
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing!
Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself.
Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix.
In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
Latest episodes

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Jun 27, 2025 • 14min
(Rewind): "Bad Texter" or Just Not That Into You?
Texting can be thrilling in dating, but what happens when the messages start to dwindle? This discussion dives into the confusion that arises from inconsistent texting and how it impacts emotional closeness. It explores the common mistake of overanalyzing a partner's phone habits, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing genuine connection over communication frequency. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their experiences and understand the nuances of early dating dynamics.

Jun 25, 2025 • 1h 3min
302: “I’m nearly 40 and feel rushed to find love…help!”
Feeling rushed to find love as you near 40? Dive into the common anxiety about dating and societal pressures that can make you feel behind. Discover how to manage urgency without panic and the pitfalls of distraction relationships. Learn to embrace the unpredictability of life, communicate your relationship goals clearly, and set healthy boundaries against external expectations. Let go of comparisons and find joy in your dating journey with a newfound focus on intentional connections.

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Jun 23, 2025 • 21min
(Matt Monday): The Brutal TRUTH About Relationships You Need to Hear
Delve into the complexities of modern dating and the paralysis of choice. Discover how the pursuit of the 'perfect partner' can block meaningful connections. Learn the importance of commitment and shared values in relationships. Understand the need to set personal standards and the role of vulnerability. Reflect on how past heartbreaks can shape your expectations in love. This conversation empowers you to build a love life that truly works for you, breaking free from endless comparisons.

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Jun 20, 2025 • 13min
(Rewind): #1 Mindset to Conquer Rejection
Rejection can sting, but there's a deeper emotional pain that might surprise you. Embracing vulnerability is key to overcoming the fear of rejection and living a vibrant life. Time is precious, and letting fear hold you back from experiences can lead to regret. The hosts urge listeners to take small risks daily, reminding them that embracing life fully is essential. Discover how shifting your mindset can help you put yourself out there confidently and start building meaningful connections.

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Jun 18, 2025 • 57min
301: Essential Insights for Understanding an Avoidant
This discussion dives into the nuances of avoidant attachment in relationships. Listeners learn to identify the five key traits of avoidant partners and explore the magnetic pull between avoidants and anxious individuals. The impact of childhood experiences on attachment styles is also examined. Strategies for communicating with an avoidant partner while respecting their space are shared, highlighting the importance of self-awareness and empathy in fostering healthy relationship dynamics.

Jun 16, 2025 • 15min
(Matt Monday): “4 Things They Notice (and Fall for) in the First 30 Days”
Delve into what truly makes someone irresistible in the early dating stages. Discover four powerful strategies to enhance your attractiveness and create intrigue. Explore the delicate balance between emotions and logic in romance, complemented by personal anecdotes. Learn the importance of setting boundaries and non-verbal communication to attract the right partners. Enjoy playful insights to navigate dating while fostering genuine connections. Transform your relationship with life and gain valuable dating advice that'll change the game!

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Jun 13, 2025 • 15min
Rewind: Will YOUR Relationship Fail? 3 Questions to Find Out
Dive into insightful discussions about key questions for evaluating your relationship's future. Discover a new model to identify toxic traits and red flags that can erode your confidence. Learn how aligning decisions with your deeper values can lead to healthier partnerships. Explore the importance of cultivating inner peace versus fleeting pleasures, and hear tips on fostering meaningful connections. This episode offers clarity and confidence for those grappling with uncertainty in love.

Jun 11, 2025 • 1h 3min
300: Letting Go of the Life You Thought You’d Have: Grief, Truth, and Rebuilding Connection w/ Mary Fisher
Mary Fisher, an influential artist and activist known for her powerful advocacy for HIV and AIDS awareness, joins the conversation to discuss profound themes of grief, loss, and rebuilding connections. She reflects on the emotional complexities of losing relationships while still having loved ones alive. The duo emphasizes the importance of radical honesty in fostering deep connections and the process of creating art as a form of healing. Fisher shares insights on building chosen families and the courage it takes to reinvent one’s life and speak one's truth.

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Jun 9, 2025 • 18min
(Matt Monday): 18 Minutes to Move on From Your Ex
Struggling to move on from an ex? Discover why we romanticize past relationships and the surprising truth about closure that can reshape your views. Learn how to embrace present moments rather than dwell on ideals of the past. A captivating analogy encourages releasing regrets to engage fully with current experiences. Shift your mindset to accept reality and open yourself up to new love, recognizing that personal growth can lead to unexpected fulfillment. Let go of fantasies and step into the joy of what’s ahead!

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Jun 6, 2025 • 9min
(Rewind): 5 Pieces of Texting Advice That Lead to Commitment
Discover effective texting strategies to enhance your romantic connections! Learn five key tips to avoid common pitfalls and reignite attraction. This conversation toolkit covers how to spice up your dialogues, balance vulnerability with assertiveness, and foster deeper emotional connections. Plus, explore the 'Momentum Texts' program designed to help guide your romantic journey and build commitment. Transform your communication skills and watch your dating life flourish!