
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Relationships are for heroes.
Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself.
In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
Latest episodes

Apr 25, 2025 • 13min
(Rewind): If You Hear THIS, You're About to Get Your Heart Broken
Discover how to identify if someone is truly over their ex, and whether they’re ready for a new relationship. Dive into the art of emotional healing and the importance of personal growth when navigating new connections. Learn to recognize true emotional availability versus mere attraction, preventing past mistakes from repeating. Finally, understand why self-respect should always come first, especially when dealing with unrequited love. Prioritize your well-being in the complex world of dating!

Apr 23, 2025 • 1h 6min
293: You Know They’re Wrong for You… So Why Can’t You Let Them Go?
Are you stuck in a cycle of tolerating disrespect or avoiding tough conversations? In this episode of Love Life, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen dive into why so many of us stay in challenging relationships—whether romantic, familial, or platonic—for far too long, and how to reclaim your power by setting boundaries and addressing the issues. You’ll learn how to stop obsessing over someone else’s actions and start focusing on why you’re allowing it, plus practical tools for having those difficult conversations you’ve been avoiding. 🎯 Topics include: Why we ignore our needs in the early stages of relationships. How to have tough conversations about what matters to you. The power of teaching others how to treat you—and when to walk away. Why people-pleasing tendencies can leave you feeling invisible in your own relationships. How to break free from unhealthy dynamics and create space for mutual respect. If you’ve ever struggled to stand up for yourself or felt stuck in a one-sided dynamic, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence to take action. — 👉 Try Matthew AI for just $7 (only until April 25th): AskMH.com

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Apr 21, 2025 • 22min
(Matt Monday): 5 Ways to Flirt When You’re Afraid They Won’t Reciprocate
How do you flirt without looking desperate? When you meet someone you’re into, it can feel like walking a tightrope—you want to show interest, but not come off as too eager. In this week’s episode, I share five subtle-yet-powerful flirting techniques that create attraction . . . without the fear of looking desperate or risking rejection. (Plus, I reveal a playful way my wife flirted with me early on that left a lasting impression—and it’s something you can easily try yourself.) --- ►► Want Your # 1 Dating Problem Solved Personally? Ask Matthew AI Your First Question Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at → http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com

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Apr 18, 2025 • 11min
(Rewind): Want To Keep Their Attention? DO NOT CHASE; Do THIS Instead
Discover how to turn a lackluster date into a captivating experience by shifting your communication strategy. Learn about leveraging your unique qualities while navigating the complexities of attraction. Explore the intriguing concept of 'unique pairings' that can spark deeper connections. Rather than chasing after someone, embrace contrasting behaviors to create engaging dynamics. This approach ensures you leave a lasting impression that keeps them thinking about you long after you've parted.

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Apr 17, 2025 • 28min
292: The Red Flags You SHOULD Be Paying Attention To
Discover how to differentiate between real red flags and amber lights in dating. Learn about the impact of past experiences on your reactions and the importance of being present rather than overly critical. Explore the balance of empathy and boundaries in relationships. Understand how authentic connections can foster healing and growth, while recognizing that partners support each other but aren’t responsible for healing each other's wounds. This conversation is packed with insights for anyone looking to navigate love with emotional intelligence.

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Apr 14, 2025 • 18min
(Matt Monday): 7 Essential Mindsets for Surviving Modern Dating
Feeling burnt out from dating? Discover how to shift your perspective and transform the dating game into an enjoyable experience. Explore seven essential mindsets that encourage an enjoyable connection rather than pressure. Dive into the importance of viewing rejection as a step toward compatibility instead of personal failure. It's time to embrace modern dating with optimism and a refreshing approach that can lead to meaningful relationships!

Apr 11, 2025 • 9min
(Rewind): If Your Ex Moved On Too Fast, WATCH THIS!
Breakups hurt, especially when an ex moves on quickly. Painful questions about self-worth can plague you, but there's a way to shift your thinking. Embrace the opportunity to let go of someone who didn't see your value. Personal struggles can lead to resilience and growth, making room for the right person in your future. A heartfelt call from a listener reveals how both men and women process heartbreak similarly. This conversation encourages self-reflection and healing, reminding us that better connections are possible ahead.

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Apr 9, 2025 • 1h
291: How to Flirt When You’re Not Confident
Dive into the world of flirting, where insecurities and fears collide with the desire for connection. Discover why many lose their spark when they like someone too much and explore the four common flirting fears. Learn to differentiate between platonic, desire, and love languages, plus simple steps to flirt without awkwardness. Tension and slowing down become your secret weapons! Enjoy playful banter in a fun segment where human insight meets AI responses, all while fostering community growth and confidence in romance.

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Apr 7, 2025 • 25min
(Matt Monday): The Psychology of Modern Men and The Relationship Recession
Finding love is tougher than ever, with cultural shifts creating a 'relationship recession.' Men face loneliness and disillusionment, while women grapple with high expectations influenced by social media. The contrast between curated online images and real-life struggles complicates authentic connections. The need for companionship is pressing, challenging misconceptions about relationship preferences. Ultimately, the pursuit of genuine connections revolves around charisma, humor, and understanding individual worth.

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Apr 4, 2025 • 14min
(Rewind): They’ve Pulled Away? AVOID THIS MISTAKE
Have you ever felt someone you love slipping away? It's a confusing mix of panic and overthinking every text. Discover the three common mistakes that can arise during these stressful moments. Learn how to recognize your value in relationships and navigate emotional withdrawals effectively. This insightful discussion provides strategies to salvage your connection or find someone more aligned with you. Say goodbye to insecurity and hello to healthier dynamics!
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