Love Life With Matthew Hussey

Are Long-Distance Relationships Viable? Our Personal Experience

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Nov 5, 2025
Long-distance relationships can be a mixed bag. Discover how to differentiate between genuine connection and emotional convenience. Learn the importance of making plans, setting boundaries, and recognizing when communication feels one-sided. From navigating tough conversations to creating shared experiences like sleep calls, the discussion offers practical habits to maintain closeness. Explore listener insights on dating in your 30s and the value of past relationships. Plus, a lively round on the essentials of long-distance love keeps things fun and engaging!
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INSIGHT

Progression Indicates Viability

  • Long-distance works when there is clear progression and mutual intentionality rather than indefinite drift.
  • Without plans to see each other or a horizon, distance easily becomes wasted emotional investment.
ADVICE

Protect Your Dating Options

  • Invest cautiously early on and avoid abandoning local options for someone you barely know.
  • Keep other dating options open until the long-distance connection proves consistent and intentional.
INSIGHT

Distance Amplifies Avoidance

  • Long-distance inherently glamorizes barriers and can amplify avoidance behaviors.
  • People may perform a charming distant version of themselves that's easier than real-life intimacy.
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