!
Jul 21, 2025 • 13min
(Matt Monday): The Real Reason You Haven’t Found Love (Yet)
Why do we often chase the wrong people and sabotage potential love? This conversation explores how past wounds influence our choices, making unavailable partners seem appealing. The discussion highlights the need to retrain our instincts for healthier connections and emphasizes self-compassion over criticism. Emotional challenges in relationships are examined, alongside an invitation to a weekend retreat aimed at personal growth and overcoming feelings of worthlessness. Dive into the dynamics of unhealthy attraction and discover paths to more fulfilling love!
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Jul 18, 2025 • 6min
(Rewind): How to Keep Them Thinking About You Early On
Navigating early dates can be tricky. Discover key strategies for creating lasting first impressions that enhance attraction and connection. Explore how meaningful interactions and good communication lay a strong foundation for relationships. Learn about initiating contact and maintaining interest as feelings deepen. Finally, boost your confidence with a unique 30-day challenge designed to help you shine in the dating world. Perfect for anyone wanting to make a lasting impact!
