Love Life With Matthew Hussey Q&A With Matthew: When to Chase in Relationships, Matthew’s Family, and Modern Dating Problems
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Oct 29, 2025 This week, the hosts dive deep into the age-old question: should you chase someone in love? They explore how persistence can either be a romantic gesture or a misstep. Matthew shares insights shaped by the strong women in his family, adding a personal touch. The duo also tackles whether men and women can maintain friendships after romantic feelings fade, along with the challenges of modern dating, including technology's impact and navigating money dynamics in relationships. It's a lively discussion packed with relatable advice!
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Persist With Standards
- Be proactive rather than prideful when pursuing someone you want in dating or friendships.
- Persist with a standard and know when to stop if your efforts are unrewarding.
Source Determines Attraction
- Persistence reads differently depending on who does it and why; society rewards male persistence more.
- The source of chasing (need vs. conviction) determines whether it attracts or repels.
Grow Robustness By Trying
- Build robustness by facing rejection and surviving encounters to increase confidence.
- Be willing to put in more effort temporarily and stop when it becomes unrewarding.