

Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing!
Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself.
Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix.
In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself.
Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix.
In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
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Aug 27, 2025 • 58min
311: This Psychology Model Will Transform Your Love Life
What if your past isn’t the reason you're stuck in love and life? This discussion dives into Adlerian psychology, suggesting that personal goals hold more power than past traumas. Explore how attachment theory impacts relationships, and discover the balance between acknowledging trauma and setting new aspirations. The conversation touches on breaking free from old patterns and facing emotional vulnerabilities, encouraging brave steps toward positive change. Get ready to rethink your approach to growth and connection!

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Aug 25, 2025 • 23min
(Matt Monday): How to Know When to Leave a Relationship
What do you do when love just isn’t enough? A deep dive reveals that even in loving relationships, compatibility is crucial for happiness. Key questions help determine whether to stay or walk away. Superficial gestures can mask deeper needs, while authentic connections necessitate vulnerability. Exploring personal fulfillment over societal norms is essential as listeners reflect on their own relationship dynamics.

Aug 22, 2025 • 6min
(Rewind): 3 Flirting Tips That Actually Work
Flirting means different things to different people, from sultry glances to subtle interactions. The discussion simplifies the art of flirting with three essential tips that empower women to capture a guy's attention. Listeners learn to embrace body language, engage in playful conversations, and build confidence. It's all about transcending the complexities of attraction to create authentic connections.

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Aug 20, 2025 • 1h 15min
310: Why Being Disliked Is Key to Finding Real Love
This discussion uncovers the surprising truth that being disliked can enhance your attractiveness. The hosts delve into the anxiety of seeking approval and the freedom that comes from rejecting people-pleasing behavior. They share personal experiences to emphasize the power of authenticity in relationships. Listeners learn the significance of clear communication and setting boundaries while navigating social dynamics. Insights into self-love and celebrating individual strengths enrich the conversation, heartening everyone to embrace their true selves.

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Aug 18, 2025 • 29min
(Matt Monday): “When a Relationship’s Right, It’s Easy” . . . WRONG!
Rob Dial, host of The Mindset Mentor podcast, dives into the complexities of relationships, challenging the notion that meaningful connections must be hard. He discusses how overcoming difficulties together can enhance intimacy, but warns against toxic dynamics that drain emotional energy. The importance of understanding emotional triggers and the role of vulnerability also take center stage. Ultimately, Rob emphasizes that self-love is crucial for building strong relationships, making it clear that true connection doesn't have to come with struggle.

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Aug 15, 2025 • 7min
(Rewind): They Left? This Reaction Can Shift Everything
When love turns sour, the brain often spirals into panic mode. The emotional chaos after a breakup can feel overwhelming, but acceptance is key. Discover how understanding the dynamics of a split can shift your reactions. Instead of begging for a second chance, focus on self-awareness and emotional healing. Plus, learn about a new app designed to help maintain connections while traveling, and find useful resources to manage those tough feelings. It's all about growing from heartbreak and opening doors to new possibilities.

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Aug 13, 2025 • 1h 23min
309: Stop Overthinking: How to Beat Anxiety in Dating
Anxiety can creep into our love lives, from overthinking a text to wrestling with shifting emotions. Personal anecdotes reveal how anxious attachment affects dating. The hosts share tools to calm your mind and stop catastrophizing. Embracing imperfections and focusing on self-wellness are crucial for healthier connections. They also discuss the importance of emotional awareness and openness in navigating relationships. Listeners gain clarity, confidence, and a hopeful outlook amidst the uncertainties of love.

Aug 11, 2025 • 18min
(Matt Monday): The 4 Stages of Mixed Signals: Which One Are You Stuck In?
Mixed signals can create anxiety and self-doubt in dating. The conversation highlights four distinct stages, starting with the 'pen pal phase' and the complications of the 'almost committed' stage. Listeners are encouraged to practice honest communication and recognize their emotional needs. A three-step system is introduced to help regain confidence and set healthy boundaries. Ultimately, valuing self-worth over external validation is emphasized, reminding us that the right person won’t leave us guessing.

5 snips
Aug 8, 2025 • 18min
(Rewind): This Romantic Gesture Is Actually a Major RED FLAG
Explore the pitfalls of romantic gestures that lack genuine emotional connection. Discover how misaligned expectations can lead to confusion and heartache. Uncover the importance of clear communication and understanding your core values in relationships. Learn to identify your personal relationship goals to navigate love with intention and avoid superficiality. This insightful discussion equips you with tools to spot red flags and fosters healthier romantic connections.

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Aug 6, 2025 • 57min
308: How to Know When to Walk Away
In modern dating, recognizing when to walk away can be tough. Differing lifestyles and values may not always signal doom, but they require tough conversations. Effective conflict resolution and self-awareness are highlighted as keys to growth. The discussion also emphasizes the importance of open communication on future goals, especially regarding parenting. Overall, it's about balancing empathy and recognizing unhealthy patterns while seeking genuine connections in a superficial dating landscape.