Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing! Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself. Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Nov 17, 2025 • 12min
A Dark Way to Predict If Someone Will Cheat | Matt Monday
Discover the unseen signs of infidelity that can elude even the most intuitive partners. Hear a gripping tale of a woman who spent years in a marriage unaware of betrayal. Explore psychological traps that lead us to ignore red flags, rationalize behaviors, and cultivate a false sense of security. Matthew delves into the iceberg effect, revealing that troubling behaviors might only scratch the surface. Balance vigilance with trust and learn to embrace those unsettling feelings instead of dismissing them.
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Nov 14, 2025 • 19min
Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People | Rewind
Ever feel stuck with partners who can’t commit? Dive into the signs of avoidant attachment and learn to spot the red flags early. Discover why the phrase 'You’re too good for me' might actually mean trouble. Understanding your self-worth can help you break free from these cycles. Matthew emphasizes that saying no to the wrong people opens the door to real connections. Shift your perspective on attraction and redefine your dating landscape for lasting relationships!
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Nov 12, 2025 • 56min
The Best vs. Worst Cities for Dating RANKED
Is dating in Chicago really better than in LA? Explore the intriguing debate about dating across various cities and whether location matters. Discover common age-related dating issues, including a listener's dilemma about men preferring younger partners. The hosts share insights on using micro interactions to enhance connections and emphasize treating your city like a tourist to foster openness in dating. Plus, they tackle the complexities of building social networks in smaller towns for better romantic opportunities.
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Nov 10, 2025 • 16min
Should You Stop Taking Dating Advice From Good-Looking People? | Matt Monday
This discussion dives deep into the complexities of dating advice, questioning the value of wisdom from conventionally attractive people. It highlights the struggles faced by those who experience rejection, using a mountain metaphor to illustrate unequal starting points. The conversation emphasizes the importance of empathy and representation in dating narratives, while rejecting superficial aesthetics in exchange for deeper understanding. Ultimately, it's about building internal confidence and resilience, recognizing that love isn't about popularity but finding the right fit.
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Nov 7, 2025 • 18min
The Biggest Fears in Dating (and How to Overcome Them) | Rewind
Diving into the fears that swirl around early dating, the discussion reveals common anxieties like getting too invested too soon and navigating intimacy with multiple partners. Listeners are encouraged to slow down and build a full life to avoid dependence on validation. The conversation shifts to combating obsession by trusting oneself and recognizing it’s not about early charisma but consistent behavior. Practical tips for maintaining perspective on new opportunities help lighten the emotional load of dating.
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Nov 5, 2025 • 1h 14min
Are Long-Distance Relationships Viable? Our Personal Experience
Long-distance relationships can be a mixed bag. Discover how to differentiate between genuine connection and emotional convenience. Learn the importance of making plans, setting boundaries, and recognizing when communication feels one-sided. From navigating tough conversations to creating shared experiences like sleep calls, the discussion offers practical habits to maintain closeness. Explore listener insights on dating in your 30s and the value of past relationships. Plus, a lively round on the essentials of long-distance love keeps things fun and engaging!
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Nov 3, 2025 • 11min
The #1 Mistake People Make When They Like Someone | Matt Monday
Diving into the complexities of dating, the host reveals the danger of neediness when you like someone. Confidence, rather than trying hard to please, draws people in. He shares insights from Bryan Cranston on approaching love with a strong mindset. Techniques for maintaining detachment and energy are discussed, emphasizing that offering value rather than seeking approval is key. Ultimately, the importance of being at peace with yourself and others in your search for love is highlighted, making genuine connections possible.
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Oct 31, 2025 • 15min
How to Heal When Your Ex Moves On | Rewind
Heartbreak can feel debilitating, especially when watching an ex move on. Discover powerful ways to heal, focusing on rebuilding self-worth instead of seeking validation from others. Matthew emphasizes that true healing comes from self-reflection and inner work, rather than seeking rebounds. As you cultivate self-compassion, you'll regain confidence and emerge even more attractive. Learn how to embrace past challenges to foster resilience and transform pain into a stepping stone for a brighter future.
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Oct 29, 2025 • 1h 2min
Q&A With Matthew: When to Chase in Relationships, Matthew’s Family, and Modern Dating Problems
This week, the hosts dive deep into the age-old question: should you chase someone in love? They explore how persistence can either be a romantic gesture or a misstep. Matthew shares insights shaped by the strong women in his family, adding a personal touch. The duo also tackles whether men and women can maintain friendships after romantic feelings fade, along with the challenges of modern dating, including technology's impact and navigating money dynamics in relationships. It's a lively discussion packed with relatable advice!
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Oct 27, 2025 • 18min
How to Heal and Open Your Heart Again After a Toxic Relationship | Rewind
Recovering from a toxic relationship can feel disorienting, leaving a lasting impact on one’s sense of self. Explore how harmful partners can rewire your brain, leading to misplaced trust issues. Learn to rewrite your narrative by recognizing red flags instead of generalizing distrust. Celebrate small steps towards vulnerability and trust, and understand that setbacks are part of the healing process. Gain insights on exiting harmful patterns quicker and trust your ability to uphold boundaries, even amidst uncertainty.
