Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing! Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself.Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Episodes
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Sep 17, 2025 • 1h 7min
314: They’ve Stopped Trying? Don’t Chase Do THIS Instead!
Explore the exhausting cycle of overgiving in relationships. Discover how the need for perfection can sabotage true connection and attraction. Learn why it’s crucial to create space for mutual investment in love. The hosts provide practical strategies to break free from people-pleasing and reclaim your confidence. A listener Q&A addresses heartbreak and patterns, adding depth to the discussion about trusting yourself. Don't miss insights on how being authentic is the key to healthier relationships!
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Sep 15, 2025 • 13min
(Matt Monday): The Subtle Signs a Narcissistic Partner Is Destroying Your Life
Discover the shocking betrayal of a young girl bullied by someone she trusted. Dive into the harrowing effects of narcissistic behavior and the concept of betrayal blindness. Explore the complexities of accountability in toxic relationships, including a mother's denial of harm. Learn to identify narcissistic partners and the emotional scars they leave behind. Uncover ways to navigate the turmoil of betrayal and regain your confidence. This conversation offers invaluable insights into healing from deep emotional pain.
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Sep 12, 2025 • 13min
(Rewind): The UNEXPECTED Way to Make Someone Want MORE With You
Explore the emotional toll of the 'cool girl' facade in relationships. The discussion reveals how pretending to be uninterested can actually hinder genuine connections. Delve into the dangers of people-pleasing and how it often leads to feeling undervalued. Listeners are encouraged to bravely state their needs, fostering deeper attraction and mutual investment. This refreshing take on relationships emphasizes the importance of authenticity and claiming one’s value in romantic pursuits.
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Sep 10, 2025 • 1h 5min
313: “Nearly 50% of Women will Be Single by 2035”
Feeling like love is elusive? The hosts tackle why modern dating feels impossible, highlighting societal pressures and tech's role in romance. They dish out practical tips for overcoming isolation and expanding your social circle, especially for introverts. The conversation evolves into embracing your unique journey amidst comparisons, and the joy of solitude versus loneliness. With playful banter and personal stories, this episode offers actionable advice to reclaim your dating confidence and foster deeper connections.
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Sep 8, 2025 • 20min
(Matt Monday): The Simple Mindset Shift That Will Save You YEARS in Dating
Feeling frustrated in dating? Discover how to refocus your energy on those who genuinely want to connect. Learn about essential mindset shifts that can transform your love life. Explore the power of storytelling and authenticity in forging deeper connections. Plus, hear personal anecdotes about preparing for parenthood and an exciting upcoming training designed to revitalize your dating experience. Get ready to reclaim your confidence and embrace playfulness in love!
37 snips
Sep 5, 2025 • 18min
(Rewind): How to Stop Obsessing Over Someone You Want
Have you ever imagined an entire relationship before a first date? It’s easy to fall into the trap of obsession, fixating on someone who hasn't truly earned a place in your heart. The discussion highlights the dangers of this mindset, illustrating how it can derail genuine connections. Engaging in real-life interactions is encouraged over getting lost in romantic fantasies. Learn to differentiate between potential and obsession to truly enjoy the dating experience!
12 snips
Sep 3, 2025 • 1h 9min
312: The #1 Reason They Keep Losing Interest in You After 3 Months
Why do relationships often fizzle out at the three-month mark? The hosts dissect the 'three-month curse,' exploring emotional challenges, communication mishaps, and hidden needs that create rifts. They share personal anecdotes and offer strategies to navigate this tricky phase effectively. The conversation shifts to the dating landscape across ages, emphasizing self-belief and the importance of compatibility over rejection. Finally, Disney characters are used humorously to illustrate common relationship dynamics, making for an entertaining blend of insights and laughs.
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Sep 1, 2025 • 29min
(Matt Monday): The #1 Reason You Feel Powerless in Dating (and How to Fix It)
Discover how your past can unknowingly shape your dating life and uncover the transformative ideas from 'The Courage to Be Disliked.' Learn the difference between trust and confidence in relationships, and how to foster a proactive love life by embracing the journey rather than fixating on the destination. This exploration encourages listeners to live in the moment, see dating as a joyful dance, and identify hidden goals that may hold them back. Get ready to redefine your approach to love and connection!
5 snips
Aug 29, 2025 • 4min
(Rewind): The #1 Way to Respond to Flirty or Sexual Texts
Navigating flirty texts can be tricky. Learn the art of establishing boundaries without losing your playful edge. Discover one simple yet effective response to slow things down while keeping the conversation light. Mastering this skill will empower you to handle any situation confidently and charmingly.
29 snips
Aug 27, 2025 • 58min
311: This Psychology Model Will Transform Your Love Life
What if your past isn’t the reason you're stuck in love and life? This discussion dives into Adlerian psychology, suggesting that personal goals hold more power than past traumas. Explore how attachment theory impacts relationships, and discover the balance between acknowledging trauma and setting new aspirations. The conversation touches on breaking free from old patterns and facing emotional vulnerabilities, encouraging brave steps toward positive change. Get ready to rethink your approach to growth and connection!
