Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing! Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself. Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Episodes
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Dec 8, 2025 • 17min
4 Levels to Love: Which One Are You Chasing? (w/ Lisa Bilyeu) | Matt Monday
Explore the intriguing four levels of love and attraction that can clarify your dating dilemmas. Discover why admiration alone isn't enough and how mutual attraction can create deceptive hopes. Learn the danger of equating immediate sparks with long-term compatibility. Unpack the significance of commitment and how shared values fortify relationships. Plus, gain insight on grieving connections that weren't meant to last and bridge the investment gap to find lasting love.
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Dec 5, 2025 • 16min
What to Do When Someone Breaks Your Trust | Rewind
Betrayal can cast a long shadow on trust in future relationships. Explore the importance of setting personal standards for trust while navigating discomfort. Discover how compassion can trump jealousy and protect the beauty of your connections. Learn about the danger of policing your partner and the importance of logical boundaries. Finally, embrace the idea of loving deeply, ensuring you grow richer from each experience, regardless of the outcome.
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Dec 3, 2025 • 1h 8min
Why Your Relationship Needs Better Arguments
Explore the idea that early arguments in a relationship can be opportunities for growth rather than red flags. Learn how attachment styles influence our reactions during conflicts. Discover techniques for productive conversations and the importance of vulnerability in resolving disagreements. The hosts discuss boundaries to set during arguments to protect the relationship and the significance of repairing after conflicts. They even tackle listener questions about dating fears. This discussion offers valuable insights for anyone navigating love.
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Dec 1, 2025 • 11min
How to Stop Being Disrespected, Ignored, or Violated in Dating | Matt Monday
Navigating dating can feel like a rollercoaster of ghosting and mixed signals. Instead of obsessing over attraction, focus on cultivating self-respect and setting high standards. Matthew emphasizes recognizing red flags in relationships and contrasts fleeting romance with the importance of reliability. He discusses how assertive communication can spark attraction and encourages listeners to uphold their standards consistently. With warmth and humor, he shares tools to help navigate the ups and downs of modern dating.
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Nov 28, 2025 • 22min
What to Do When He Won’t Commit | Rewind
In this enlightening discussion, caller Sabina shares her struggles with a man embroiled in a divorce. Matthew Hussey offers insightful advice on distinguishing reasons from reality, helping her navigate the complexities of commitment. He emphasizes the importance of protecting her time and heart and provides a calm script for communicating her decision. Plus, they delve into the risks of dating someone mid-divorce and the necessity of defining her choices rather than waiting on his timeline. This conversation is all about reclaiming confidence in love!
Nov 26, 2025 • 48min
Q&A Episode: Male Psychology, Stoicism, and Choosing to Stay Single
This discussion dives into the effects of stoicism on men's emotional health, revealing how it can stifle vulnerability and connection. Matthew shares insights on what fosters attraction and how anxious behaviors can sabotage early dating. They celebrate male vulnerability in online spaces, highlighting its importance in fostering deeper relationships. The conversation also touches on why women increasingly choose to stay single, focusing on independence and high standards. Finally, they emphasize clear communication as essential for couples to grow together.
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Nov 24, 2025 • 12min
Men Reveal the 5 Compliments They Can’t Resist | Matt Monday
Discover the surprising power of compliments in creating attraction and connection. A well-placed compliment can dissolve tension and make someone feel truly seen. Learn the four-part attraction formula and why compliments resonate deeply, especially for men. Explore the top five unforgettable compliments that leave lasting impressions, from making someone feel safe to admiring their thoughtful nature. Hear how genuine acknowledgment fosters stronger bonds and shifts perceptions in the realm of attraction.
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Nov 21, 2025 • 16min
Will Your Relationship Last? 3 Questions You Need to Ask | Rewind
Navigating relationship doubts? Discover three pivotal questions to help you decide if it's time to stay or go. Learn how redeeming qualities can balance flaws and uncover dark pairings that quietly drain your happiness. Explore whether your relationship is improving and the importance of combining compassion with standards. Matthew emphasizes tapping into your wisest self for decision-making, overcoming fear and insecurity. This insightful dialogue offers clarity and confidence for anyone feeling stuck.
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Nov 19, 2025 • 1h 5min
Powerful Micro-Habits to Change Your Love Life
Discover how small, everyday actions can transform your love life! The hosts explore 'micro missions' to spark connections with strangers. They discuss the power of conversational hooks and the importance of viewing dating with complexity. Overcoming dating anxiety is also on the table, along with practical advice on effective communication. Plus, they address bad habits that hinder relationships and the vital signs of a good partnership. Tune in for insights that make dating more intentional and fulfilling!
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Nov 17, 2025 • 12min
A Dark Way to Predict If Someone Will Cheat | Matt Monday
Discover the unseen signs of infidelity that can elude even the most intuitive partners. Hear a gripping tale of a woman who spent years in a marriage unaware of betrayal. Explore psychological traps that lead us to ignore red flags, rationalize behaviors, and cultivate a false sense of security. Matthew delves into the iceberg effect, revealing that troubling behaviors might only scratch the surface. Balance vigilance with trust and learn to embrace those unsettling feelings instead of dismissing them.
