
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing!
Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself.
Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix.
In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
Latest episodes

May 14, 2025 • 1h 23min
296: 7 Secrets Of Making Relationships Last (Proven by Experts!)
Discover the secrets to lasting love with insights from relationship experts. Explore the surprising results of a 20,000-person poll on what keeps relationships strong. Learn about the crucial 5:1 ratio of positive to negative interactions. Address micro-resentments before they escalate, and master the art of healthy conflict resolution. Uncover unique relationship hacks, including love mapping and emotional buttons that deepen connections. Plus, understand how great couples nurture each other's growth while still navigating the occasional argument.

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May 12, 2025 • 14min
(Matt Monday): How to Choose the Right Person
Are you stuck in a cycle of attracting the wrong partners? Discover five transformative shifts to help you break free from unproductive patterns. Learn how to prioritize your needs and set boundaries for healthier relationships. Explore the essence of lasting attraction, which stems from shared values and being present, not just physical looks. Tune in for practical tips to enhance your dating experience and foster genuine connections that boost your confidence!

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May 9, 2025 • 12min
(Rewind): If They're Sending Mixed Signals, Send THIS Text
Feeling invisible when apart from someone you like? You're not alone! This discussion tackles the confusion of mixed signals in romantic relationships. Learn why clear communication is key and discover two specific text messages that can help clarify your connection. Plus, find out how to set healthy boundaries and prioritize your self-worth amidst the emotional rollercoaster. It's all about transforming frustrating dynamics into healthier, clearer relationships!

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May 7, 2025 • 45min
295: Matthew and Audrey Solo: What to Do When Someone Pulls Away, Managing Social Anxiety, and Our Quarterly Audit for 2025
In this lively discussion, Matthew and Audrey tackle the complexities of romantic interest and social anxiety. They highlight how perfectionism can sabotage communication, leading to disconnection. With tips on overcoming overthinking and embracing authenticity, they explore the balance between showing interest and maintaining personal boundaries. The duo also shares insights on navigating relationships and the importance of self-reflection, all while keeping things relatable with humor and real-life examples.

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May 5, 2025 • 13min
(Matt Monday): Why the Best People Fall for Emotionally Unavailable Partners
Why do wonderful, emotionally intelligent people often end up with partners who can't commit? The discussion reveals five hidden patterns that fuel this cycle of unfulfilling relationships. From the dangers of a scarcity mindset to the highs and lows of instability, listeners learn how to recognize these traps. With insights on breaking free from unhealthy romantic cycles, the conversation emphasizes the importance of rewriting personal love narratives to create healthier connections and find the love one truly deserves.

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May 2, 2025 • 16min
(Rewind): How to STOP Thinking About Your Ex
Stuck thinking about an ex? You're not alone! Discover how to break free from the trap of tying your worth to past relationships. Learn to recognize your true value, which comes from within, rather than external validation. Find out why self-investment is crucial for personal growth and resilience. This guide offers practical steps for reclaiming your happiness and building a fulfilling life centered around you. It's time to invest in yourself!

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Apr 30, 2025 • 59min
294: Why They Act Interested, Then Disappear... (The REAL Reason)
Why do great dates sometimes lead to radio silence? In this new Love Life episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen dive into the mystery of why someone might pull away after what seemed like a perfect first (or second, or third) date. From the elusive “spark” to deeper compatibility issues, you’ll learn surprising reasons why people choose not to pursue another date—and how to avoid taking it personally. --- 💬 Feeling stuck knowing what to say? Download our free guide: 9Texts.com → 9 ready-to-use messages that spark interest, build attraction, and move things forward. 📅 Want live coaching, Q&As, and a supportive dating community? Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com 📩 Have a question or want to send us your Matthew AI answers? Email: podcast@MatthewHussey.com

Apr 28, 2025 • 17min
(Matt Monday): 7 Texts That Build Attraction and Leave Them Wanting More
Discover seven powerful text messages designed to ignite attraction and keep them engaged. Learn how the right words can create tension and desire, transforming your interactions from lukewarm to electric. Say goodbye to ghosting and fizzled conversations, and start crafting connections that leave them wanting more!

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Apr 25, 2025 • 13min
(Rewind): If You Hear THIS, You're About to Get Your Heart Broken
Discover how to identify if someone is truly over their ex, and whether they’re ready for a new relationship. Dive into the art of emotional healing and the importance of personal growth when navigating new connections. Learn to recognize true emotional availability versus mere attraction, preventing past mistakes from repeating. Finally, understand why self-respect should always come first, especially when dealing with unrequited love. Prioritize your well-being in the complex world of dating!

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Apr 23, 2025 • 1h 6min
293: You Know They’re Wrong for You… So Why Can’t You Let Them Go?
Are you stuck in a cycle of tolerating disrespect or avoiding tough conversations? In this episode of Love Life, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen dive into why so many of us stay in challenging relationships—whether romantic, familial, or platonic—for far too long, and how to reclaim your power by setting boundaries and addressing the issues. You’ll learn how to stop obsessing over someone else’s actions and start focusing on why you’re allowing it, plus practical tools for having those difficult conversations you’ve been avoiding. 🎯 Topics include: Why we ignore our needs in the early stages of relationships. How to have tough conversations about what matters to you. The power of teaching others how to treat you—and when to walk away. Why people-pleasing tendencies can leave you feeling invisible in your own relationships. How to break free from unhealthy dynamics and create space for mutual respect. If you’ve ever struggled to stand up for yourself or felt stuck in a one-sided dynamic, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence to take action. — 👉 Try Matthew AI for just $7 (only until April 25th): AskMH.com