
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Relationships are for heroes.
Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself.
In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
Latest episodes

Mar 17, 2025 • 12min
(Matt Monday): The 5 Biggest Red Flags in Anora
Ever had that sinking feeling that something in your relationship isn’t quite right—but you push it aside because everything seems too good to be true? We’ve all been there. And no film captures this better than Anora, this year’s Best Picture winner at the Academy Awards. If you’ve ever rushed into commitment, been swept away by grand gestures, or felt like you’re in a one-sided relationship, then you need to watch today’s episode. I break down the 5 biggest red flags that signal your relationship could be headed for disaster—and how to spot them before it’s too late. --- ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at → http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com

Mar 14, 2025 • 15min
(Rewind): If You Want More From Someone Who’s Not Ready DO NOT CHASE Do THIS Instead
Have you ever dated someone who’s so hard to stay away from EVEN THOUGH they’re not interested in a relationship and you know you should keep your distance? It’s like a drug . . . or the worst kind of junk food . . . even after you swear it off for good, your resolve crumbles the moment they reach out. When you’re in this vulnerable position, the hope that they may change and that things could be different is what drags you back in. And before you know it, you go right back to feeling powerless—holding on to someone who’s not giving you what you need. So how can you break this cycle once and for all? Don’t miss today’s brand-new video! --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

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Mar 12, 2025 • 1h 11min
287: Green Flags vs. Red Flags: How to Tell If They’re Relationship Material
Dive into a refreshing take on relationships by exploring green flags that signify real compatibility. Discover the essential traits predicting long-term success and learn how celebrating each other's wins can strengthen connections. The discussion highlights the importance of curiosity about your partner, while tackling the magnetic pull of red flag energy. With a lighthearted game of green flag dilemmas, the hosts provide practical insights wrapped in humor, making it a fun and enlightening experience on navigating modern love.

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Mar 10, 2025 • 24min
(Matt Monday): 4 Crucial Steps to Know If Someone Is Right for You
Explore the intriguing balance between chemistry and compatibility in modern dating. Discover how technology reshapes relationships, often complicating genuine connections. Learn why strong attraction doesn't always mean a healthy bond and how vital it is to assess a partner's key qualities. Delve into the importance of emotional availability and articulate desires in building rewarding partnerships. Reflect on your past relationships to redefine what truly matters for lasting love.

Mar 7, 2025 • 13min
(Rewind): Want More From Someone? DO NOT Chase; Do THIS Instead!
In today’s Rewind episode, I share very specific principles that will be useful the next time you feel like you’re getting carried away with someone you like. And remember, no one (including yourself!) should make you feel like you’re “not enough.” No matter who you’re dating, by investing in yourself, you can come into any situation feeling like an equal. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Mar 5, 2025 • 46min
286: Get Too Obsessed When You Like Someone? Do THIS | Ft. Yung Pueblo
Join Yung Pueblo, a New York Times bestselling author and esteemed voice on self-healing, as he chats with Matthew Hussey about the nuances of love and relationships. They delve into the challenges of maintaining emotional peace while seeking connection. Yung shares insights on the precarious balance between longing for love and self-contentment. They explore the role of community in personal growth, the importance of intuition in choosing a partner, and compassionate communication during conflicts. Embrace the journey of mindful love!

Mar 3, 2025 • 43min
(Matt Monday): Yung Pueblo on Signs Your Relationship Will Last
This week’s new video is an extra special one: the first half of my interview with poet, meditator, speaker, and bestselling author Yung Pueblo. We talk about specific signs that a relationship will last, the myth of “if it’s right, it will be easy,” how to stop toxic communication patterns, navigating the early stages of dating, and so much more. No matter which stage of a relationship you’re in, this interview is a must-watch. I can’t wait to hear what you think! --- ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at → http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com

Feb 28, 2025 • 5min
(Rewind): How to Get More Serious Without Scaring Them Away
Moving in together can be a pivotal moment in a relationship, but it’s crucial to approach it thoughtfully. The discussion highlights the rising trend of 'turbo relationships,' where couples rush due to unique circumstances. This can build unnecessary pressure and potentially jeopardize the long-term success of the relationship. The importance of trial cohabitation is emphasized as a way to gauge compatibility before making a permanent commitment. Tune in to discover how to deepen your relationship without overwhelming each other!

Feb 26, 2025 • 18min
285: When They Tell You They Can’t Be in a Relationship...
Struggling with heartbreak? Discover what it really means when someone says they can’t be in a relationship. Explore the difference between being 'right' and 'ready.' Is your partner truly unable to commit, or just unwilling to compromise? Learn why love requires actions over empty words. Gain powerful perspective by considering your partner’s views. Finally, uncover how to move forward and reclaim your emotional energy. Letting go might be the key to finding someone who truly values you.

Feb 24, 2025 • 19min
(Matt Monday): Top Questions About “No Contact” After a Breakup
After a breakup, the no contact rule can feel daunting. What should you do if it’s their birthday or you run into them unexpectedly? This discussion tackles the tricky scenarios that may tempt you to reach out and emphasizes the importance of maintaining boundaries. You'll learn why self-respect and emotional clarity are essential for healing. Plus, practical strategies are shared to help rebuild your self-worth and regain confidence in moving forward.
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