Love Life With Matthew Hussey The Biggest Fears in Dating (and How to Overcome Them) | Rewind
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Nov 7, 2025 Diving into the fears that swirl around early dating, the discussion reveals common anxieties like getting too invested too soon and navigating intimacy with multiple partners. Listeners are encouraged to slow down and build a full life to avoid dependence on validation. The conversation shifts to combating obsession by trusting oneself and recognizing it’s not about early charisma but consistent behavior. Practical tips for maintaining perspective on new opportunities help lighten the emotional load of dating.
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Set Your Pace, Not Theirs
- Do set boundaries and move at your own pace when someone dates multiple people or pressures you sexually.
- Slow everything to the level you're comfortable with, and insist they match that pace.
Keep Your Life First
- Do protect your life and activities from becoming dependent on someone who barely knows you.
- Keep your friends, adventures, and priorities regardless of early dating signals.
Obsession Signals Self-Trust Issues
- Reframe "I'll become obsessed" to "I don't trust myself" and investigate why.
- Identify counterproductive patterns and change specific behaviors next time you like someone.